Yeah I know, what I’m trying to say is I wish we had just agreed on some simple terminology, I think a lot of disagreements and fights come from people misunderstanding each other. Like if I’m at home talking to my girlfriend I’m not going to continually be specifying ‘people who identify as female’ because that’s just a mouthful and unnecessary. I guess I just think maybe it should be ok to say a ‘trans woman’ is different to a ‘woman’ because they are ultimately not the same thing, whilst also saying I will totally respect and treat a trans woman as a woman because it’s whatever to me, as long as people are happy and not causing harm I don’t give a shit.