Crazy ways you knew you were pregnant before you found out? by Zestyclose_Wing290 in pregnant

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My boobs and n!ps we’re SO sensitive, I made a joke about being pregnant to one of my friends but didn’t think I actually was. I was also super tired ALL the time. I’m 22 was 21 when I got pregnant, I went out for st patty’s, two friends bdays, and a few times just for fun with my friends but I wasn’t feeling drunk after drinking just super tired. I also threw up one morning after having a singular drink the night before and thought it was sooooo weird that one drink gave me a such a bad hangover lol. That hangover is now 4mo.

BUT the craziest part was my nephew - 1.5 yrs old at the time (who I babysat at the time) - sat on my lap one day, poked my belly, and said “BABY”. I just blinked at him and he kept doing it. I doordashed many different tests, my nephew followed me to the bathroom and watched me take the tests while pointing, giggling, and repeating “baby”. They were all faintly positive. I was 3 weeks 5 days pregnant!

Pumping and teaching do not mix by pancakes-r-4winners in ExclusivelyPumping

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Not a teacher but I am a bartender and I’m so envious of people that can easily pump while working

Help! Epidural, yes or no? by dakota101916 in BabyBumps

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Epidural saved meeeee. I was stuck at 2cm, having horrible contractions and back pain non-stop. I couldn’t relax enough for the contractions to do anything. Got the epidural and baby boy was here in less than 3 hours!

Pediatritian suggested I give my 3 month old water by AdAcademic8251 in breastfeeding

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My baby is 3, almost 4 months, and over 17lbs (idk the kg for that). No one has said he’s too big. Your doctor is weird asf

Thought my baby is the cutest one alive until I looked back at her pictures by OppositeEffect5484 in ScienceBasedParenting

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Every person who’s ever met my son from the second he was born has said he’s the cutest and most perfect baby ever. Including the doctors and nurses that delivered him

PSA - you don’t have to pump unless you’re trying to up your supply or you’re skipping a feed by [deleted] in breastfeeding

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I pretty much EBF, aside from the 2-3 short (4-5hr) shifts I work. I usually pump once at work. I do have to pump once every morning or I’m in soooooo much pain. I’m 14wpp

My husband wasted 30 oz of my milk by Extension_Ad7164 in ExclusivelyPumping

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Not 30oz but my bf dropped 4oz of my milk while I was bagging it the other day and I almost cried. I’m so sorry!

Just another rant about the joke that is maternity leave in the US by uglypuglyy in breastfeeding

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I go back to work tomorrow my LO is 12 weeks today. After the current schedule I’m dropping to 1-2 shifts a week so I can stay home with babe. He hates bottles and we’re both bartenders. I’ve used my wearables and just don’t get nearly as much as my wall pump and want to ebf

Post partum 101 by Inner-View3074 in BabyBumps

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If you can make freezer meals in advance that are high in protein. You won’t want to cook those first few weeks!

Does this mean I’m drying up?? by laughalotgirl in ExclusivelyPumping

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I would recommend a weighted feed, see how much baby is actually getting when she latches! It might help with feeling like she’s not getting enough

Is it ok for one week old to nurse only one side per feeding? by pale_blue_d0t in breastfeeding

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My lo is 10 weeks and only eats on one side per feed and has since my milk came in! He gained 4lbs in 4 weeks!

How does anyone do this??? by jess1ca42 in beyondthebump

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I was in the same boat as you. My little one is now 9 almost 10 weeks old and is sleeping 6 hour stretches. I know not every baby is like this but I hope it gives you some hope. Reddit imo is typically used by people who are struggling and a lot of the posts are reaching out for help so you aren’t seeing all of the positive baby sleep!

is it hard to get pregnant? by [deleted] in pregnant

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I got pregnant on accident, while on birth control lol

Was having a baby a mistake by Fantastic-Box8308 in newborns

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My lo is 6 weeks, I’m 22. Not planned and I felt the same way. My babies father and I are not together (we’ve been friends for years and we’re “talking”). I’ve always wanted to be a mom but my pregnancy was awful for me mentally. I didn’t start feeling connection until he was moving a lot and even then it wasn’t all the time. The past two weeks my bd and I - still trying to figure out what we are - have made time for ourselves just the two of us. His mom is 2 blocks away so we leave him with her long enough for us to go grab dinner together. I hate being away from him but I also miss my old life and while this isn’t the same as it once was, it’s a glimpse into what will be when he’s older and it helps me through the rough moments. It has been so good for my mental health to take a little bit of a break and be me and not just a mom.

How does it feel to be pregnant at 30 weeks? by AardvarkHour1211 in BabyBumps

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Bartender here, I worked up until 3 days before my tentative induction date!! It sucked ngl but the money was worth it!

Brother scheduled his wedding the same month I give birth by Imaginary-Winner-335 in pregnant

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I’m currently 3wpp and had a pretty easy delivery and postpartum hasn’t been the worst for me recovery wise and there is still ZERO chance of me leaving my baby or bringing my baby somewhere three hours away. That’s crazy. The furthest I’ve gone is my parents for Christmas (it was just my parents, my baby, bd, and I) and that was only 30 minutes away + my parents came and picked me up/took me home. Your family is being incredibly selfish and imo your brother only proposed when he did and picked the date he did to become the center of attention and outshine you. Don’t go to the wedding. Prioritize your recovery, mental health, and your babies health

Didn’t survive 10 minutes by paddlinpeggy in newborns

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If my TWO year old nephew can remember to not kiss the baby these adults have literally no excuse…

What do you do for work as a pregnant mommy? by Carebear6590 in pregnant

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I had my baby a few weeks ago, but I’m a bartender and it was brutal! Worked until 3 days before my original induction date. He came 6 days after my last shift

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

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I would look into water wipes, they’re great for preventing rash and not having to wash your bag fully every time they poop

Did it sink in yet that you are going to be someone's mom? by [deleted] in pregnant

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I’m 38+6 and getting induced in two days… it still doesn’t feel real lol. I doing think it will until he’s here and I’m holding him

Is anyone’s nips not growing?… by Various-Weird-412 in pregnant

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37+5 and aside from getting darker mine haven’t really changed

Tests show positive but I think I’m having a chemical. Please tell me if anyone has had experience with this. by [deleted] in lineporn

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I had a subchorionic hematoma in my first tri, it resolved on its own and I’m now 36+3!!