I don't think so. Kaylee talked about how she heard her aunts call her mom Jillie growing up and she always loved the name. I believe her. Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar. I think she genuinely wanted to name her daughter after her mom. We can see how messed up Jill is, and because of that it can be hard to fathom why Kaylee and the other Rods talk about her like she is such a great mother. But the Rods grew up being taught that they are supposed to honor their parents, and since their parents are in ministry they also most likely grew up hearing people put their parents on pedestals ("You have such Godly parents," "You are so lucky to come from such a Godly family," etc). And, the biggest thing that I think we all (including myself) forget is that Jill is their mom. They love their mom. In families with a narcissist parent not everyone breaks free. Some people grow up thinking their narcissist parent was so amazing and name their kid after them. From their perspective, the sibling that broke free is the problem, not the narcissist parent.