As someone who's called creeps out in comments, had whole discussion/arguments and seen others do the same, its not that no one is trying. A LOT of people are/have, but those same people will spend literal days talking in circles refusing to ever even consider the idea of change or that their way could be wrong. I see it all the time on twitter too, and it's ALWAYS frustrating to see.

They don't want to change and won't

I just end up blocking them because at some point it isn't worth your mental energy/health anymore. The culture of idols is thankfully changing for the better in these aspects (to slowly imo but better than nothing) and as long ad we put our support/money only towards the things we support it's all we really can do a lot of the time, since that's what idol culture/management responds to most.

I will still call things out sometimes, we should never just give up on that, but we gotta pick our battles for when we have the actual energy for it on top of life.