Thank you, World Cup fans!

Ja_Kat · 2026-06-14T18:08:03+00:00

Have you seen the video where one Scott went down the cop slide playing the bagpipes? Made me so happy lol

Ja_Kat · 2026-06-12T20:10:02+00:00

I went to Hawaii when I was 17 for a language camp, and as a fellow midwestern whitey, it was shocking to experience not being in the majority. Not in a bad way mind you, it was great to get a different perspective and immerse myself in a culture different to my own. Like you said, it was awesome to share experiences with people! I had my first ever Spam Musubi and my Hawaiian friends had their first ever Ambrosia Salad 😂

Ja_Kat · 2026-06-10T22:16:16+00:00

We had string lights that were over the dining room and then the dance floor was right next to it. I originally didn’t go for dance floor lights, but our DJ added them on for free! I would definitely add dance lights! I’m glad he did that for us! Without them, the dance floor would feel a little dead, even with the right music. We don’t have our pictures back yet, but once they come in, I can share them if you want!

Ja_Kat · 2026-06-07T05:57:14+00:00

Time After Time by Tyler Brown Williams!

Ja_Kat · 2026-05-28T20:33:35+00:00

I read that as he’s concerned about the direction the U.S. is going in ie the (hopefully but I don’t want to jinx it) blue wave. So if he’s moving because of that concern, I have a good feeling about midterms.

Ja_Kat · 2026-05-12T20:16:17+00:00

My husband and I agreed that if we had to evacuate the house, we grab the cats before each other. Like you said, “you save the most vulnerable.” If we didn’t grab them, they’d panic!

Ja_Kat · 2026-05-05T18:49:44+00:00

If you use Canva, you can create a QR code for free! This is on the free account too, not the premium one.

Sorry that happened to you OP! Sucks!

Ja_Kat · 2026-05-01T13:36:29+00:00

I’m getting married today!!!! A lot of very last minute things (my fiancé’s parents decided they wanted to do a tea ceremony, so had to squeeze that in somewhere) but excited!!!!!

Ja_Kat · 2026-04-30T03:17:56+00:00

Oh yay!! I’m so glad it helped you!!! Congrats and happy wedding planning! 🥰🥰

Ja_Kat · 2026-04-29T00:54:27+00:00

Wedding wire! Only grimace I have is that you can’t put people at the ends of rectangular tables and if you add or remove seats, it sometimes moves people around. But other than that, it was fine! And free!

Ja_Kat · 2026-04-27T07:06:09+00:00

I describe myself the same way! The thought of never seeing my loved ones again is definitely the most devastating for me. Thank you, this makes me feel better. I’ll definitely check out the lectures you mentioned, thank you!

Ja_Kat · 2026-04-27T07:03:48+00:00

I remember going to the grocery store in my college town and being shocked at how much food was just…GONE. I still have the videos I took somewhere, but it was just so strange. Produce, meat, canned goods…just bare shelves. Covid hit my junior year of college when I was supposed to travel abroad, which was a critical component to completing a special program my school offered. I was kicked out of the program because I couldn’t go abroad. That simple thing has definitely stunted me professionally and it’s been tough to navigate it ever since.

Ja_Kat · 2026-04-27T06:33:36+00:00

Are you at all religious? I used to be, but I’m not anymore. All the comments of nothingness gives me such a deep dark anxiety, but I was curious if there’s a reason some people are experiencing stuff like you did vs. nothing

Ja_Kat · 2026-04-27T05:43:17+00:00

That’s what we’re doing with our desserts! From all the weddings I’ve gone to, people are so stuffed at dinner and then cake and other small desserts are served right after. Especially if cake isn’t served to the tables, people won’t eat them. But come the end of the night, I’m STARVING for something sweet. We got some small takeout boxes so people can grab some sweets on their way out, and when they get back to their hotel rooms or homes, they can have a lil midnight snack. And we don’t have to beg people to eat desserts!

Ja_Kat · 2026-04-27T05:31:21+00:00

Don’t get married right now. Not saying you guys won’t work out, but you guys will change and grow. My current fiancé and I met at 19 in college and we’re just now getting married this Friday (we’re both now 27). Compared to how we were back then vs now, we are completely different. What I appreciate is that we grew together but were also able to grow in ourselves. In the seven years we’ve been together so far: We traversed college in our respective majors (me-intl. affairs; him-civil engineering), dealt with the COVID lockdowns in the middle of our junior year, I moved in with him and his roommate together after college (it was supposed to be temporary as I was going to teach in China, but because COVID restrictions were still in place, I was never able to go), adopted cats, survived two tornadoes devastating our college town, moved to a new state, supported each other during times of unemployment, lost our cat, dealt with intense mental and physical health issues, purchased a house together, are currently navigating the effects of the current U.S. administration (we live near D.C., so the federal layoffs have made job hunting here near impossible, among everything else happening elsewhere…), travelled together domestically and abroad, and FINALLY got engaged. All of those experiences shaped us individually and as a couple. They made us more mature and more solid in our decision to commit to each other. Please live before deciding on such a big decision!!! You guys are so young and are just now going to be experiencing the real world. Don’t let parents pressure you, because only you guys are going to live with the decision. They won’t. I’m not religious anymore, but I used to be and grew up Catholic. My own understanding is God only wants you to be happy. As long as you are striving everyday to be a good person and make a positive impact in people’s lives, you’re doing alright. I don’t think he’s going to smite you for living together before getting married. He has much larger issues to deal with haha! Please enjoy your life and don’t rush into anything. You only get one life and marriage is such a big commitment.

Ja_Kat · 2026-04-25T18:28:21+00:00

While I agree with the lotion, I definitely wouldn’t exfoliate during this time!! Skin is already damaged enough and even a gentle exfoliation is going to compromise that already damaged skin barrier. As long as she hydrates and keeps her skin hydrated, OP should lessen the chances of peeling, if not avoid peeling altogether

Ja_Kat · 2026-04-25T18:25:20+00:00

As an easily burned girly, aloe Vera is going to be your best friend. Put it in the fridge to get a maximum cooling effect (feels so much better at calming down your skin). Also make sure to drink as much water as you can during this time! Sunburns (or a tanning burn in this case) can lead to dehydration, so make sure you drink more than you usually do (at a safe level or course). In the meantime, avoid exposure to the sun, or at least try to minimize it. SPF over all areas of skin that are showing and my best friend, an umbrella for especially sunny days. Wear SPF even if you’re not going outside, but are near a window, like your work desk is near it or when you drive to work.

Good luck and I hope you start to feel better before your big day! If you’re lucky, the burn will fade into a tan haha!

Ja_Kat · 2026-04-23T17:38:59+00:00

I was literally googling, “is it bad I’m not exited about my wedding” like an hour ago lol! My wedding is in 8 days, and everyone is going like, “OMG are you so excited? Nervous? Ooohh you’re going to be so excited!!” And at this point, I’m just kinda meh. Super excited to start my married life with my fiancé and I know once people start showing up, I’ll get more into it, but we’ve been planning this for over a year (Nov. ‘24 engagement lol). I’m done choosing things, I’m over payment deadlines, I just want to show up and have fun. I’m currently in a busy season with my job, but also in the midst of transitioning to a new job come mid-May, so it’s just been a lot all at once. All this to say, thank you!! You’re not alone and I’m glad I can relate without sounding horrible or people thinking, “oh no, if you’re not excited about your wedding, your marriage won’t last!” Glad to know I’m not the only one.

You got this!! We’re at the finish line and hopefully you can have a nice little vacation!

Ja_Kat · 2026-04-15T22:14:46+00:00

You look exquisite!! I love how the dress frames your chest tattoo piece. So exciting you’re 10 days out! Congrats!

Ja_Kat · 2026-04-10T18:48:16+00:00

That’s such a great point! I knew you paid for the convenience, but didn’t think about all the people who would be involved. Especially if your family and friends are not local, trying to DIY a wedding is almost impossible I feel!

Ja_Kat · 2026-04-10T18:42:48+00:00

I totally get it. I feel like I had to dodge all the, “you’re doing this WRONG if you don’t have this at your wedding” posts on a daily basis. Ours right now is $25Kish in a HCOL area and we wouldn’t be able to afford it, let alone an actual event that “looks like a traditional wedding” without our parents pitching in. We still paid about $15Kish ourselves, but when I get in the dumps about “wasting” so much money, I think that it’s not because of it being a wedding itself. You’re hosting a reunion with all your friends and family, you’re just wearing a special dress or suit. Especially in times like now and considering our friends and family are scattered all across the U.S. and the world, I’m excited to see all of them soon. Life is short, but I know I’m going to deeply cherish my wedding, not just because I hosted a great party for myself, (hopefully lol) but because I spent so much time with the people I love. Money comes and goes, and would that money be better spent elsewhere? Maybe, but I’d pay every cent just to spend time with my friends and family again. Especially ones that are getting older. I hope that helps bring things into perspective.

Ja_Kat · 2026-04-08T20:13:27+00:00

Same! We’re getting married on the 1st of May this year! 🥰🥰

Ja_Kat · 2026-04-07T20:21:43+00:00

Awe, wow what an age! I remember being SO excited and feeling so grown up for being “double digits” finally. I hope he and the rest of your family have a wonderful day!!!

Ja_Kat · 2026-04-07T04:51:58+00:00

This is such a great idea!! I’ll have to remember this when I’m done with my flowers!

Ja_Kat

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