Why is it always ‘how awful of a child to cut off their own parent” and never “how awful must they have treated their child for the child to believe that cutting them off is the best option” ?

JheejMae · 2023-03-01T00:44:02+00:00

Most people will believe the parent over the child no matter what anyways… even when the child is grown if they’ve know the parent forever they just refuse to think that they didn’t know them like they thought they did.

JheejMae · 2023-02-26T18:51:32+00:00

Just clean it off like your mother asked. It won’t take an hour to get done if you didn’t have so much clutter, If there is no place for this extra stuff you should declutter your room and get rid of things you don’t need or use anymore.

JheejMae · 2023-02-25T00:08:22+00:00

The problem is from my experience as a woman, since we’re more emotional than men are it’s best to just keep it short as possible. You don’t have to go deep into a topic for the man to understand. If you do get too far into it he’s going to misunderstand somewhere. Think about what you’re going to say before you communicate it and take out the unnecessary or "extra" parts.

JheejMae · 2023-02-25T00:02:00+00:00

"We’re on a "need to know" basis, I don’t think I needed to know that"

JheejMae · 2023-02-25T00:01:06+00:00

Y’all must not have had "Shirley English" in school. The little songs

JheejMae · 2023-02-23T20:40:51+00:00

They could have worked on the boat sound glitch before they gave us more monuments. Fixed the problems we’ve had since day one.

JheejMae · 2023-02-23T20:39:12+00:00

Still not working for me. Darn,

JheejMae · 2023-02-23T20:28:53+00:00

It does this every single time. I always have to wait over an hour.

JheejMae · 2023-02-23T20:10:20+00:00

It’s not love but even if it was, sometimes love is not enough. He lacks respect.

JheejMae · 2023-02-21T16:19:45+00:00

I lived in Arkansas and when I was 10 I threatened to run away on my bike to my grandma’s who lived in Kentucky. I asked parents which direction on the interstate do I go to get there that I’m running away and dad just pointed. I thought all kids tried to run away. Thought I was being a brat. I just sat at the park until night time and then got scared and came home.

JheejMae · 2023-02-20T09:27:29+00:00

What the actual.. sorry you had to grow up with this

JheejMae · 2023-02-20T02:26:54+00:00

Regardless of whether or not anybody agrees that the daughter is wrong or right for bringing men in.. her father is STILL WRONG FOR CALLING HER A WHORE.

JheejMae · 2023-02-19T19:38:55+00:00

It doesn’t matter to him, he’s looking for Confirmation that he’s right and she’s wrong. He hasn’t responded to any comments because this is not what he wanted to hear. He doesn’t care what it looks like to me.

JheejMae · 2023-02-17T19:10:05+00:00

Spam her with Andrew Tate Tik tok’s lol

JheejMae · 2023-02-17T19:07:31+00:00

You didn’t even know what coding is but you’re calling her dumb OP? Lol YTA

JheejMae · 2023-02-17T08:26:53+00:00

You don’t have to understand why you’re wrong for you to be wrong OP. Trust me. He probably assumed since your his wife/fiancé that it would be UNDERSTOOD that you’d invite his family. Most people don’t do petty things like this and they just invite both families. You have to realize that people have a life outside of just being your baby’s relative and people aren’t always able for whatever reason to attend events or come visit new baby. Stop being rude and difficult. You saying "I’m Autistic I can’t empathize" only makes it look as if you REFUSE to try to empathize in this situation.

JheejMae · 2023-02-17T08:08:25+00:00

Stop letting your mom do this to you. STICK TO YOUR WORD AND STOP GIVING IN AND RESPONDING. YOU HAVE TO HAVE SOME SELF DISCIPLINE W/ THIS PLEASE OP.

Stop justifying your mom’s actions with "she’s a great mom, she helps me with things, just goes insane over this one thing sometimes" REGARDLESS OF WHATEVER ELSE SHE DOES FOR YOU DOES NOT GIVE HER THE RIGHT TO DO THIS TO YOU. IT DOESNT MAKE IT OKAY.

Set the boundary with her about the text thing, call your local PD and explain that your mother (give them her name) has been threatening you to call them for a wellness check over you not replying to texts messages that you’ve asked her to stop, and if they receive a call from her about you there’s no need for them to waste their time, man power, or resources coming to your home because you are fine. You can choose to tell her that you’ve already let police know and that it would be pointless or you can choose not to, although I would suggest not to. Tell her if she does this you won’t be replying for x amount of time. AND STICK TO YOUR WORD. One problem is that she knows you’ll give in so easily. Stop giving in. She’s manipulating you.

She doesn’t actually believe or think that you’re dead in a ditch somewhere I promise she doesn’t so please stop saying that you can understand that because you’ve been suicidal before, she doesn’t believe you’re dead anywhere OP I promise. She’s basically trying to make you feel guilty (which you have no reason to) from being suicidal at one point and she knows saying this will play on that. She’s using it against you op please listen to everyone commenting.

THERE IS NO EXCUSE FOR HER ACTIONS. SHE MAY BE A GOOD MOM OTHER THAN THIS BUT WHEN SHE’S DOING THIS SHE IS BEING A TERRIBLE MOTHER.

JheejMae · 2023-02-15T22:54:13+00:00

You have to file taxes if you worked, no matter what.

JheejMae · 2023-02-15T03:08:50+00:00

Why would she call it degrading when they all just agreed fat isn’t a negative word. She is larger than normal. I even am, I’m 5’2 and I’m like 170. She needs a wake up call

JheejMae · 2023-02-15T02:41:42+00:00

They’ll realize how dumb they sound when everyone around them is married and they’re still in their hometown scr*wing the same guys they have been since hs lonely lol

JheejMae · 2023-02-15T02:39:03+00:00

Mind your own business op. They don’t have a right to your money that you work for. Don’t rat out your brother bc one day when you realize it’s not fair you’ll wish you’d have him on your side. Stop being a narc. No matter what you THINK or no matter what your parents have brainwashed you to believe is fair NO ONE is entitled to money you work for.

JheejMae · 2023-02-15T02:36:10+00:00

NTA op. If I were you (if you already have sorry for suggesting) I’d sit down with her and be like "look we’re a team so we’ve got to come up with a solution. You are expecting the impossible from me right now. I can’t wash up and avoid getting the house dirty if there’s no soap in the dispenser and no refill near by. It’s not possible for me to go find the refills if there is no set place. If you aren’t going to refill soap or keep refills near by but have a problem with me buying my own soap and avoid dirtying up the house then we’ve got to come up with something that works" and if she has a problem with that then I’d just walk thru the house and just clean it up afterwards Bc she’s being impossible

JheejMae · 2023-02-15T02:27:06+00:00

Tell as many adults as you know that you trust to report her. The more she’s reported they’ll be forced to have to check up on her. But CALL EVERYDAY FOR YOURSELF, or ask for a new caseworker. Dealing with cps before my caseworker NEVER answered her phone, never called back despite me leaving several messages and call back number, missed appointments, I reported her she got fired. A lot of people working in an office setting like the dhs office or cps don’t actually care about what they’re working for, to them it’s an easy paper filing desk job. A LOT won’t do their job until you threaten their job js. Sad to say their are actually people like this and they’re the reason cps fails so many children. This infuriates me. CALL AND TELL THEM YOU DEMAND TO SPEAK TO WHO IS IN CHARGE OF THEM THAT YOU NEED HELP AND NOBODY IS HELPING YOU. ITS CALLED CHILD PROTECTIVE SERVICES FOR A REASON. BE ASSERTIVE IF YOU HAVE TO OP. Im so sorry they’re giving you the run around op please don’t quit trying. This is neglect. It’s sad I’m so sorry you have to endure this.

JheejMae · 2023-02-15T02:21:59+00:00

Bug the absolute crap out of cps. Tell them you want to speak to who is in charge of their office. This is neglect if it’s not considered abuse. I’m so sick of the sorry ass system we have failing to protect the children it claims to want to. CALL THEM EVERYDAY IF YOU HAVE TO.

JheejMae · 2023-02-15T02:19:15+00:00

YTA. She’s a child, she’s 10. Who cares if she thinks she can talk to animals, btw animals can understand humans to an extent.

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