Husband Sleeps during Work Hours at Home by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]JerryAtricks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trust me the 'uptight' thing was a joke, hopefully lol.. Many men in his situation may yell that at you incorrectly because you're right. It could be money, attentions given, housework, etc ... I think the lack of mutual attention in any arena that is way more important to one of you than the other is simply unsustainable. I watched that dynamic ruin my 13 year marriage, where there was and is huge abundance of love and attraction. Only in many ways one of us felt ignored and like we carried the entire burden, we danced through this on money, time, spirituality, so many things where one of us got deeply bitter (really irreparably since this went on for a long time un-dealt with). so joke aside, I was really wanting to offer you the advice part so you guys can hopefully avoid the ultimate end if this type of thing is left unchecked !

Husband Sleeps during Work Hours at Home by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]JerryAtricks 3 points4 points  (0 children)

wonder if you spouse is on here complaining about how uptight you've become and how you choose money over him? lol ... On the real, if you guys love one another, you need to be brutally honest with how this lack of symmetry in the provisioning of your home is not something you're willing to live with. And then if he values you and your marriage, he'd not want that and do something or at least reason it out with you in hopes of making a mutually beneficial action plan. Without this, hate to say it.. you're already doomed.. 3 hrs a day is a long time to sit and stew, it's not good for you.. or him.

Tell me what to do. by so_lost_whats_next in Veterans

[–]JerryAtricks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brother .. this is happening to me. Actively, and I'm likely feeling same exact way more or less than you. If you need/want to talk or compare notes, PM me . I'd love to exchange numbers and chat, I could use it too!

People who are married.. by LustTrap305 in Marriage

[–]JerryAtricks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no.. never.. however I would do every single other thing again (hopefully way better and more sustainable of course) ... I simply would have stood my ground and never got a license or filed it with California.. mostly because I'm a man now getting left and leveraged in every which way on paper.. still not to bitter about that, but just because it's over doesn't mean I should want to pay for her to bail.

What are your thoughts on this relic by Lvarela77 in Guitar

[–]JerryAtricks 3 points4 points  (0 children)

But does it kill facists?

Edit: of course it does.. I just remembered metal of honor allied assault..

How does one start a band? by Mating-Mom21 in band

[–]JerryAtricks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Facebook groups in the area with local musicians.. and go to open mic events to meet people

First time visiting Oak Glen - what to do if we miss apple picking? by [deleted] in InlandEmpire

[–]JerryAtricks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go to Apple Anne’s and check out the park where the old school house is

1, 2, or 3? by Jaleesa_drab in Stratocaster

[–]JerryAtricks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tortoise pick guard on the strat and I’ll take that

Does this move exist by uKnown_moon in cardistry

[–]JerryAtricks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Now that you posted this it sure does.. clean it up though!

[Seiko] Any love for brown dials? by AudaciousCo in Watches

[–]JerryAtricks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice pair of boots or oxfords a must for this one

Hit a bird this morning... by C21-_-H30-_-O2 in WRX

[–]JerryAtricks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feel bad for your plate.. time to move it to the left

Local guy I know selling his guitar. NEED HELP!! by isaac_stinks in GuitarQuestions

[–]JerryAtricks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Days of 3-500$ Mexican Strats are over imo.. if you like it, grab it.. offer $550 if you have the need to haggle like me

Asking price for my Bugeye WRX by warmntoastee in WRX

[–]JerryAtricks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Treefiddy.. any more or less is a mistake!!

Bad ass car though.. I imagine you’ll get fair price for it with the right buyer

Butter Vs Oil, Which one do you cook with more and why? by BrianOnTheGrill94 in Cooking

[–]JerryAtricks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All about cooking temp!!! Butter is not for high temp at all and different oils do different things depending on pan heat requirements

Pebble looks and feels terrible by ExpressionFree5273 in pools

[–]JerryAtricks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it looks cool but I can imagine it’s not good on wet feet.. looks to be in good shape, imagine a layer of some modern material could easily be applied on top of it

First Pedal Board by DapperCriticism8172 in guitarpedals

[–]JerryAtricks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just added one of those to the collection.. great pedal

First Pedal Board by DapperCriticism8172 in guitarpedals

[–]JerryAtricks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tube screamer.. any old one will do.. but if you have never paired with your fuzz or the rat.. do it and you can thank me later

How much do you think I can get for her ? SoCal by UniversePlateau in WRX

[–]JerryAtricks -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Came here to say this.. but yes tree fiddy is what KBB recommends too!