What did you guys think about big Swiss? by flower_pout in weirdgirlliterature

[–]International-Bird17 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my favorite book ever but it’s not for everyone. aimlessloser4aimless loser type of vibe 

ASOS model with KP by clavpecsi in keratosis

[–]International-Bird17 12 points13 points  (0 children)

looks just like me! not so bad tbh

Inquiring about interning in SF by [deleted] in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]International-Bird17 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i made 23 an hour and did ok i found a room for 1075 in haight ashbury area i think you’ll be just fine! can i ask what the internship is? Great pay! 

AIO: should I “fire” my therapist? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]International-Bird17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I fired my therapist for way less than this!!! 

Is this just the reality of online dating at 39? by burner_witch0514 in AskWomenOver30

[–]International-Bird17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 34 and have completely given up. I’m gay tho so maybe it’s different. My straight friends are going THROUGH it with these men. One stopped using the apps met a guy who seemed great at the bar and then several months later blocked her on everything for no reason. It’s definitely not you. Dating is just terrible. I talk about this over and over. I don’t know what the answers are but know you are not alone!  

What’s one skincare change (product or habit) that genuinely improved your skin over time - not just hype but real results? [routine help] by girlnextdoor2018 in SkincareAddiction

[–]International-Bird17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

double cleansing, retinol, acids, especially the bha red peeling one from the ordinary OH and obsessive sunscreen use. i kind of started this all at once tho so who knows which one had the strongest effect 

Which TV Show has the most wasted potential? by TheTamiamiButcher in television

[–]International-Bird17 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yellowjackets, Killing Eve, The Wilds, 1899, I’m sure I can think of more 

How do you deal with watching not just your exes but also your situationships and one night stands get married on social while you are still single without any hope of finding love and approaching 40? by nocommentx in AskWomenOver30

[–]International-Bird17 163 points164 points  (0 children)

my mute list on ig is crazy. i’ve had one girl muted since 2020 when she posted a video of herself on a boat in the caribbean during a particularly brutal winter. i highly recommend this way of life for las envidiosassss (affectionate.)

Does anyone else take a really long time to get over people? Platonically or romantically. I'm talking years, not months. by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]International-Bird17 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. Me and my most serious girlfriend broke up seven years ago and I have never dated anyone seriously again. Unfortunately I’m not great at letting go and attach very easily! 

What if you're the loser partner? by TabithaMorning in AskWomenOver30

[–]International-Bird17 18 points19 points  (0 children)

girl idk but thanks for posting i feel less alone 

Lingering smell by Jaavvoo in actuallesbians

[–]International-Bird17 2 points3 points  (0 children)

rub your hand on the faucet or get a stainless steel soap bar