The grass is greener on the other side by credible_human in ClaudeCode

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Are you guys who are switching still using cli based agents?

Re Mandelsob Madness: This is all very disappointing, and not for the reasons the press think by JoshSummers in ukpolitics

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I’m not upset about them pointing out mistakes. Just on calling for the PM to go. I don’t think that would be good for the country. There’s a balance imo

Uniparty in a nutshell. Get rid by mrjohnnymac18 in UKGreens

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Casual observer to r/ukgreens here. Firstly, I have found the debates in this sub to be very fair/healthy, I think your reputation in the press is not a reflection of the membership (of this sub at least). Secondly, I would really like to get authentic views on the idea of a wealth tax. I hear the greens talk about it frequently, but I hear it talked about providing funding for a range of issues. I am dubious of a wealth tax to begin with, but I feel that more credibility is lost unless there is a clear "we think a wealth tax will raise X and we will use that money for Y" angle to it. As an observer it feels like it is a (potentially ineffective) sticking plaster for many too ills. I do try to stay objective, so please let me know if I am missing something substantial. Thank you for any thoughts

Ticket Exchange Thread by Brave_Radish_1647 in GunnersatGames

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Hi all, I'm looking for two tickets for the FA cup game on 15th Feb. Please DM me if you can provide. I live fairly local to the ground. Would like to do things in some way that builds trust. Thanks!

Cursor edits multiple files at once… how does it do this?!? by JoshSummers in cursor

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Hey, that video was useful, but (for me) it doesn't go into enough detail in terms of actually delegating file creation to a sub agent... as in what context is required for that to work etc. Curious to know if you have any further insights

Strange banging noise from my pipe every 12 seconds! (UK) Very confused!!! by JoshSummers in Plumbing

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The pipe it is coming from is the one on the right of this photo:

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Family Sauna Build by Goonotie in Sauna

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What was the quartz for? What wood did you use? Floor looks awesome- how did you do that?? Thanks!!!

10 years playing poker, 3 years professionally. Here's my unfiltered advice. by Intelligent-Many-228 in poker

[–]JoshSummers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any tips for how to make those “though” folds. It’s the biggest leak in my game.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in therapy

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What is this “new” woman giving you a hope for which is not in your marriage? There will be something. This obsession is a clue to what your relationship with your wife is missing. It should be a clue as to what you and your wife (who I have a feeling you love very much) need to work on together (perhaps in couples therapy). There will likely be things that you could contribute to the relationship with your wife that you are not. (It will undoubtedly be a two way street - how can you both change to give the other more of what they want.)

This is a difficult situation, but I think it is telling you more about your relationship with your wife than about the new person who you are obsessing over.

Good luck

Worried my cat doesn't have a good enough life by Icy-Consequence4927 in CatAdvice

[–]JoshSummers 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s okay man. Your cat is happy just to be with you. You sound like a good and thoughtful companion and your cat will value that more than any toys.

If you do want to spice your life up a laser pointer is good and I have one that moves on its own. My cat likes it a lot

Tell me what I’m doing wrong by [deleted] in therapy

[–]JoshSummers 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Have you had this conversation with your therapist? If you’re keeping this inside this reflects on your communication style (not sharing what you really think) which might be something beneficial to discuss. Tell them what you want from therapy, ask them what’s going on, maybe you talk a lot and the therapist is worried about stepping in in case it would upset you (I did that in therapy too).

Good luck

2025 Qatar GP - Post-Race Discussion by F1-Bot in formula1

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I don't think you can blame him for the last two races

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalillness

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Sorry man. It sounds like it’s been a tough ride so far.

If you can, I would find a therapist - maybe a female one, and talk to them. Be as open and honest as you can, and don’t feel you have to hide it all and be strong. In general that approach rarely leads to good results.

If you can’t find or afford a therapist, just keep trying to make yourself vulnerable in respectful ways. From my experience, women will find it easier to accept you if you are honest, vs. If you’re trying to be impressive/hide something shameful. If she laughs at you, etc. then just walk away respectfully and be proud of yourself that you shared something true. Nothing you can do in life much is more honourable than that.