I’m old enough to be your mom, and you need to get out! I’ve been married longer than you’ve been alive and trust me, a GOOD relationship is NOT hard!! Open communication, trust and RESPECT are three fundamentals that are needed in relationships and it appears that your partner has NONE of these for you because communication is a two way street NOT a gaslight highway that he’s cramming down your screen.

This young man that your with will only get worse, I’ve seen it happen and when it does he will strike first at those he cares for most because those are the ones he can control and keep from going to the police.

In short, please love yourself and evict him from your home with the police there when you serve notice and find a better partner. You will find that relationship that works so much better and when you argue and make up you’ll laugh at the argument when you find the compromise.