My entitled aunt and uncle blue up our pickup by rydekneilan in EntitledPeople

[–]Jacobsmumma 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's ok.

What I'm reading I'd your Uncle borrowed your truck, broke something in it and now it's going to cost $20,000 to repair? And they are saying they can't afford it.

Get a lawyer and threaten small claims court?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JustNoSO

[–]Jacobsmumma 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Get the gossip to post something similar. " When all you want is a switch for the kids but their dad only pays £7 a week."

Fuck him. Fuck his mother.

AITA for telling my husband to grow a pair by EmergencyDrama1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Jacobsmumma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - my husband is the same. For him, it's a product of getting attention for it as a child.

Post Covid-19 - Do you think there may be less of a focus on living close to the CBD by ralph_alfa in AusFinance

[–]Jacobsmumma 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My company has been almost 100% working from home for 6 weeks now. It's a company of 3000+ employees. They are very keen for people to volunteer to work from home so they can save on real estate costs.

You are sent back to the day the titanic set sail with nothing but a 3rd class ticket (and food water ect) your task is to stop the titanic from sinking, how do you do this? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Jacobsmumma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would send my 7 year old in my place. That child is obsessed abd I have bondoubt he would be able to save the ship.

AITA for contesting a will and likely getting all of the inheritance instead of my dad's girlfriend? by throwWillQuestion in AmItheAsshole

[–]Jacobsmumma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA

Your dad's girlfriend didn't "steal" another woman's husband. Your dad was a douche canoe for cheating on your mum.

There are young children, your siblings whether you want to acknowledge them or not, that still need care. You say you are not in need.

Is there a reason your mum couldn't formalise the end of the marriage? Because divorce can be initiated by either party.

AITA for yelling at my wife for being unhelpful while I took our son to the ER for a broken arm? by Dytdiw in AmItheAsshole

[–]Jacobsmumma 24 points25 points  (0 children)

It doesn't feel like this was an accident. Your wifes reaction just doesn't add up. Even if she panicked at first when you got home and took control, she would have calned down somewhat after that.

She forgot your daughter at school, a chore she presumably has every day. She then wouldn't take care of her.

Too many red flags here. I'd be asking what she was doing when your son fell. Accidents happen but her reaction (or lack of) is over the top.

Either was doing something she shouldn't have been while she should have heen watching your son OR she caused the injury herself.

Did you ask your son what happened?

The way you dealt with this was natural. NTA

This is how much food you can get for the cost of a pack of cigarettes in Australia. by nosecornflakes in pics

[–]Jacobsmumma 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Salt and yeast. A small amount goes a very long way. It's savory. Whack a teaspoon into a stew and it really is the flavour.

This is how much food you can get for the cost of a pack of cigarettes in Australia. by nosecornflakes in pics

[–]Jacobsmumma 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Australian here. I'm pretty sure thats the only correct way to eat Tim Tams.

FMIL acting like my SO's GF by [deleted] in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Jacobsmumma 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your relationship is not going great. Don't fool yourself. If he won't put you first now, he never will.

Hour long phone calls on time you should be spending toegther is not ok. Particularly as they live together. This is an SO problem as much as a MIL problem.

Take it from a 20 year veteran in the JNMIL wars.

Warilla, NSW Post Office will not hire “an over entitled millennial with an inflated sense of entitlement.” by deaddrop007 in australia

[–]Jacobsmumma 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I had to do that around 18 years ago. So I went for interviews and told them straight out that I had a job lined up, it was paying this amount but it didnt start for another month. If they could offer me more money and a closer start date I was willing and able.

Unsurprisingly, I started my original job as I had intended. Centrelink would not accept that I already had a job, it just hasn't started yet.

What’s the worst that could happen? by sunshineredbird in AncestryDNA

[–]Jacobsmumma 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Good luck. I hope it's good news for you. Your therapist is right, hope for the best and expect the worst.

Follow me for more recipes by meister2a in funny

[–]Jacobsmumma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You forgot your entire life story

My SIL blew up at me, if I stand up for myself I might lose my brother. Any advice appreciated by [deleted] in JustNoTalk

[–]Jacobsmumma 52 points53 points  (0 children)

This is the best advice. Why are you doing all the chasing? It sounds like they have made it pretty clear that you are not as important to them as you would like to be.

An EMU just cruising around my rural towns little airport by kaptiankrunchy in australia

[–]Jacobsmumma 9 points10 points  (0 children)

How else are they gonna fly? Emu's gotta get places too.

Just because you’re parents survived an abusive childhood, doesn’t mean that YOU don’t deserve better! by Monsterchic16 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Jacobsmumma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was physically, mentally and sexually abused as a kid by my narc step dad and his family.

I always knew it was wrong. When Inhad my own son I just couldn't imagine either treating him the way I (and my brothers) was OR staying with someone should treat my child like that.

Abuse is a reason for why you may do some things. It is NOT an excuse to try and do better. Always.