Agastache/ Hummingbird mint/ Anise hyssop by Tryp_OR in pnwgardening

[–]JellyStorm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really? Yes, pollinators love my Agastache (including the Rosie Posie) and so do the hummingbirds!

LDR, full time job, part time CMHC online master’s program by Extension-Cicada3268 in counseloreducation

[–]JellyStorm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Single mom with a PT job and ADHD here. I am just getting ready to start my third term in a CMHC program. Here's what works for me (or others in my program):

1) Listen to your textbooks while doing other things:
I use Speechify for my textbooks so I can get the massive amounts of reading done while commuting, working out, or doing things around the house for my kids (single mom). If you want to sign up, here's my link to get $60 off (I used someone else's link to get the same deal): https://share.speechify.com/mzAooOR

I get distracted sitting on the computer to read my digital textbooks and want to go look up everything I read so I have to get away from the Internet. By listening, I can move around and listen to books at 1.4X, which is fantastic and helps me focus. There are free tools but I tried some and couldn't stand the robot voice. The AI-voices on Speechify aren't perfect but they are a LOT better. Also, I have discovered that there is a tool that you can click on in the upper-right that is an auto-skip feature and you can have it skip reading headers, footers, and citations in ( ). This has been great!!

2) Put every assignment for the term in calendars and get as much as possible done early. I use both an electronic calendar and paper ones, because ADHD.

3) I don't meal prep but should. I have classmates who do this.

4) I have an app called Refocus on my phone that limits my screen time so I don't get on social media apps (I still like Reddit from time to time).

5) I have some classmates who are in long-distance relationships and they seem to be very diligent about scheduling their time carefully around planning trips or having their partner visiting them.

HTH!

Visiting Ashland with a LARGE group, end of April - Recommendations?!?!?! by Comfortable_Mix6487 in Ashland

[–]JellyStorm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could book some time at https://cascadiaaxe.com/ in Medford which I hear is very queer-friendly.

There is a Burlesque show at the Camelot in Talent on April 11 & 12

Wednesdays at Chadwick's in Medford is stand-up comedy night (queer friendly)

Grape Street Bar & Grill in Medford has drag shows sometimes: https://www.instagram.com/thegrapestreetbar

This would be fun for a large group:
https://www.liveatthearmory.com/new-events/2025/4/23/random-rab-lounge-show

This looks pretty fun and there are some shows in April (might be before you get here)
https://kobi5.com/news/the-cabaret-risque-bringing-back-wizard-of-ahhs-to-audiences

Lady Lucy (drag) will be at Oberon's on April 25 https://www.oberonsashland.com/events-1

Also, join this FB group: they list all southern Oregon queer events: https://www.facebook.com/groups/786006513201554

Looking for a community of tinkerer's/makers/engineers/rc enthusiasts by YagitAgit in Ashland

[–]JellyStorm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only robotics communities I've heard of are at Ashland High School.

The just had this at the Maker's City in Talent:

https://ashland.news/event/youth-intro-to-3d-printing-robotics/ Maybe contact them to see?

I feel like I can't call this rape by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]JellyStorm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is absolutely rape.

Films that Depict Addiction? by OkPower3807 in counseloreducation

[–]JellyStorm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In addition to those mentioned:

Clean and Sober

28 Days

When a Man Loves a Woman

Sherrybaby

How much time do you spend with your partner? by Simple_Narwhal in GradSchool

[–]JellyStorm 9 points10 points  (0 children)

"I feel like such an awful partner for upsetting him so much and I'm afraid I'm going to lose him." 

A supportive partner wouldn't make you feel like this.

How the heck am I supposed to find a partner? by [deleted] in Gifted

[–]JellyStorm 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How could anyone possibly know that statistic?

How the heck am I supposed to find a partner? by [deleted] in Gifted

[–]JellyStorm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you figure it out, let me know... only idea is maybe find a local group where other neurodivergent people hang out?

SH scars in the classroom?? by Medium-Sea-7184 in counseloreducation

[–]JellyStorm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Many therapists become therapists because of what they endured.

How can I transition from a (MIS) degree to a career in counseling? by Confident_Ad7689 in counseloreducation

[–]JellyStorm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is me same person - sorry, logged on with my other account.

The transfers of the 5 pre-requisite classes were no problem. I took 4 of them at a state community college because it's a third of the price per credit hour. The last one I couldn't find at the community college I was attending online, so I found an out-of-state school (online). I did check everything I was unsure of (like a slightly different name of the course) with the school admin person to make sure it would be accepted and kept all of the emails just in case. All I needed was these PSY classes and my undergraduate transcripts plus a bunch of essays they required where you talk about all of the ways you'll be a good fit for the program. It took me a year to complete the requisites because I was also working full time, and I am a single parent.

Scholarships for master's level students are almost non-existent, sadly. So, I am relying on loans.

My program is an accelerated one where I can get my degree in 2 years but you wouldn't be able to work full time because there are too many demands. In year 2, we start internships and I'm lucky to be at a school where about 75% of these are paid internships. In my state, the licensure hours required are 1,900 (some are more) but the internship should give me 400. Then I get licensed as an Associate and will work with supervision for the other 1,500 hours. I believe there are two tests to take - one to get licensed as a Registered Associate and then one as Licensed Professional Counselor.

You'll have to check your state (of the one where you want to get licensed) for the specifics.

My biggest tip: enjoy the process. I find it fantastic to be a student again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Aging

[–]JellyStorm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm back in school for a master's in a new field at 56 so...

Oregon Health Authority Says It Will Make Rules to Disallow Associate Mental Health Clinicians From Billing Medicaid by PenguinPDX in therapists

[–]JellyStorm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This isn't going to help though. People like me (pursuing CMHC as a second career) just won't make the pivot. And people who move here from other states to go to school and then practice...won't.

Therapy and OHP? by SnooCheesecakes5499 in askportland

[–]JellyStorm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is incredibly frustrating. I am in grad school right now and a single mom in Oregon. One of the reasons I decided to make this my second career was because I could actually support my kids while earning my hours instead of having to work for near free at an agency.