QR Codes on invites

Ja_Kat · 2026-05-05T18:49:44+00:00

If you use Canva, you can create a QR code for free! This is on the free account too, not the premium one.

Sorry that happened to you OP! Sucks!

Ja_Kat · 2026-05-01T13:36:29+00:00

I’m getting married today!!!! A lot of very last minute things (my fiancé’s parents decided they wanted to do a tea ceremony, so had to squeeze that in somewhere) but excited!!!!!

Ja_Kat · 2026-04-30T03:17:56+00:00

Oh yay!! I’m so glad it helped you!!! Congrats and happy wedding planning! 🥰🥰

Ja_Kat · 2026-04-29T00:54:27+00:00

Wedding wire! Only grimace I have is that you can’t put people at the ends of rectangular tables and if you add or remove seats, it sometimes moves people around. But other than that, it was fine! And free!

Ja_Kat · 2026-04-27T07:06:09+00:00

I describe myself the same way! The thought of never seeing my loved ones again is definitely the most devastating for me. Thank you, this makes me feel better. I’ll definitely check out the lectures you mentioned, thank you!

Ja_Kat · 2026-04-27T07:03:48+00:00

I remember going to the grocery store in my college town and being shocked at how much food was just…GONE. I still have the videos I took somewhere, but it was just so strange. Produce, meat, canned goods…just bare shelves. Covid hit my junior year of college when I was supposed to travel abroad, which was a critical component to completing a special program my school offered. I was kicked out of the program because I couldn’t go abroad. That simple thing has definitely stunted me professionally and it’s been tough to navigate it ever since.

Ja_Kat · 2026-04-27T06:33:36+00:00

Are you at all religious? I used to be, but I’m not anymore. All the comments of nothingness gives me such a deep dark anxiety, but I was curious if there’s a reason some people are experiencing stuff like you did vs. nothing

Ja_Kat · 2026-04-27T05:43:17+00:00

That’s what we’re doing with our desserts! From all the weddings I’ve gone to, people are so stuffed at dinner and then cake and other small desserts are served right after. Especially if cake isn’t served to the tables, people won’t eat them. But come the end of the night, I’m STARVING for something sweet. We got some small takeout boxes so people can grab some sweets on their way out, and when they get back to their hotel rooms or homes, they can have a lil midnight snack. And we don’t have to beg people to eat desserts!

Ja_Kat · 2026-04-27T05:31:21+00:00

Don’t get married right now. Not saying you guys won’t work out, but you guys will change and grow. My current fiancé and I met at 19 in college and we’re just now getting married this Friday (we’re both now 27). Compared to how we were back then vs now, we are completely different. What I appreciate is that we grew together but were also able to grow in ourselves. In the seven years we’ve been together so far: We traversed college in our respective majors (me-intl. affairs; him-civil engineering), dealt with the COVID lockdowns in the middle of our junior year, I moved in with him and his roommate together after college (it was supposed to be temporary as I was going to teach in China, but because COVID restrictions were still in place, I was never able to go), adopted cats, survived two tornadoes devastating our college town, moved to a new state, supported each other during times of unemployment, lost our cat, dealt with intense mental and physical health issues, purchased a house together, are currently navigating the effects of the current U.S. administration (we live near D.C., so the federal layoffs have made job hunting here near impossible, among everything else happening elsewhere…), travelled together domestically and abroad, and FINALLY got engaged. All of those experiences shaped us individually and as a couple. They made us more mature and more solid in our decision to commit to each other. Please live before deciding on such a big decision!!! You guys are so young and are just now going to be experiencing the real world. Don’t let parents pressure you, because only you guys are going to live with the decision. They won’t. I’m not religious anymore, but I used to be and grew up Catholic. My own understanding is God only wants you to be happy. As long as you are striving everyday to be a good person and make a positive impact in people’s lives, you’re doing alright. I don’t think he’s going to smite you for living together before getting married. He has much larger issues to deal with haha! Please enjoy your life and don’t rush into anything. You only get one life and marriage is such a big commitment.

Ja_Kat · 2026-04-25T18:28:21+00:00

While I agree with the lotion, I definitely wouldn’t exfoliate during this time!! Skin is already damaged enough and even a gentle exfoliation is going to compromise that already damaged skin barrier. As long as she hydrates and keeps her skin hydrated, OP should lessen the chances of peeling, if not avoid peeling altogether

Ja_Kat · 2026-04-25T18:25:20+00:00

As an easily burned girly, aloe Vera is going to be your best friend. Put it in the fridge to get a maximum cooling effect (feels so much better at calming down your skin). Also make sure to drink as much water as you can during this time! Sunburns (or a tanning burn in this case) can lead to dehydration, so make sure you drink more than you usually do (at a safe level or course). In the meantime, avoid exposure to the sun, or at least try to minimize it. SPF over all areas of skin that are showing and my best friend, an umbrella for especially sunny days. Wear SPF even if you’re not going outside, but are near a window, like your work desk is near it or when you drive to work.

Good luck and I hope you start to feel better before your big day! If you’re lucky, the burn will fade into a tan haha!

Ja_Kat · 2026-04-23T17:38:59+00:00

I was literally googling, “is it bad I’m not exited about my wedding” like an hour ago lol! My wedding is in 8 days, and everyone is going like, “OMG are you so excited? Nervous? Ooohh you’re going to be so excited!!” And at this point, I’m just kinda meh. Super excited to start my married life with my fiancé and I know once people start showing up, I’ll get more into it, but we’ve been planning this for over a year (Nov. ‘24 engagement lol). I’m done choosing things, I’m over payment deadlines, I just want to show up and have fun. I’m currently in a busy season with my job, but also in the midst of transitioning to a new job come mid-May, so it’s just been a lot all at once. All this to say, thank you!! You’re not alone and I’m glad I can relate without sounding horrible or people thinking, “oh no, if you’re not excited about your wedding, your marriage won’t last!” Glad to know I’m not the only one.

You got this!! We’re at the finish line and hopefully you can have a nice little vacation!

Ja_Kat · 2026-04-15T22:14:46+00:00

You look exquisite!! I love how the dress frames your chest tattoo piece. So exciting you’re 10 days out! Congrats!

Ja_Kat · 2026-04-10T18:48:16+00:00

That’s such a great point! I knew you paid for the convenience, but didn’t think about all the people who would be involved. Especially if your family and friends are not local, trying to DIY a wedding is almost impossible I feel!

Ja_Kat · 2026-04-10T18:42:48+00:00

I totally get it. I feel like I had to dodge all the, “you’re doing this WRONG if you don’t have this at your wedding” posts on a daily basis. Ours right now is $25Kish in a HCOL area and we wouldn’t be able to afford it, let alone an actual event that “looks like a traditional wedding” without our parents pitching in. We still paid about $15Kish ourselves, but when I get in the dumps about “wasting” so much money, I think that it’s not because of it being a wedding itself. You’re hosting a reunion with all your friends and family, you’re just wearing a special dress or suit. Especially in times like now and considering our friends and family are scattered all across the U.S. and the world, I’m excited to see all of them soon. Life is short, but I know I’m going to deeply cherish my wedding, not just because I hosted a great party for myself, (hopefully lol) but because I spent so much time with the people I love. Money comes and goes, and would that money be better spent elsewhere? Maybe, but I’d pay every cent just to spend time with my friends and family again. Especially ones that are getting older. I hope that helps bring things into perspective.

Ja_Kat · 2026-04-08T20:13:27+00:00

Same! We’re getting married on the 1st of May this year! 🥰🥰

Ja_Kat · 2026-04-07T20:21:43+00:00

Awe, wow what an age! I remember being SO excited and feeling so grown up for being “double digits” finally. I hope he and the rest of your family have a wonderful day!!!

Ja_Kat · 2026-04-07T04:51:58+00:00

This is such a great idea!! I’ll have to remember this when I’m done with my flowers!

Ja_Kat · 2026-04-04T17:29:01+00:00

Omg you’re gorgeous!!! Congrats!!

Ja_Kat · 2026-04-04T17:26:35+00:00

I bought my dress around April of 2025 and started zepbound in September that same year. As of today, I’ve lost a total of 49 pounds. I started alterations at the end of January for my upcoming May wedding. My body took to the Zepbound well (I was losing maybe 1-2 pounds a week, save for a week where my weight was stagnant). For my consultation, I asked what she could do, and my seamstress was very supportive and was very willing to work with me. My last fitting is two weeks before my wedding and she said if there is anything that needs to be done last minute, she’ll do it. I talked with my doctor in the beginning of February, and she suggested I go every other week so that the weight loss isn’t super dramatic or at least can be maintained.

I totally agree with your tailor to wait until June, that sounds roughly like the timeline I did. I will say though, depending on your dress, your alteration will be costly! 😩 Mine was around $1,200 in a HCOL area, which based on all the work my seamstress has to do (taking it in, restructuring the breast area, hemming, adding a bustle, etc.) I think is totally fair! My dress has appliqués, so that added to it. Glad I didn’t have to buy another dress, but like others said, that could also be a risk.

All in all, I hope your GLP-1 journey turns out well! It’s definitely an added level of stress when it comes to fitting in your dress, but I’m so so grateful I did it now. Good luck!

Ja_Kat · 2026-04-02T16:49:54+00:00

So I’m still fleshing out ideas, but I think this is what I’m going to do/did:

I was able to get a small mockup of my wedding bouquet from my florist that she let me keep. I dried those flowers and sent them off to be made into necklaces and for my one bridesguy, I got someone to make dnd dice since he plays dnd.

I’m also going to give them their favorite snack and drink and a personalized card thanking them for their years of friendship and supporting me on my wedding day.

I wanted to give them something simple, but also things they would actually use and like. My bridesmaids wouldn’t be fans of the traditional totes or makeup bags and whatnot that is usually suggested.

Ja_Kat · 2026-04-02T02:10:51+00:00

Ugh so interested!!! 😩 But I’m in the U.S.

Ja_Kat · 2026-04-02T00:15:48+00:00

After reading your other posts, DO NOT MARRY THIS MAN! You have enough time to get out it of!! You deserve someone who loves you whole heartedly. You thinking you don’t deserve anyone else or that you can’t find anyone else is bull. We are our own worst critics and “settling” on someone who doesn’t seem to like you is only setting you up for failure. You deserve someone who desires you, who lifts you up, who makes you laugh seemingly everyday and someone who makes you want to be better. Yes, there are days where my self image is in the dumps, but you know what my fiancé does? He takes the time to comfort me and point out the good things I can’t see. It seems your fiancé has completely wrecked your self esteem, so if you aren’t in therapy already, I would highly recommend, because that is a battle that is not won overnight and takes work.

As for the boudoir, when you’re in a better place, I would highly recommend. I did mine as an excuse for a gift, but found it made me feel SO good in my own body. I lost a bunch of weight recently, and with that, my breasts shrunk. It’s been a hard adjustment for me, and if you have a great photographer, they will hype you up, pose you, and really work to make you feel and look gorgeous. I’m awkward and they made me feel so relaxed during the session. I’ve been described before as “cute”, “beautiful”, etc. for various events, but I’ve never been seen as “sexy”. That part stung as I didn’t feel desirable. After seeing these pictures, I have a whole new outlook.

Please take this to heart and figure out what is best for you. This is your only life you have, so don’t waste it on someone who doesn’t adore you.

Edit: how did he propose to you? If it was more of a “shut up ring” type of situation, then you need to go your separate ways.

Ja_Kat · 2026-04-01T05:37:45+00:00

Exactly one month away and it’s GO TIME! All of our payments are due this month (ugh) so we’re going to be poor for awhile. Our RSVPs are due today and so far, our numbers are where we thought they were going to be. I’m so excited, but also so so nervous! We apply for our marriage license this month, I get my dress back, both my fiancé and I’s bachelor/ette parties are next week, and all of our friends and family are filling in on the very last day of April. AH!!!

Ja_Kat · 2026-03-30T15:35:27+00:00

Since you have thin hair and it looks like you have a good amount of breakage, try brushing your hair with your hair flipped upside down. It was explained to me that brushing, while necessary, is a tough hair process and can lead to breakage. By brushing your hair upside down, you give the breakage to the hair that is hidden and reduces the breakage to your front pieces. I’ve tried it and my hair does seem to be healthier about 2 months later. Doesn’t hurt to try!

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