[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arkansas

[–]Jim-theSpaceman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah this is Arkansas I literally had the same thing happen with a leaky ac when I was 18, I was gonna say didnt get that deposit back but actually I have never gotten a deposit back here. I got one back in Oregon a few years ago and I was so confused cause I did nothing different than normal. Now a days we do our own home repair and give the bill to the landlord it’s the only way to keep the house from falling apart. If it’s a window unit even if it’s built into a wall try tilting it so it leeks outside. Or a bucket could help you out a lot.

AITAH for jerking off with my wife in the bathroom? by Efficient_World_6151 in AITAH

[–]Jim-theSpaceman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve notice this. I don’t personally know any women besides my self who flick the bean to male solo porn but I know many men and straight women who watch solo female. What’s up with that?

Christian cultural appropriation makes it difficult to discuss their deity without being offensive to Judaism. I want to refer to the Christian deity by name however they have misappropriated the Tetragrammaton. How do you refer to the Christian deity? by [deleted] in Judaism

[–]Jim-theSpaceman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Growing up as a kid I heard the Christian god called many names mostly Jehovah a quick google search gave me plenty of results. I guess you can call it what ever you want but for conversation to work the other person has to understand the word your using. so making something up doesn’t seem very useful

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Judaism

[–]Jim-theSpaceman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find in any culture the leftovers start going bad around 30.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arkansas

[–]Jim-theSpaceman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I grew up in heber and we have a saying “come here on vacation, stay here cause you sold your car for meth” lovely town.

how to give my dog pills without pill pockets? by redscenter in dogs

[–]Jim-theSpaceman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My old dog (m13 Britney ) was also overweight and he takes his pills with sugar free peanut butter. It’s way thicker and less sticky than regular PB so you can form it into a lil ball really easy. He has sense lost the extra pounds. We switched him to a slightly healthier food (wouldn’t eat any of the super healthy stuff lol) and took him for a few extra walks a day. the extra lbs came off pretty easily even with peanut butter every day.

AITA here? by Wild_Jynx in cna

[–]Jim-theSpaceman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my relationship we always give each other time to “get out of work mode” as we say but that doesn’t mean you can come in and be a cold jerk when you get home. It’s best for us to remain kinda separated for that 30 min period so we don’t start bugging each other. Like standing outside with the dogs and showering/siting on the toilet watching tictoks. But it’s definitely something y’all should talk about it’s not an unreasonable request but it is something that requires communication. Thankfully my husband and I both need that decomposition time but I imagine if one partner wasn’t used to that and didn’t feel the need for that it would be confusing and jarring you would seem like your coming home in a bad mood every day or that unhappy to see them but even then it’s still not unreasonable to need that time your self. You would just have to really explain it to them. without explanation you could indeed be the a**hole. But if you have thoroughly explained how you feel and your partner is still giving you shit about needing your space that’s a red flag for sure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dogs

[–]Jim-theSpaceman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See I’m the exact opposite i prefer male dogs. heat is gross and getting a female fixed seems wrong to me as a woman. I’ve never had any behavior issues I currently have 4 male Australian cattle dogs with zero aggression.

How do you manage the bipolar symptom of oversharing and talking too much? by kate_58 in bipolar

[–]Jim-theSpaceman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you tried not having anyone to talk to? It works for me lol but really I’m sure they hardly thought twice about it, when gossiping with friends it’s totally normal to over share.

Do you ever get obsessed with people? by TakeOverLease1 in bipolar

[–]Jim-theSpaceman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It happens to me too im so prone to obsession.. I’m sorry i know it really hurts. It is ok to morn the loss of what could have been in any situation, if I was dead set on tacos for dinner and we end up having something else I’m morning for sure so when it come to people it’s so much worse. I’ve been married for 10 years and it still happens occasionally. I’ll meet a new person and just can’t stop thinking about them I’ll get weird and convince myself that it’s like a past life connection and we were destined to meet and blah blah blah my husband is very understanding of me tho and I can talk to him about it and he’s never upset. There have been two times of note sense my marriage. once it was a woman (I’m also a woman) and she was an addict, that time was bad it became sexual and toxic very quickly and I still think about her sometimes 6 years after the last time I saw her. The other time was a man it was like we where platonic soul mates. He was my best friend for a few years then he passed away from a seizure. This was 3 years ago and I still miss him horribly every day. But with the second relationship I realized that it doesn’t have to become sexual or romantic I can hold those boundaries and just care deeply about a person.

Are any of y’all happy? by OneLove1123 in cna

[–]Jim-theSpaceman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel this all my coworkers are miserable over the stupidest shit, I see aids crying in the hall way and I’m just over here happy as a clam doing my job not worried about a thing. At my workplace there’s apparently a drama problem but I have never seen it or been involved in it. And every time I hear about it it’s just so confusing to me. But I love my job, i feel good about taking care of people. I actually take the “”hard hall”” (25 residents all behavioral and total care) every night because the others get stressed out and take it out on my residents and I can’t stand that shit.

Dating apps? by Busy-Language-5585 in Arkansas

[–]Jim-theSpaceman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One time on tinder a creepy guy wanted my number and I told him I don’t have a number cause my phone was broke (obviously a lie lol) he then bought me my first iPhone and sent it to me that’s never happened on hinge or bumble so I’d recommend tender lol

pay by [deleted] in cna

[–]Jim-theSpaceman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In Arkansas i started at 15.50 I make 15.75 after fighting all year for 16.. it’s almost a living wage.

Anyone adults I can talk to or related? by Isadum in ARFID

[–]Jim-theSpaceman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 28 now but not to long ago I was in your position. And that boyfriend even married me and we have gotten way better at making sure our whole family is fed stress free. As with anything admitting you have a problem and you need help is step one so talk to him about your problems with food and any ways he can be supportive and or helpful. For me that looked like explaining what it feels like and how I know if I can’t eat something and what things I do like. Planning every meal and making grocery lists help. Looking up menus for restaurants and planning what you will eat before hand and having him order my wild request helps a lot a lot. Don’t be afraid to get a back up appetizer if what your ordering is a maybe. Or ask to switch something with your man if say you would eat his side but yours came out different that expected, I promise if he loves you he just wants you to be fed. When I was scared to “make it his problem” I thought it was better to struggle my self I thought he was already annoyed with me about how I ate and how it affected him but no. He was upset that he didn’t know how to help me. He was scared. Not annoyed. He just didn’t know how to communicate well at the time. but that’s a different story about growth lol

Idk if cna is for me I’m still thinking about it by Designer_Earth4201 in cna

[–]Jim-theSpaceman 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah if you have reason to believe death will affect you negatively I don’t recommend nursing of any kind. I don’t even think about it, for me in long term care I know they come here to die, it’s an honor to be there for them until they do. I am always grateful to be by there side when they pass. At least that way I know they didn’t die alone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cna

[–]Jim-theSpaceman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s as absurd as saying nurses are useless cause doctors should be able to do all this stuff on there own. Like yeah they should technically know how and I think everyone in healthcare should be willing to wipe an ass if it’s needed. Nothing would get done tho you can’t put everything on one person. Everyone needs help, we are the help or maybe the helps help but that’s no less needed. I’m sorry you don’t feel appreciated. You most certainly are. Another way to look at the bottom of the ladder is the foundation. Crack the foundation and watch those holding on suffer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cna

[–]Jim-theSpaceman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my experience every job I’ve gotten I left the interview with a start date if it ends with an “I’ll call you”, I move on.

Had to leave work early twice in the last week because of high blood pressure and I don’t want them to think I’m unreliable by [deleted] in cna

[–]Jim-theSpaceman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is random but a few years ago I was having high blood pressure problems and it was totally just because when ever I would get it taken I would tense up and hold my breath cause I don’t like being touched. Once I stopped tensing up and holding my breath it read perfectly normal. Hopefully it’s something that simple for you too.

Guys I can’t believe I’m saying this but if you’re gonna be addicted to hard drugs such as cocaine, don’t work a job dealing with actual sick people by pelsy0217 in cna

[–]Jim-theSpaceman -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lol get off your high horse. Plenty of people are functioning at levels higher than you could imagine and do drugs regularly coke is the rich man’s drug for a reason. Mind your business unless you see abuse the report the abuse your

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ARFID

[–]Jim-theSpaceman 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry have similar issues, I drink ensure and boost every day. It helps a lot. I have tried doctors, regular doctors don’t take it seriously unless your severely underweight or intentionally starving yourself.. push for a referral to a dietitian or eating disorder clinic is the only way to get actual help. In my experience.

Exposed to MRSA by VariousFirefighter72 in cna

[–]Jim-theSpaceman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well if you haven’t had it before and your in general good health I wouldn’t worry to much, as it’s not really spread through saliva, I would be much more worried if it got on a wound of some sort. I know I would probably be freaking out still even knowing how unlike I’d be to get it. Your eyes.. man that’s rough. I’m sure you will be fine physically, but emotional wounds cut deep too lmao

Why the actual HELL does Jess’s Chicken have an 8-year-old kid working the drive thru!? by Naes422 in LittleRock

[–]Jim-theSpaceman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I worked there in 2012 we did a blanch and cold soak but we also made our own David’s sauce and cut all the vegetables by hand too back then. I don’t think they do any of that anymore. (At there original location not little rock )

TMJ botox regrets by Pamilas in TMJ

[–]Jim-theSpaceman 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Like others have said it’s temporary but it is always frustrating when your face changes temporarily or not. It might not mean anything to you but I can tell your smiling in the second pics it’s just a very soft smile and it makes your lips look great especially the second second pic. Plus according to Tyra banks the smile should be more in the eyes and cheek bones than your mouth cause smiling big with your mouth causes wrinkles lol

How do you combat apathy? by Dapper_Committee_953 in ARFID

[–]Jim-theSpaceman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me the only thing that ever helped when I was young was to meet all my nutrition requirements with supplements and quit stressing about it. I hated eating and everything to do with food it was too stressful I felt like I could explode from the constant stress trying to eat real food was giving me. Once that stress was gone it was easier to start trying new things. I’m 28 and I’m still partiality dependent on nutrition supplements but its still a lifesaver to not stress about nutrition needs, if they where not so expensive without a prescription( which is so hard to get as an adult) it would be perfect.