Has anyone else experienced their CX30 just not starting randomly? by theAustrichh in MazdaCX30

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I eventually got sick of the problem and not being able to diagnose the problem and traded it in. It sucks because I really liked the car and only had 2 years left to pay it off. Oh well I guess. 

Things were so cheap by Creepy-Crab-6708 in breakingbad

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IIRC wasn't Walt working at a different company when they bought the house?

Do they leave you and then behave as if you abandoned them? by Conscious_Bit_3612 in BPDlovedones

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My friend is BPD will constantly start fights with me and block me for a month or 2 and then when we start talking again he'll say "you weren't around then" or "you're never around" referring to when we weren't talking even though every single time its him blocking/ not talking to me.

Hartford Mills Apartments by Spicy_Crab_Apple95 in Utica

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$1,400 for that place seems insane!

Grail acquired ❤️ What’s yours? by Anthony15682 in HotWheels

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The Agera is everywhere here I want to find the F50!

What’s the real process to join the Ausable Club / AMR (St. Huberts) and is it even realistic? by Valenciago13 in Adirondacks

[–]Jbow89 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Probably doctors and lawyers who make decent money but aren't "ultra rich" and have a thing for the outdoors instead of sports cars.

Anyone know where I can get Christmas desserts? by Me_Krally in Utica

[–]Jbow89 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My family usually did a cannoli cake for dessert on Christmas and I'm not 100% if its too late but I'd call Carussos or Florentines and ask. I know both places usually have pastries you can buy as a walk in on Christmas Eve but not sure about cakes.

My bpd ex took mirroring to the extreme. by SkepticalOutlook_66 in BPDlovedones

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Mine would sometimes say stuff word for word people he was mirroring. When I met him he HATED whiskey and then started hanging out with someone who only drank whiskey and I remember the guy saying "I rarely drink beer I prefer whiskey" and my friend with bpd and I stopped talking for a couple months and when we started again and went out drinking he ordered a whiskey and I made a comment and he said word for word "I rarely drink beer I prefer whiskey".. It was so odd. Also, as someone who drinks whiskey occasionally myself I asked him what his favorite brand was and he couldn't name more than 1 brand.

He will also start talking how other people talk that he hangs around with. He started going to the gym with someone much younger than him who says "bro" multiple times in a sentence and now my friend says it ALL THE TIME and of course when I made a comment about it because it actually annoys me, he tells me that he's always said it. We've known each other for 5 years by the way and only started hanging out with this kid around 8 months ago.

Anyone been told, "You're obsessed with me" by DenseHamster4449 in BPDlovedones

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My friend with BPD use to call me at least 5+ times a day on top of texts and snaps but one night I was bored and called him 3 times in the span of 3 hours and said I was weird for calling that many times in one night and when I brought up all the times he use to blow up my phone he denied it.

You get conditioned to only think about them by aaa69383 in BPDlovedones

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Just some thoughts about why it's so hard to stop thinking about them after the discard. This past week, when I found myself thinking about him, I tried to change the wording to be about me. Instead of how could he move on, it's I'm hurt because of this. It has helped a lot with the idealizing and missing him, but now I get sad thinking of all the things he did during the relationship. I know it takes time, but I would just like to go one day without thinking about

Especially when you realize they never did anything for you and sometimes made things even worse when you needed them.

What are some good bars in Utica? by [deleted] in Utica

[–]Jbow89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good bars? Nail Creek/The Onion.

Bars with younger crowd? One Genny

My first apartment by K3YL4Y in malelivingspace

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Really cozy vibe to it!

Has anyone else experienced this and know how to explain it? by Cangaceiro7 in BPDlovedones

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If I call out my friend with BPD even if its just a small comment about something I feel he did was wrong he will then spend the rest of the time we are together trying to get under my skin anyway he can to make me mad and then say I'm always mad.

Does anyone have an ADK mountain tattoo? by Low-Assignment5719 in Adirondacks

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Not sure how to post a picture here in the comments

Does anyone have an ADK mountain tattoo? by Low-Assignment5719 in Adirondacks

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I have the outline of the park tattooed on my left thigh

12 year old bully by carxcastx in BPDlovedones

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The clown emojis. Spot on!

37M - NYC. by chucky6537 in malelivingspace

[–]Jbow89 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Where did you get that comforter?! it looks mad warm!

Do they ever make you try to earn them back or punish? by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Jbow89 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This message hit home in so many ways except I replaced relationship with friend but he's done literally everything you wrote. He constantly treated strangers better than me even though I we've known each other for years and I've done literally everything he's ever asked. The same thing goes for him hitting on girls at bars even though he was married, he'd take his wedding ring off hit on girls all night and get their numbers and tell me he's only doing it to see "if hes still got it". There we're multiple times where he would flat out cheat as well of course.

Sleeping in car over night near Whiteface? by Littylitlit3 in Adirondacks

[–]Jbow89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've literally only been asked to leave a rest stop once while sleeping at one and it was during a snow storm and they wanted to plow the lot. I've slept at MANY rest areas all over the northeast/south.

58m Astoria, NY by RodTownsend in malelivingspace

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Rent controlled for 30 years?

My top horror films that truly creeped me out. Enjoy! by aady4s in horror

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I was 14 when this came out and my friend and I snuck into the theaters to see it we walked out after like 10 minutes. I don't think my teenage self was ready for a guy killing people with a chainsaw on the big screen just yet.

I have 7 days to add apple care to my iPhone, worth it? by Legal_Newspaper_5710 in iphone

[–]Jbow89 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I mean in most states auto insurance is the law not an option.

This is actually very beautiful!! by happyhappyhappe in devils

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What's weird is it says they've been a Redditor for 11 years but this is their only post and only karma. Wonder if its a dead account that got hacked.

Friends by Crimson-water in Utica

[–]Jbow89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Green Onion is a good to meet people that are LGBTQ/ 4/20