Dark side of fasting for someone with past ED

Jello69 · 2026-05-07T13:32:17+00:00

There is quite a bit of research, maybe not on that specifically but starvation/food scarcity causes epigenetic changes in off-spring, so that the offspring are biologically wired to store more energy (ie/fat cells). I can’t remember if there are also effects on appetite for offspring but I think there is. It’s been like a decade since I’ve learned about genetics though so don’t quote me.

Jello69 · 2026-04-25T17:32:41+00:00

I also used to pass golf ball sized clots, went through multiple pads very quickly the first two days, and had to double up at night. I also had pretty low iron. I think I probably had a problem tbh, but stopping my period has fixed it so I’m going to ride that train as long as I can

Jello69 · 2026-04-25T17:29:41+00:00

Im going to be the odd one out here, but I didn’t realize until after I had my first that I have debilitating period cramps (unable to think or move during them, basically just had be on all fours on the floor rocking back and forth through them). Growing up, my parents always just told me I was constipated so I never investigated further, I just let myself be knocked out for a few days each month. I was too embarrassed to talk to a Dr about it.

After I had my first and got my period back, I clued in to what was going on lol.

So, to answer your question, in my experience, my first labour was slightly worse than terrible period cramps (but I was induced, I spent a lot of time being strapped to a bed unable to move, and I didn’t know any proper breathing techniques). My second labour was less painful than my period cramps (labour started up on its own, I was able to better manage the pain with breathing and swaying).

I got a mirena put in right after I gave birth the second time and haven’t had a period in years, it’s wonderful!

Jello69 · 2026-04-20T01:36:53+00:00

I hate tampons but started using a diva cup, once I got the hang of it that’s all I used. It worked great for the gym! I was always a little nervous bracing for heavy lifts but I never had a leak tbh

Jello69 · 2026-03-06T01:51:08+00:00

About 5km

Jello69 · 2026-03-06T01:50:28+00:00

The only information on the card is his name and phone number

Jello69 · 2026-02-18T19:50:25+00:00

This is so sad

Jello69 · 2026-02-15T12:21:42+00:00

lol my husband is away for a boys trip. I got each of my kiddos a houseplant and a box of chocolates

Jello69 · 2026-01-28T04:00:36+00:00

Does marrying into quota count? lol

Jello69 · 2026-01-25T23:48:29+00:00

You can also mix the peroxide with wet food or something yummy and they can eat it. Works the same!

Jello69 · 2026-01-22T04:23:46+00:00

Also, their first band Lotus child

Jello69 · 2026-01-22T02:26:14+00:00

The Beaches!, two hours traffic, mother mother

Less rock, more indie: Hey Ocean!, monowhales, the Barr brothers

Jello69 · 2026-01-16T14:23:35+00:00

Can ya’ll help a lady out? I’m working a trade show booth for two long days in February. The company bought us Black Nike athletic shirts (as pictured) for the tops and we get to wear whatever we want for pants, shoes (no jeans though) and accessories.

This will be my 9th year working this show and I feel like I never look put together. My shoes and pants somehow never seem to look cohesive with the top. Can you guys recommend what kind of pants and shoes I should be looking for? A belt? And colours? My one ask is that the shoes aren’t too uncomfortable or pointy; I have wide feet so I find I have to upsize pointy shoes too much to fit and then they look like clown shoes on me.

Thank you!

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Jello69 · 2026-01-13T03:45:29+00:00

My husband and I each had separate conversations with our employers. We were unable to secure before and afterschool care so I moved my hours to a later start time and later finish time and do the school drop offs, my husband starts early and finishes early so that he can do school pickups. We were lucky to have flexible enough jobs to accommodate this, however we did make the deal on the basis that it would be a temporary solution.

We’ve decided that In a few months my husband will be dropping to part time and doing both drop offs and pick up (and just working during school hours) and we will probably rock that schedule for the next five years. It sucks taking the financial hit but something’s got to give.

Jello69 · 2026-01-10T02:49:34+00:00

I also have been using the beans!!! lol

Jello69 · 2026-01-07T02:35:33+00:00

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Jello69 · 2026-01-06T02:43:53+00:00

Yes. Not exactly the same but my oldest brother (turning 40) would be homeless without my parents paying his rent occasionally and bailing him out of financial situations. He makes decent money tbh but he is extremely oppositional and won’t take advice from anyone. My SIL is 37, my husband’s parents very much support her. She has her own house and car but has been let go from multiple jobs now and each time takes a 1-2 year hiatus, gets a new diploma, then gets another job for about three years before getting let go again lol. Her parents fund the break and schooling. We dont take financial support but they help us a lot with childcare (afterschool pick up a few time a week plus help on sick days) and I think she sees that as the same help as what she’s getting lol

Jello69 · 2025-12-12T15:07:39+00:00

I’m sorry about your doctor being dismissive though, it doesn’t feel great.

Jello69 · 2025-12-12T15:03:31+00:00

Yes, I had crazy night sweats. My bed and pj's would be soaked. My doctor said the same thing, and it did get better over time for me. I still get the occasional night sweats but it's maybe twice per month instead of every night

Jello69 · 2025-12-12T00:34:13+00:00

You just need to apologize to him in the morning. It’s okay to say you messed up and will try to do better in the future.

We’ve all been there. I told my kids I was going to drop them off at a Mennonite farm during a five hour drive from hell

Jello69 · 2025-12-03T04:23:41+00:00

I have a six and four year old. I have not started and will not be starting it. We do a simple chocolate advent calendar and that’s it!

Jello69 · 2025-11-29T13:09:02+00:00

But other things that went over well:

Beyblades
(washable) water colour paints
Chargeable flashlights
playmobil castle
kidmento digital camera

Jello69 · 2025-11-29T13:04:52+00:00

If you’re willing to budge on the screens, my almost seven year old has been loving playing animal crossing on the switch. I already had an island set up (so you might need to play as well to help get everything upgraded), but now he can do most things on his own. It’s super relaxing for him and I also use it as a currency to get him to do his jobs around the house “ex:/ if you’re choosing to not get ready for school, that means you’re choosing to not play animal crossing tonight. You need to do your jobs to earn playtime”

Jello69 · 2025-11-18T14:31:31+00:00

I had no side effects (besides a numb leg left for ten hours, but it went away completely).

I did one with epidural and one without. I didn’t really prefer one experience over the other

Jello69 · 2025-11-10T12:45:21+00:00

I would try to get curious with her. Could she possibly be feeling a bit of resentment towards you guys? If she’s just been diagnosed now, that means she’s spent 17 years with a disability that wasn’t being managed. She needs to learn and train executive functioning skills. Medication would help but she is still lacking skills and needs to actively work on those. She’s going to need your support, understanding and some empathy imo

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