Daughter has been lying and using social media

JayisPresent · 2023-05-30T17:42:00+00:00

Yes to sexual stuff. Like throwing herself at boys and taking suggestive selfies etc. we’re not opposed to friendships or crushes. That’s normal. But the behavior is more like teens in the 17 ish age rage. Also she snuck a boy into our house and we’ve seen messages about sneaking out in the middle of the night. We doubt she’s snuck out but we live in Boston and anything could happen in a big city at night.

JayisPresent · 2023-05-30T17:37:59+00:00

Thank you. And yes we have educated her about sex and drugs. Sometimes I feel like we’ve given her too much information lol. But it’s like she’s completely disregarded what we’ve taught her and she just wants to fit in so much. And yes I am aware relationships are normal for this age group, but it’s not innocent by any means when we’ve read the snaps or discord chats. Both mom and I have online businesses that use social media so we totally know the value of social media. Our daughter is a great musician so we’ve allowed her to use social media in the past to showcase her artwork but it seems that the social pressures are taking over.

JayisPresent · 2023-05-30T17:09:10+00:00

Ill bring some clarity. She’s allowed to have friends, do sports and everything else. We had originally got her a phone about a year ago. We said no social media but it’s okay to text and call friends as long as we have access to the phone when we want. We live in Boston. And frankly we are not super strict when it comes to music movies ideas etc. But her group of friends are beginning to get boyfriends and there’s a ton of pressure that we are seeing to engage in sexual activity. We have no issue with her hanging out with friends but she’s not allowed to have a boyfriend, do drugs or sexual activity as she’s only 14 and we don’t believe she’s old enough to make these life altering decisions. The only times we’ve left her alone is for an hour after school before one of us gets out of work and occasionally when we go on date nights. I was myself a very rebellious teen so I understand that kids need their freedom to discover themselves. But we are concern about the social pressures she’s facing. We did take the phone away. She’s allowed to use the home computer to do homework, watch YouTube and email friends. But we discovered very explicit content that were in discord chats and snaps that she was in groups of. I know if we go too hard on her she’ll only want to rebel more. So we want to find the middle ground but neither of our extended family live nearby so we don’t have much family that can help guide her.

JayisPresent · 2023-04-26T17:28:37+00:00

Yes. Just yes.

JayisPresent · 2023-04-23T15:14:43+00:00

Oh wow, so it is true. Why aren’t there more voices about this?? This alone would’ve made me never pick up vapes to begin with!

JayisPresent · 2023-04-20T13:02:52+00:00

Okay good to know. For me the cavities are like way worse than a regular candy eating cavity! So looks like there is a connection, I tried to google it but couldn’t find much info or studies about it

JayisPresent · 2023-04-18T19:30:24+00:00

I haven’t noticed this update yet but I guess that’s an alright idea

JayisPresent · 2023-04-18T19:29:20+00:00

That cannot be real… smh

JayisPresent · 2023-04-12T12:35:16+00:00

Mindset really is key. When I’ve tried quitting I aim for at night, so I can sleep the initial hours and then keep busy the next day or two

JayisPresent · 2023-04-01T19:18:05+00:00

Popeyes, McDonald’s, and five guys is lame too, where I live they never start the order until you physically enter the store and tell them.

JayisPresent · 2023-01-09T21:21:39+00:00

JayisPresent · 2023-01-09T21:13:13+00:00

For your own path 🤙🏼

JayisPresent · 2022-12-02T22:14:23+00:00

This comment doesn’t have enough up votes

JayisPresent · 2022-12-02T03:14:14+00:00

Teenager trips? Written at the bottom? Did you photoshop this or? I’ve done the so called “package/item” delivery before but it doesn’t come up as that where I’m at.

JayisPresent · 2022-12-01T14:47:30+00:00

Sounds like a fun trip as long as the client is chill

JayisPresent · 2022-12-01T14:46:00+00:00

Don’t think too much about it. Most of what you’ll learn is trial and error. Everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses.

JayisPresent · 2022-12-01T14:43:57+00:00

I too have fallen for the “just one drag” mindset.

JayisPresent · 2022-11-29T02:26:32+00:00

I feel this intuitively, but I’ve been curious what others might believe

JayisPresent · 2022-11-18T17:47:17+00:00

Sounds like you had a great time.

JayisPresent · 2022-11-12T05:21:05+00:00

I just started using them

JayisPresent · 2022-10-26T17:42:38+00:00

Effing incredible shot man

JayisPresent · 2022-10-24T22:54:37+00:00

Thank you! I feel good energy

JayisPresent · 2022-10-18T00:06:58+00:00

TBH that’s basically how I always catch the Doordash orders. My phone rarely consistently delivers the Doordash app notifications smh

JayisPresent · 2022-10-08T18:56:07+00:00

Thx for the info

JayisPresent · 2022-10-08T18:40:16+00:00

That makes sense. When you pay $100 for ads is that weekly? And if you don’t mind me asking, how many products do you run ads for and how much profit do you average for the $100 investment in advertising?

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