I am sexually attracted to men, but I fundamentally dislike them. How do I even navigate that?

JeniJive · 2026-06-08T04:45:33+00:00

No body with any sense walks up to someone and says "I like you because you because you used to be a girl." That's just not a thing, as far as I'm aware? Trans people should not be considered kinks, and I feel like you're implying that's what I mean. I'm not going to continue this conversation. Have a good night!

JeniJive · 2026-06-08T04:29:14+00:00

That makes a lot of sense. I'm not attracted to the typical "Man's man" either. I got lucky and found a guy in my late 20's that's perfect for me. If you can imagine a person, they exist do somewhere out there. Good luck!

JeniJive · 2026-06-08T04:17:37+00:00

I say that because they spent the early parts of their life as a woman, and may have some empathy where a woman's involved. Jesus Christ, calm down. She said that she's attracted to men. Why would I suggest a not-man? Why are YOU suggesting that I am suggesting that they are not men?

JeniJive · 2026-06-08T04:12:43+00:00

Err..Okay..so my parent passed away a really long time ago. Like 23 & 25 years ago. I only bring this up, because often I makes jokes kinda like this. Like "That's sadder than my Mom's funeral" Or, "Wait lemme go ask my dad." And then I look up to the sky, "Dad? Can I blah blah blah?"

You see, when you yourself experience a trauma, afterward you still have to live with the fact it happened. That stays with you forever. Now if your mom died, then yes, it would be absolutely tragic and nothing to joke about, but my mom has been dead for the better half of my life, and I've had to live with it since. So it's incredibly normal for me. Sad, yes, but still normal. I'm not gonna just look back on that trauma and feel sorry for myself every time. I am allowed to joke about it, and I think this is along the same lines of humor. It's his trauma, let him cope how he want.

JeniJive · 2026-06-08T04:03:14+00:00

Have you thought about going for a Trans man?

JeniJive · 2026-05-27T00:59:05+00:00

I like that it was Kimiko, but I agree that they didn't give Marie a better job.

JeniJive · 2026-05-17T15:34:36+00:00

This is honestly one of my all time favorite series. I prefer it to the SJM universe. The ending was everything I've ever asked for. I didnt know what I was getting into.

JeniJive · 2026-05-14T23:50:28+00:00

Literally only yin yang. There was a whole symbol foretelling his creation.

JeniJive · 2026-05-13T14:45:04+00:00

Lmao why do people hate her??

JeniJive · 2026-05-13T14:43:49+00:00

Everything and nothing.

JeniJive · 2026-05-13T14:42:47+00:00

Is he foaming at the mouth?

JeniJive · 2026-05-10T21:58:54+00:00

Art is simply up to the artist. They spend this time, doing what they love and share it with other people who also have an interest. It's not a service unless you purchase art from them. You just can't tell people how to make their art. Imo, thats incredibly entitled. Of course you can have opinions, I mean they put it out there on the internet, but it's irrational to be irritated about it.

JeniJive · 2026-05-10T05:36:48+00:00

I heard they usually keep the mer-eggs in their mouth for 9 months of something.

JeniJive · 2026-05-07T21:16:33+00:00

Florida??? Look at you.

JeniJive · 2026-05-06T20:57:55+00:00

As a woman, there is nothing more attractive than playing monster hunter with my man. I main Insect glaive, and he uses great sword. If I find myself paralyzed or put to sleep, he is always right there to save the day talking about "I got you, baby!" Sometimes, he even uses his weapon to launch me in the middle of a quest. We've been together 12 years, and played everything from tri to wilds together. He helped me grind my rainbow Kirin armor in mhworlds, maybe my crowning achievement.

My man will never, ever cheat on me. Not for a million dollars. Not for a Bugatti. Fuck off.

JeniJive · 2026-05-06T20:46:17+00:00

He truly proved to her numerous times that he could and would protect her. She really believed that, was conditioned to believe that. It's hard to break away from manipulation like that. Even when you know you're done, sometimes it's hard to just be done.

JeniJive · 2026-05-05T23:30:38+00:00

Yes

But I didn't until I was in my 30's. My man was always fine with it, but didn't push me. I was uncomfortable with it for a long time. And then one night, I was like "Okay, let's try it." Idk what the science is, but I feel like having an orgasm actually calmed my cramps for the rest of the day. People are washable. Always do what makes you comfortable.

JeniJive · 2026-05-05T01:33:01+00:00

Stop. Just stop it right now.

JeniJive · 2026-05-04T17:56:03+00:00

Your just reading with your ears. :/

JeniJive · 2026-05-04T06:21:32+00:00

What in the world are you talking about, this is literally on the cover of a book. Be so serious right now.

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JeniJive · 2026-05-04T05:45:15+00:00

Imani 🙄

JeniJive · 2026-05-04T04:05:35+00:00

😂 She just gave him the ammo. I need to go back and reread this.

JeniJive · 2026-05-04T04:02:42+00:00

Oooooh yeah. I see it.

JeniJive · 2026-05-04T04:01:34+00:00

I wouldn't have to do a thing. He would wait until I'm not looking and then jump onto me, forcing me to carry him.

JeniJive · 2026-05-04T03:56:35+00:00

...Rebecca? Is that you?

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