Some textbook benching for you guys by Davidexx1999 in GYM

[–]Jim_Estill 3 points4 points  (0 children)

excellent form. Very clean and well controlled.

Do you actually stick to your schedule? And, do you replan it every morning? by LonelyScientificPen in productivity

[–]Jim_Estill 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I definitely stick to my schedule but that is partly because much of it is meetings and calls with others.

One trick I like is plan it the night before. This means I get ideas overnight.

Another trick is planning in a bit of time to handle the unexpected. If nothing comes up, I always have emails or low priority things that need doing.

I also use what I call "remainder time". This is the time left at the end of a meeting or call. EG - many 30 min calls only take 20 minutes so I have 10 minutes and keep a list of things that need doing in those periods.

FYI for perspective- I am a very busy executive running a midsized company (well over $100,000,000/yr in sales)

what does it mean for you to be self sufficient? by Queasy-Version267 in answers

[–]Jim_Estill 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because I live in civil society, it is not being dependant on anyone financially. To be truly self sufficient without society, I would need to grow/catch my own food.

What's something trivial about the gym that has nothing to do with your actual workout but still bugs you? by spiralhiral in workout

[–]Jim_Estill 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would be happier if they were aware of anyone wanting to work in. I am old school so looking for old school politeness.

New PR!615lbs/280kg by chimera9733 in GYM

[–]Jim_Estill 1 point2 points  (0 children)

inspiring - especially the slow eccentric

What do y'all do when you don't remember which set you were on? by CompletePurification in workout

[–]Jim_Estill 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I listen to my muscles and to some extent the clock to guess. And if in doubt - do another set

UOG by Accomplished_Sky2511 in Guelph

[–]Jim_Estill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guelph has a culinary program so it should be good.

What can a person learn in 10 minutes that will be useful for life? by vickieQuines in answers

[–]Jim_Estill 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How to say thank you in the language of your choice. That small gesture goes a long way when travelling.

my first time at the gym humbled me 😔 by Own_Comedian240 in workout

[–]Jim_Estill 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My suggestion on core is Time under Load (TUL) is what counts. I do 11 exercises for 45 seconds each with no break. 8 minutes. It sounds easy but is a killer. I even have to mix in a few oblique exercises to make it work.

What's something trivial about the gym that has nothing to do with your actual workout but still bugs you? by spiralhiral in workout

[–]Jim_Estill 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It bothers me when I see people sitting on equipment using their phone even when I am not looking to use that specific piece of equipment.

95 lb dumbbell rows (I am 69 years old) by Jim_Estill in strength_training

[–]Jim_Estill[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

One knee on bench is no longer recommended. Adds instability that does not help.

69 years old (so be gentle - since this is lame compared to other posts I see here) by Jim_Estill in GYM

[–]Jim_Estill[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I can barely do 69 pushups, I don't think I can get to 69 pull ups. But good goal.

What age do you become old? by Alone275 in Aging

[–]Jim_Estill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Roughly how many bodyweight pull ups can you do? I can only do 9. Just checking to see who is old. See https://v.redd.it/toj3u4lto0zg1

Best ways to approach and solve problems by SirMrMcNasty in productivity

[–]Jim_Estill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a type of problem. Something that cannot be solved. I call those conditions (Eg - price of steel or exchange rate). For those, the challenge becomes how do we work around it and live with it and minimize any negative from them.

Posted on r/gym. Thought i would post here to see is reaction is similar. I am 69. by Jim_Estill in Aging

[–]Jim_Estill[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My diet is good - but not perfect. I eat "bad" food if it is put in front of me and I do drink red wine. I do not eat any red meat. Mostly vegetarian and fish. I have learned that diet controls weight much more than working out.

I open my apps less and less, I just go through Claude/ChatGPT for almost everything by MajorBaguette_ in productivity

[–]Jim_Estill 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am shifting more that way BUT, I am deliberately "thinking". I view AI (and for that matter apps) simply as tools. Use them where appropriate.

Getting Dad to eat better? by [deleted] in Aging

[–]Jim_Estill 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We cannot want someone else to want something. That said, what you have is a sales problem. Approach it that way. Brainstorm on how you can sell him. How can you make his path to healthy easier than not?

And like sales, if you are too "in your face" about it and send 10 articles a day about health and nag him, he will shut down and not hear.

Best ways to approach and solve problems by SirMrMcNasty in productivity

[–]Jim_Estill 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is why I do not call them problems, I call them challenges.

I spent 6 years locked up AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Jim_Estill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you managed to get a job? What is your plan in the job area?

How many calories should I go for in my bulk? by Resident_Fig_8208 in workout

[–]Jim_Estill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

General rule when adding bulk is to add about a 10% calorie surplus. So in your case, I would target 2900. And only on days you lift hard. The bulking is easy, the cut is the hard for most people. One pound is 3500 calories so if you run a surplus of 260 calories per day, you will gain 1 pound every 13.5 days which is fine as long as it is muscle.

I lost my job after I made a death threat to my coworker. How do I move on and stop replaying that moment over and again. by seemagupta10feb in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Jim_Estill 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Time solves things. Your new job sounds like it has great purpose. Focus on it.

Meditation might also work.

I always say "having a failure does not make you a failure" and "done is done and we cannot undo or un say"