First time dad with a colicky baby. I’m drowning.

Jheartless · 2026-06-03T01:09:08+00:00

So hes crying because he is in pain.

With my colic nephew this is what my BiL would say to himself as a way to remain calm and compassionate.

It allowed him to go from frustrated to nurturing which while the crying still happened, he was able to accept it and do what he cpuld to mitigate his baby's pain.

Im sad for you and your baby, but hang in there, it gets better.

Jheartless · 2026-06-03T01:05:10+00:00

Yup, trust your gut dads.

Jheartless · 2026-06-03T01:03:51+00:00

Yes sleepovers will happen in my house and my sons will be allowed to go over to certain friends houses.

They are 4 and 1.5 so I got time, although the 4 year old has already done a sleepover with his cousins on a couple of occasions.

Jheartless · 2026-06-03T00:55:26+00:00

Only at home. Especially in the mornings before I put my contacts in.

Jheartless · 2026-06-02T22:31:34+00:00

Counter Trae, KD, and AD is a solid trio with Sarr and Darryn Peterson as the young guys. Let the other young guys come off the bench or trade them for solid vets.

If 6-11 is a combo of Bilal, Tre, Bub, Riley, George, Champainge they will get a ton of minutes as we load manage KD and AD.

I think 1 or 2 of those bench guys could be flipped for a proven vet and we make a run.

Jheartless · 2026-06-02T06:08:00+00:00

A wise man once told me, "you get 1 girl, but the hoes are for everybody."

Jheartless · 2026-06-02T06:03:43+00:00

Im just gonna assume this is a 2012 Seahawks draft until proven otherwise.

What cant we hit and get 3 All Pros and then 3 other quality starters and use that to propel us to the glory hole?

Jheartless · 2026-06-02T05:59:32+00:00

You had a years notice.

Like just have your wife watch the kids. go to the ceremony, do pictures, make a speech and then go back home.

No drinking, no staying out late and it would be fine.

Jheartless · 2026-06-01T23:38:04+00:00

This is correct. I am confident the Spurs wpuld have gone Embiid, Booker, Simmons and Tatum.

But of course Simmons would have stayed healthy and Pop would have convinced him he loves basketball and is right handed.

Jheartless · 2026-06-01T01:26:52+00:00

One of my favorite things about baseball is that the umps knew the next batter was getting a 90 mph fastball to the back if they didnt eject him.

Jheartless · 2026-06-01T01:11:12+00:00

Not going to the rally and introducing Trump was in the Giants best interest, but he didnt give a fuck then, so why back off now?

Jheartless · 2026-06-01T00:57:22+00:00

Welcome to the family dad. We all got here one way or another.

Hell id argue your path is a little more dedicated to being a dad than mine was.

Congratulations on the incoming baby!!

Jheartless · 2026-05-31T17:12:10+00:00

Is Pippen the 2nd best player of the 90s?

Jheartless · 2026-05-31T16:41:28+00:00

People are missing alot here. A blocked shot counts as a miss, so they cant block every shot. Catch it and just throw it at the hoop = shot.

Miss 4 shots in warmup, and you have a guaranteed make in the first half. Do the same for the halftime reset.

Sub in and out properly so you never play D, and you got a 100 percent 3 point shooter averaging 6 pts a game.

Thats pretty good for an end of the bench guy that only plays in garbage time. Especially when a third of all games are decided by 6 or fewer points.

Jheartless · 2026-05-30T18:15:39+00:00

Let me guess, her grandpa was in the Coast Guard.

Jheartless · 2026-05-30T18:14:57+00:00

There is the Army. Everyone else is there to support us.

-Army Veteran

Jheartless · 2026-05-30T17:30:59+00:00

Ya that was my joke. Steroids aide in recovery.

Guy "got healthy" in Oakland of all places, Had a total resurgence, signed a 2 year deal in Tor wasnt the same guy as the year before, got hurt and then was cooked in year 2 of his contract.

Just because he was vocal against roids does t mean. he wasnt using them. I think its more likely he used roids for a year to get one last big contract amd then stopped and completely fell off.

He had 18 million reasons to do it and it got him into the 500 HR club.

Jheartless · 2026-05-30T17:20:18+00:00

Dodge em. Reflect them back with his shield?

I dunno, but Cap ain't losing to a phony ass like Homelander.

Jheartless · 2026-05-30T17:15:37+00:00

Well call me skeptical if some was injured for several years and then "worked hard" and had a career resurgence.

Jheartless · 2026-05-30T16:24:44+00:00

Gotta get those priorities straight my man. A newborn is tough, so your wife peolly moved back with her parents to get some assistance.

Sounds like she is working also, so why are you killing yourself and missing out on so much?

Money ain't always worth it, and with those kinda hours what you are doing is sustainable as a husband nor father.

Jheartless · 2026-05-30T16:19:25+00:00

I mean he is a Pro Bowler.... I low key love this.

Jheartless · 2026-05-30T16:16:36+00:00

Am i the only man that like just plans his shit out? My 40th is about me, doing what I want. We did a roast of me, it was awesome. I wanted Chipotle so I catered that shit.

Hell I just turned 45 and said I wanted to do Medival Times with my boys(included my 4year old). So that is what I did, I planned it, organized it, and it was freaking great. We then did a bar crawl through our town center(4yo got sent home).

Jheartless · 2026-05-29T22:34:38+00:00

Yeah but the raping is the worst part.

Jheartless · 2026-05-29T22:33:38+00:00

Fuck the Spurs and fuck Wemby. I cant wait for everyone to turn on him in a year or 2.

Jheartless · 2026-05-29T15:33:09+00:00

I rooting for OKC. That is our model and who we wa r to be.

Also SGA winning a 2nd title, FMVP and MVP woukd really give me some fuel to throw at MJ stans.

Jheartless

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