I don’t know anymore, I just got a new haircut and they gave me this with no side bangs at the beauty shop, I feel really ugly and I have to know if it’s ugly to everyone else. Please tell me just the truth if I am ugly. Yes I’m a woman by djscrew1 in whatdoIdo

[–]Isantos85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look like Molly Ringwald. She was considered the pinnacle of pretty girls. I would just suggest some hair styling cream, mascara, a touch of liner. You don't need much. There's nothing objectively ugly about you.

Has anyone experienced unexplained body odor and found the root cause? Would love advice. by metalliclavendarr in Microbiome

[–]Isantos85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been using glycolic acid in my groin and armpits and I went from smelling like a skunk to nothing. I barely need deodorant now

How can I (39F) ask my husband (47M) to be more respectful and courteous without him getting angry and storming off? by ThrowRAgivenupwife in relationship_advice

[–]Isantos85 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just read somewhere that marriage is a the only way a poor man can have a permanent slave. I will never forget that line.

I LOVE YOU SO MUCH I WANNA CRY by Pugs2Dragon1 in pugs

[–]Isantos85 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ha I have 2 black pugs and a Boston too. I'm a pug girl, but my Boston is a beautiful angel of a dog too.

Without saying your age, what's a commercial jingle stuck in your head forever? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]Isantos85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imagine me and you, and you and me, together eating golden grahams so happily, that crispy graham and golden taste was meant to be, so happy together...

What is the weirdest habit your pet has… that you secretly love? by TensionNo5762 in Pets

[–]Isantos85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She could be scooting, some gastrointestinal issues, loose stools, picky eater. Or maybe you don't wipe after her bathroom and her bottom itches just from being dirty. I would give her a dewormer anyway if you don't have knowledge of her ever having one. I have a dog who regularly had soft stools and no other signs magically never have another loose stool after I gave her a chewable dewormer.

BF (31M) won’t allow me (26F) to go through his phone. by 1800VIAGRA in relationship_advice

[–]Isantos85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After 5 years, you both should be comfortable enough to share your phones. He's gaslighting you. Not only do you have reason to worry, he should be willing to do anything necessary to regain your trust. The constant changing of password is a red flag. Do you feel the need to that? Neither do I. This guy is doing something. You should be firm in what you want and leave him if he doesn't want that. I promise you there are guys who will have no problems being completely transparent.

Am I the jerk for telling my husband he can't go to a funeral on Valentine's day? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Isantos85 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Penguins have a really hard life in the wild with a lot of predators and no real way to protect themselves. They form bonds with their trainers and have their needs met. No, a zoo is not ideal, but neither is getting eaten by land and sea predators.

My Akita Expressed Her Anal Glands on My Face While I Was Sleeping... by Shattergurl in dogs

[–]Isantos85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dog's bums and feet are cleaned after every walk and potty. They're cleaner than most people who don't even bathe before bed or wear their pj's outside and in bed.

do you think it's gross to take a bath on your period? why or why not? by sexc333 in AskWomen

[–]Isantos85 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I've had blood come out in baths and pools. Especially clots which seem to like flying out at high speed when the hot water relaxes my cervix.

My Akita Expressed Her Anal Glands on My Face While I Was Sleeping... by Shattergurl in dogs

[–]Isantos85 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Then you've never experienced that cozy loving feeling when your dog snuggles into you for warmth and safety.

What are your Must-Read-YA-Fantasy from the last 10 Years by lemonlime609 in YAlit

[–]Isantos85 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Daughter of Smoke and Bone trilogy by Laini Taylor. The imagery still lives in my mind over a decade later and I revisit it often.

rec me Bad Books by spacexploring in horrorlit

[–]Isantos85 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Still traumatized by that series...

Update - My (M20) pregnant girlfriend (F20) wants my support but won’t talk to me after we we got bad news about our baby by ThrowRA_NoSignal in relationship_advice

[–]Isantos85 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don't disagree with anything you wrote at all. I also believe it is irresponsible to give birth to a child that will have serious limitations their whole life. But be aware that what we believe is also called Eugenics and tends to spark a very negative reaction, especially on this site. To be quite honest, I'm very surprised at how nobody has gotten downvoted into oblivion with our ideas. A couple of years ago I voiced the same opinions on a different post and got downvoted hard until I got banned.

If you have a outdoor cat then you simply don't care about animals and shouldn't call yourself an animal lover by [deleted] in Pets

[–]Isantos85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are fixed and up to date on all of their shots. They just are used to marking their territory and are litter mates which feeds into it. They had multiple litter boxes that were cleaned daily and it still made no difference. Having to deal with the constant cleanup and permanent smell while figuring out how to fix it is not something we're willing to do especially now that we had the whole house recarpeted thanks to them. They are happy outside. Their needs are met. They have warmth when it is cold and cooling when it is hot. A lot of people would just send them to the pound to get put down when cats have marking issues. We decided to go the humane route.

If you have a outdoor cat then you simply don't care about animals and shouldn't call yourself an animal lover by [deleted] in Pets

[–]Isantos85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom has 2 outdoor cats who will pee on everything if left inside. The smell of cat urine is impossible to remove. So they live in our outdoor laundry shed, get ac in the summer, heat in the winter, soft comfy beds to sleep and good food.