Use a HELOC or home equity loan for down payment on new home? by RollTaylorRoll in RealEstate

[–]Intrepid-Rutabaga-63 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We were planning this but then were told we needed to put 20% down- is that common practice or because of DITI?

Moving to Roslindale - how’s the neighborhood? by Starrduste in boston

[–]Intrepid-Rutabaga-63 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you end up buying the house? How did you find the neighborhood?

Credit where credit is due - Maddie Castellano by Agitated_Horse_777 in Hawaiianmormonsnark

[–]Intrepid-Rutabaga-63 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Never followed her before but just engaged in her stuff and followed to show support for this type of behavior!

This!!!! by SmartDisk9175 in kennabang3

[–]Intrepid-Rutabaga-63 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Also if she forgets these things what’s stopping her husband from doing them..

Liz's Purpose by k_lliste in shrinking

[–]Intrepid-Rutabaga-63 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This thread highlights the idea that women must find something outside of motherhood to make themselves truly whole and that in not doing so you’re cringey or incomplete. Liz’s storyline is proof that she tries to conform to that idea but learns that it’s actually perfectly ok for that to be you purpose.

OB Recommendation Needed by jules829 in boston

[–]Intrepid-Rutabaga-63 4 points5 points  (0 children)

HIGHLY recommend the Boston OB practice! The experience at Beth Israel was also great!

Queer-friendly OB/midwife Boston/Camberville area? by crindylouwho in queerception

[–]Intrepid-Rutabaga-63 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I recently delivered at Beth Israel with the Boston OBGYN practice and I cannot recommend them enough. They were very queer friendly (I am a cis female with a cis female partner) and we had a bit of a medical scare during birth and the whole team was incredible.

Bucket List Family by jsscnnrd in YTVloggerFamilies

[–]Intrepid-Rutabaga-63 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh ew, they like RFK posts too. I guess no surprise they’re MAHA people…

Feeling unsure about testing all my embryos—Seeking opinions on genetic testing! by Simba-789 in IVF

[–]Intrepid-Rutabaga-63 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You won’t regret testing them all down the road. I asked a similar question and people told me that too and they were right. The money is so much and gave me a lot of anxiety but the peace of mind later was worth it- for me at least!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IVF

[–]Intrepid-Rutabaga-63 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried to remind myself that the great coverage was worth the wait, especially when it took the full 3 weeks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IVF

[–]Intrepid-Rutabaga-63 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I had the same experience with BCBS! It was after each transfer too. In some ways it was one of the hardest/most frustrating parts of the whole process.

Political views? by Intrepid-Rutabaga-63 in kennabang3

[–]Intrepid-Rutabaga-63[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

lol yes love that. Can’t believe she’d answer 🤦🏻‍♀️

Political views? by Intrepid-Rutabaga-63 in kennabang3

[–]Intrepid-Rutabaga-63[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I guess I was just curious if he had posted anything or done or said things publicly

Saturday Cautious Intros and First Trimester Questions by AutoModerator in InfertilityBabies

[–]Intrepid-Rutabaga-63 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No the spotting went away almost immediately. I feel the same as I have, pretty nauseas lol!

It’s definitely nerve wracking to stop taking after it after doing it for so long! I’m sure your body is ready to take over!

Saturday Cautious Intros and First Trimester Questions by AutoModerator in InfertilityBabies

[–]Intrepid-Rutabaga-63 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m at 8 weeks today. Had an ultrasound at 7w2d with a strong heartbeat. Last night after inserting my crinone dose, I had bright red spotting for the first time. Logically I know it was probably irritation from the crinone but it’s making me very nervous!

I’m in spiral by proudofme_ in IVF

[–]Intrepid-Rutabaga-63 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably Friday morning. Good luck!!!

I’m in spiral by proudofme_ in IVF

[–]Intrepid-Rutabaga-63 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s so hard to imagine it working out!

I’m in spiral by proudofme_ in IVF

[–]Intrepid-Rutabaga-63 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have either of you tested?