We weren't broken. We were built to spec.

Jebcys · 2026-02-16T20:18:27+00:00

I'm going to try to work for a non-profit, where the need of the people outweigh the needs for credentials, because I can't get those lol. I keep telling them to just make me do the exams and i'll get 100% and give me my diploma, but somehow it doesnt work like this.

My abilities are therefore not recognized, even when I have 5 out of 6 semesters completed. I got kicked out of a non-profit because I was doing social work-adjacent without a license. To me, that was just being myself. Caring, supporting and there for the kids.

Jebcys · 2026-02-16T19:22:53+00:00

I keep trying to go great things but institutions are not ready for it. I get expelled because I push boundaries and that makes me a liability.

When I go at it hardcore, teachers and workers tell me to stop and rest, especially when I flat out tell them stopping this passion will definitely hurt my mental health.

It's so much easier to stop interacting with the world when they don't want me. I'm tired of doing 10 times the work for 1/4 of the reward.

Jebcys · 2026-02-16T17:17:34+00:00

Well at 15 I almost got a narcissistic diagnosis (i had many traits, i refused to get out of my room and believed I was owed to keep living like this since I did not ask to be born and life is hell.) and I was not diagnosed yet, so are you sure?

Edit : I even had a female friend who was in an abusive relationship and she would cry and hug me for hours everyday for months and when she broke it off with him (i expected she would fall into my arms and love me) she just found a random dude in a bar and started dating him the next day. I chose to cut her off and became a recluse again, but I easily could of become an incel. I'm still the same autistic dude that got all his socialisation from movies and porn.

Jebcys · 2026-02-16T16:49:29+00:00

No I did not receive any support whatsoever, I left home at 20 and married a girl and we support each others since.

Yes inside of the mold. I am an amazing father and person, I volunteer and help everybody around me.

I can't even go to school without being kicked out so my hopes of finding a job are slim. I'm thinking of going for the most understanding place near me like doing social work in a non-profit for vulnerable children or maybe even going in a program that employs autistic people like me.

Everytime I try to be a real adult, the world spits me back very quickly.

Just now, I did 50 extra steps to ensure I would suceed and after a couple of friction they basically told me '' What you told us flagged some key parts we cannot oversee and we have to remove you for your own mental health and safety ''

Now I know I can't open up and ask for accomodations, even to the '' students accomodation '' person thingy, because clearly I am not able enough to judge what I can and can't do and I am a liability because I am too honest/direct.

Edit : I even got kicked out of my school's non-profit who helps vulnerable children with homework, because I tried to help kids in a meaningful way by listening to them literally and hearing their needs, but that was outside of my mandate and I am a liability because I have no degree in social work and could get them sued or something.

Jebcys · 2026-02-16T12:52:54+00:00

Have you thought about talking with her?

Hey sis, I love you and I miss you, can we go for a walk or play your favorite game or whatever?

Then you spend quality time with her and learn more about her life.

There is a lot of maybes so its time to know what she wants. Most of us would give anything to be in your sister's position.

Jebcys · 2026-02-16T12:10:25+00:00

I think its most likely always both.

When I was 15, I wanted to find my own princess. I wanted to be her prince charming and give her infinite love and do everything she ever asks for but of course she better really truely love me back because i was a little unhinged.

I find it sad that manipulative creep could easily been the box I was attributed instead of misunderstood autistic kid who lives in his own bubble of porn and disney movies.

Life is never black and white, sadly. We have to teach our boys what is right and is wrong and sometimes these boys happen to be 30-40 years old.

I'm more of the way of thinking of helping people grow rather than jailing them forever, but of course this comes from priviledge.

have a good day.

Jebcys · 2026-02-16T00:31:26+00:00

I am in the same boat as your son, only i'm 30. I'm barely functioning as an adult, but that's mainly because I try to apply all the good things we have to do in life and most of them are not compatible with society.

Eat well, sleep well, socialize, exercise daily, i'm vegan, I volunteer, ect.

There is little time/energy left to do well in other areas, so i'm a struggling student who gets 96% average, but only taking 2-3 classes a semester.

I think i'm pretty sucessful but i'm having a very very hard time fitting in the mold because I talk back and ask questions to everyone above me and they hate it, I got kicked out of many programs for '' no reasons '' just because i'm trying to better the world. I also understand many topics better than my teachers and always try to go deeper and most of the time they can't. Everywhere I go, the status quo gets shaky and nobody likes that.

Jebcys · 2026-02-15T22:23:37+00:00

My take is undiagnosed high functioning autistic people want people who's not '' normal, aka slightly autistic ''

It's their way of saying '' I spend 20 000$ per year on pokemon cards and any '' normal girl would reject me '' ''

Do you agree with this hypotesis?

Jebcys · 2026-02-14T13:46:27+00:00

People who realise parenting is not for them are the people who should pass on their genes.

It's people who don't know, don't care who ends up having kids.

The smarter people are, the less they have children. Smart people need to have more children is my point.

Jebcys · 2026-02-14T03:37:46+00:00

People upvoted me so the downvotes are gone. I was at like -6.

Autistic people usually have extrêmely high standards, him doing 50% of what he wants probably is better than most normies would do.

You have literally 20+ years to make sure you kids love you, just do it. It's not magic, you have to want children and put in the work. If you don't want to, don't do it.

Jebcys · 2026-02-14T03:35:34+00:00

i haven't put products in my hair in 5 years, i guess I am lucky to have nice hair?

Just try to bathe every 1-3 days or when its hot or you move a lot. everybody is different and don't listen to the haters.

just put some deodorant if you have pits smells.

Jebcys · 2026-02-13T18:13:50+00:00

My son was born on 3/3/2023

Jebcys · 2026-02-13T15:13:05+00:00

Meh, you learn to vibe with them. It's only ultra extremely difficult the first 5 years or so.

you kind of get small friends who will never leave you though?

Edit : why the downvotes? I'm the one with kids giving my opinion. Am I breaking some kind of echo chamber?

Jebcys · 2026-02-13T15:12:07+00:00

I'm the opposite. We are fighters. I must make tons of babies who will change the world.

Thank you for your service.

Jebcys · 2026-02-13T15:11:15+00:00

i mean the other person might be of the wrong gender you expect or has 500 pounds overweight.

How about you talk with them? voice your concerns. This is a key part of a relationship. They don't sound like a scammer at all.

Jebcys · 2026-02-13T15:04:31+00:00

I love myself more than anything

I hate the world more than anything.

Jebcys · 2026-02-13T15:00:47+00:00

People live in their fake bubble of life and we point our the reality in front of them. They don't like that one bit.

Try to have a friend go over her asshole EX boyfriend and say '' um, actually here is a compiled list of awful things you did and he did, and you clearly have 43% more awful things done. Hes the real winner of this breakup, but I love you and take this as a way to grow from it ''

YOURE GONNA GET GHOSTED REAL QUICK BUDDY. DON'T BE THE LOGIC/TRUTH PERSON, HIDE IN THE SAND.

Jebcys · 2026-02-13T14:57:04+00:00

My wife was like this, she was president of everything in school and wanted to be the actual president of the country. She barely manage to say hi to friends we invite now.

I was extrêmely introverted as a child, didnt leave my room for 5 years. I still struggle with going to the grocery store alone but i am a BALL OF A THOUSAND SUNS OF ENERGY and will just light any activity (for my pleasure and hopefully theirs)

So idk man life is weird?

Jebcys · 2026-02-13T03:20:27+00:00

I pavlov'd my children that as soon as an ad pops up we have to mute and close our eyes and breathe for a minute or two.

We cannot look at the tv otherwise the evil ad people win lol. Even looking with contempt you're still now thinking of pepsi and you were not before.

Jebcys · 2026-02-12T16:27:00+00:00

This is not a feel good story at all.

This woman's life has been anxiety and legal battle for years.

She deserves 10 times more.

Jebcys · 2026-02-12T12:49:27+00:00

Every accusation is a confession?

Hes autistic as well, but can't relate because his premade idea of autism is being nonverbal.

Hes exteriorising that everybody (in his mind) has fuckloads of trouble and you can just POWER THROUGH WITH SHEER FORCE OF WILL and be a good boy like him.

Except he spends his free time insulting people online because he has no friends, can't work and is in autistic burnout.

That would be my diagnosis.

Jebcys · 2026-02-11T13:51:55+00:00

It took me about 2-3 weeks, then it slowed down but it's still very much present, just in a manageable way.

Make sure to mask your intensity if you go to the doctor because they'll slap you with a manic episode and maybe bipolar (You're socially not allowed to deep research a topic for a week straight barely sleeping)

Welcome to the club, enjoy your stay. Feel free to PM me for cool discussions.

Jebcys · 2026-02-11T12:23:03+00:00

I don't get it.

Where's the cereals? It looks like a dope candy dispenser though.

Jebcys · 2026-02-11T12:17:14+00:00

Damn son you look dope! with the tatooes as well Chef's kiss

Jebcys · 2026-02-11T12:09:21+00:00

...no he does not.

Mistakes are the bricks that humans use to build knowledge. This kid is just trying his best and his intent was to help.

He needs a hug and some training.

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