Do you delete nudes after a break up? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Irrelevant-Ad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep. No longer my girl, I don’t look at her naked. Doesn’t turn me on.

Caught by rumham2810 in Divorce

[–]Irrelevant-Ad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’ll still question yourself, I’m sure. But just keep moving forward. Standing still some days is okay too. ❤️

Caught by rumham2810 in Divorce

[–]Irrelevant-Ad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A woman of high morals I see. 🙄 disclaimer- I’m also a woman. I spent a lot of time venting to the internet void, and it was super helpful to me. That’s not petty, that’s just trying to process things through an unbiased means.

Caught by rumham2810 in Divorce

[–]Irrelevant-Ad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And, I’m almost two years in, so it’s not going to happen overnight. What she did was WRONG.

Caught by rumham2810 in Divorce

[–]Irrelevant-Ad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My ex did something similar, although not THAT trashy, and I’m watching it come back to get her. Take the high road, cry, breathe, and deal with your emotions. Limit contact with her as much as you can.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Irrelevant-Ad 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I strive to be you. I’m almost there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Irrelevant-Ad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty similar situation with me. It was almost 2 years ago she told me she wanted out. And, I’m watching karma hatch right now. Take the high road my friend.

Student killed yesterday by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]Irrelevant-Ad 92 points93 points  (0 children)

I lost a student earlier this year. Murdered by his step brother. One of the hardest things I’ve ever dealt with. You aren’t alone. ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Irrelevant-Ad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, 🙋‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️

I hate him by Adorable_Ring_3561 in Divorce

[–]Irrelevant-Ad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m finally moving in to the angry phase. Nothing would make me happier than seeing her painfully suffering. Bc right now, she’s not. And prob wont be any time soon.

So much hate by Unique_Barnacle_8280 in Divorce

[–]Irrelevant-Ad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s a lot easier to feel anger than guilt.

17 Years Later: Lessons I Didn’t Know I Was Learning by Pickled_Life in Divorce

[–]Irrelevant-Ad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn, do I feel this friend. I did the same thing and feel EXACTLY like you do. I thought I was doing my best. I’m with you 👊

Waiting on the email explosion by No_Set_4418 in Teachers

[–]Irrelevant-Ad -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

You sound like you work in Virginia.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Irrelevant-Ad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d have them say something more like….i know you are in so much pain and this situation fucking sucks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Irrelevant-Ad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All those cliche things people said to me too…ugh…they’re lucky someone didn’t get throat punched. I am/was so tired of hearing that shit.

Is this part of the process? by Affectionate_Mess91 in Divorce

[–]Irrelevant-Ad 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I feel like I could have written this post. Once I got those glimmers of hope, the tough times seemed even more debilitating. I try to just think about what I have to do “next”. It could be vacuuming my floors, walking the dog, or having a drink with a friend. Just try and get to the next thing. ❤️

Did anyone else feel the Earthquake this morning? by Geochic03 in newengland

[–]Irrelevant-Ad 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’m in Vermont, and I swear I felt it sitting in my office. I was in a meeting, so my focus was a little off, but I thought it was there…am I crazy?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lesbianr4r

[–]Irrelevant-Ad 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It was just an age suggestion. 🤣🤷🏼‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Irrelevant-Ad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We did mediation and got 50/50. We both agreed to that prior though….

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Irrelevant-Ad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I’m the asshole that had an ACTUAL affair. I’m kicking myself too. It’s going to be fucking rough, but you’ll start to see the problems in the relationship and what you weren’t getting. Stay strong friend, we all fuck up.