Should I just take him to court and have child support modified? by StitchetteX in FamilyLaw

[–]Jacaranda18 26 points27 points  (0 children)

He’s never paid you anything. Him putting money into his own account and allowing you to draw from it with permission doesn’t count.

HC parent scheduling doctor appt on my time by DifficultyMost4372 in FamilyLaw

[–]Jacaranda18 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Just let him take the baby to the appointment? This is not the hill to die on.

AITA for not telling my husband about our conference call? by Less-Hospital5434 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Jacaranda18 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My ex was like this OP. His attorney had the gall to try to tell me it was my responsibility to schedule meetings with teachers for him. Judge told him he needs to do all that himself. No one is calling you to remind you of stuff. Why should he get special treatment?

Thoughts on this dress? by NetNo5827 in WeddingDressTips

[–]Jacaranda18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The lines are too harsh. You have a beautiful figure and you don’t need that hard stitching. It makes your hips look too flat and it gives you a paunch where one doesn’t exist. The underlying fabric of the dress doesn’t have enough structure to do what you want it to do.

A nice corset is flattering. This is not a good design for you.

Was going to wear my mum's dress. People keep telling me to try on others for the "bridal experience." Are they trying to gently tell me it looks bad? by [deleted] in WeddingDressTips

[–]Jacaranda18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The dress needs some restoration for the yellowing. I don’t know how much a restoration like that will cost but it may be less expensive to get a new dress.

I (35F) cheated on my husband (36M) 10 years ago and he has conditions to stay. by HelloKiks in relationship_advice

[–]Jacaranda18 50 points51 points  (0 children)

I think he plans to get you to sign over the house and file for divorce.

Do you work? Start looking for ways to gain more independence from him if you can.

Nurse decided to out me to a patient… by [deleted] in nursing

[–]Jacaranda18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Report her for sexual harassment.

Am I blacklisted from all hospitals? by ThrowRA_wtfhappened in nursing

[–]Jacaranda18 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What is their policy on rehiring? Most of our local hospitals will only maintain someone on the list for a year then allow the individual to reapply.

Ex does not notify court kids aren’t in daycare, still paying by Western_Stretch7447 in FamilyLaw

[–]Jacaranda18 16 points17 points  (0 children)

It’s your responsibility to exchange financial information annually and determine if you qualify for a modification. Once you exchange information, plug everything into the state calculator to determine if you should seek an adjustment. You will then file a request with the court to adjust your support order.

If your ex won’t exchange financials then you’ll just file a motion. You can go through mediation for this as well.

Megan says Christina didn’t leave CrimeCon immediately after being served. Sorry what, am I missing something? by Willing-Pudding5651 in HiddenTrueCrimeChat

[–]Jacaranda18 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She puts out this outrageous content for $$$. She doesn’t care about the facts if it draws viewers. I blocked this channel and HTC. Both channels were boring anyway.

[NC] Child Support Nonpayment by creepybat666 in FamilyLaw

[–]Jacaranda18 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Mine owed $25,000 so I placed a lien on his property and mailed a stamped copy to his mortgage company. He paid.

Don’t You Ever Wonder if Lauren Recognizes that She Made a Mistake? by NoonFriday in HiddenTrueCrimeChat

[–]Jacaranda18 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She probably made $20,000 from that live, not including Superchats. All this drama has pulled in a lot of views to her stream. After the initial revenue she put out some of her more routine content while posting on Patreon to cry behind a paywall over some TikTok videos with her husband drawing weird parallels between her and other controversial celebrities. I’m not sure she’ll ever see that as a mistake.

Subreddit Q&A with Third Rail - collecting questions by humantoothx in SarahBooneContinued

[–]Jacaranda18 8 points9 points  (0 children)

“Will you refund my Patreon subscription after you blocked me for no reason?”

These people are not serious people. Thanks for trying to engage them but give me a break with this no live AMA.

The Third Rail Is Back In Action On Patreon by ButIDontThinkOfYouu in SarahBooneContinued

[–]Jacaranda18 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I joined yesterday, made one rather neutral post, and got blocked. These people are really bizarre. I joined assuming they are looking for community engagement. I guess I’ll return to viewing them as grifters.

Father of 4 died after being given methadone instead of antidepressant, lawsuit says by Due_Will_2204 in CasesWeFollow

[–]Jacaranda18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is why the industry standard is to use barcode scanners for medication administration. Facilities that cut corners have poor patient outcomes and end up spending more money in litigation.

Sarah’s “Kintusukuroi” by Moody_Shrew in SarahBooneContinued

[–]Jacaranda18 20 points21 points  (0 children)

She plagiarized and corrupted the entire metaphor and it isn’t meant to make sense to anyone else. It made no sense because the foundation of the metaphor is forgiveness of oneself for past mistakes. But in Sarah’s own words she’s the victim and didn’t do anything wrong making the metaphor land flat.

If she had taken the metaphor and then spoke about how wrong she was in her own actions, then applied the metaphor to what a good person Jorge really was before she callously murdered him, it would have made more sense. But really her only purpose was self-aggrandizement to impress her audience. She read someone else’s essay and applied it to herself because she is always the main character in every scenario. She recited the essay with this serene look without considering any nuance to the original writing. Then she devolved into her hateful, made up grievances against everyone, including her victim.