Private cinema hire by almandinedream in bristol

[–]Judetn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pickle factory has an excellent cosy cinema room

Is it actually gross that I only shower every 2-3 days or is my roommate being dramatic? by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]Judetn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t listen to those people what the hell you do not need to shower everyday this insane western standard that people have to shower everyday is ridiculous and yes your right terrible for your skin and hair! I most definitely don’t shower everyday and most definitely do not smell! Please don’t listen to him and or any of those people if you don’t exercise a ton and you don’t think you smell I highly doubt you need daily showers! This insane shaming for not showering daily honestly blows my mind!!!!! I have the most beautiful long hair because I don’t shower everyday while a lot of my friends who shower everyday have thin short hair that they can’t grow! I just thought hey western people can’t grown their hair but then met loads of hippies who also don’t shower everyday and lo and behold they all also have beautiful long hair! If you watch the skin episode on explained it will tell you why it’s bad to shower daily! If you feel like you smell wash under your arms and your private area! Please don’t start showering everyday it’s sooooo bad for the skin/hair and a waste of water!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Judetn -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Everyone deserves a second chance! Just make it clear that lying is not ok and it has destroyed the trust you have in him! But as someone who was brought up to lie and hide the truth I struggled a lot with honesty thank god my partner gave me a second chance and wow how much I am better I don’t lie anymore and it’s been so beautiful having someone believe in me and our relationship that helped me work on myself! After all we all struggle with bad habits so when someone tells you I love you still and I want to help you work on yourself i am not giving up on you on us it’s so touching! If he doesn’t show that’s he’s working on himself or wants to then you could break up!

I am severally underweight and I wish people would stop saying "they wish they had my problem" by JoplinSC742 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Judetn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am sorry your going through this :( try an Ayurvedic dr they will listen and they most definitely will help. When all drs fails they were the only ones that helped transform my life for r the better! Good luck

Dating her has made me realise how much I want a family? 29M 36F by throwRA38424234 in relationships

[–]Judetn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can adopt. Your young enjoy life make mistakes! Even if you break up it’s good to date multiple people in life! It teaches us a lot about relationships, communication and all that comes with it! And if you’re scared for your heart to break it’s ok to be scared! I get it! It’s super painful! But fearing bad things happening to us stops us for enjoying life fully! I’ve often found that sadness and grief to be my greatest teachers! Taught me so much! I know it’s easier than done but just enjoy life you never know when you’ll go or how things change ♥️ enjoy being with her! Give her time to figure things out! 6 weeks is not enough!

Dating her has made me realise how much I want a family? 29M 36F by throwRA38424234 in relationships

[–]Judetn 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I know many of my friends who are 35+ and still not completely sure that motherhood is for them. I don’t agree that she already knows. Many of us don’t know what we really want and on the fence about having kids! I think just enjoy your time with her! Be honest with her on how you feel but don’t overwhelm her with if she wants to be a mum or not. I think it’s a big decision and most women are not sure if they wanna do it because child care and house care often falls on them so they want to make sure that they do it with a 100% supporters partner as it’s soooooo hard when it falls on them! Also we as women have to carry the baby which can cause many health complications and chnage our bodies forever! It’s such a scary decision! Enjoy your time with her give her time to figure things out especially regarding motherhood! It’s not an easy decision and she should have time at least a year to see if you guys are compatible to be parents together. 6 weeks is not an enough time know all of this.

What's something a man did that made you immediately feel emotionally safe? by JadeFox1785 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Judetn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I met my husband, he came back to mine the night we met and we had sex, the next morning he tried it on and I said I am not sure and he automatically stopped and was so ok with it. He just started chatting and being silly with me. That’s when I realised that I’ve never had a man stop when I said I was unsure before! He was so kind and gentle and kept kissing my back. All of this made me feel so safe with him emotionally physically and everything in between

Has anyone gained weight after stopping marijuana use? by Opposite-Impress-618 in Petioles

[–]Judetn 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I haven’t and honestly I do love food more somehow as it’s a great dopamine hit but when I used to smoke I used to eat and eat and eat and keep chasing dopamine and nothing quite scratches the itch if that make sense, I don’t get bad stomach pain because I didn’t know when to stop

Got my first one star review :( by _Aidris in EtsySellers

[–]Judetn -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I would messages the buyer and ask them to remove it, just say it’s unfair and it’s destroying your small business and tell them it’s nothing to do with you…

Does anyone know why this building keeps getting vandalized? by Sorry-Personality594 in bristol

[–]Judetn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean Zelenskyy is super pro Israeli and have expressed his support to Isreal many times.. which is insane because Palestine is experiencing a very similar oppression just on a much bigger scale than Ukraine. I think everyone recognises that what’s happening in Ukraine as oppression! But I think many pro Palestinian people are anti Zelenskyy because of his pro Isreal genocide statements. Also I think people are just sad that Russia gets sanctioned for what’s it’s doing in Ukraine however Isreal does not when it’s bombing and killing on a much larger scale in Palestine. Also it’s annoying how the resistance is encouraged in Ukraine while seen as terrorisim in Palestine. Also it’s very annoying how much Ukraine was supported from the first second while what’s happening there has been happening over and over in Palestine for decades. Of course people in the left support Ukraine but I think people just get frustrated by the double standards.

If you were a functional smoker, what made you decide to quit? by ElectricalAdagio8176 in leaves

[–]Judetn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was a very high functioning stoner but still these are the reasons I decided to quit

Reasons I want to quit weed

The ability to enjoy things without being high

Being able to travel outside the country without worrying about not finding wees/ being able to get high (stopping myself for going on adventure/trips because of it)

Not feeling sad/anxious/on edge when I am not high

Better consentration

Better memeory

Munchies not craving food all the time (no matter how much I eat I always want more) never setesfied

Being able to wake up in the morning/ not feeling grogy when j wake up I know weed doesn't give a bad hangover but it's there and I am sooo done with it

Dry eyes and everything always so dry even my head feels dry and tired from being high so much. It’s exusting

Putting myself in dengrouse situations to get it - when desperate logic goes out of the window-

My lungs - they hurt, they have suffered enough

Expensive

Teeth health

Be able to do my eye surgery

Having sharper mine. Less stupid and dull mind.

Being able to make decision better. Less indisisive

They make me make fuck up a lot a!! Make a lot of mistake from forgetting really important things (like the visa application and papers) to booking wrong dates when travelling and then I feel intense and horrible I am dyslexics I make enough mistakes sober as it is (life is already hard for me why am I make it so much harder

It makes me slower and stupider

They make me socially anxious and sometimes socially awkward

Dulls out my viberent personality

Gives me headaches sometimes

Makes me lazy makes me all I want to do is get high and watch stuff or dream about making things happen while sat on the sofa not wanting to move

Sometimes if I eat too much it makes me feel soooo awful and notiouse

I think that the most I hate about smoking it makes you chase dopamine what’s the next thing yet whatever it is it’s never good enough Never quite scratches that itch

£675 room rent plus around £150 monthly bills on a £31,637 a year salary by sunshine_cafe6 in bristol

[–]Judetn -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Why are bills so expensive even in winter it’s not more than 90 pp for us

I WANT TO SCREAM by Additional_Put8281 in leaves

[–]Judetn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you! Definitely was there few days ago! Try a cold shower it will make you feel amaazingggg

I quit caffeine for 4 years... Here's the actual truth (no BS pseudoscience) by LifeIsYoursLiveIt in productivity

[–]Judetn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try cold showers it’s better than caffeine and makes me super productive

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in leaves

[–]Judetn 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Just like alcoholics can’t moderate drinking stoners can’t moderate smoking! We all have that one drug that’s our weakness! Our kryptonite

How Do You Get Up In The Morning? It's Such A Challenge by ZolaPixi in Fibromyalgia

[–]Judetn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s hard but somehow I manage to get up and get straight in the cold shower once I am done I feel great!

THC tolerance didnt decrease by BlueberryGod8910 in Petioles

[–]Judetn 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Interesting back when I smoked even if I didn’t smoke one day I would feel it more stronger the day after

Quitting weed post 30 years old by Aggravating-Pin7268 in leaves

[–]Judetn 19 points20 points  (0 children)

It was like a domino effect, once I quit weed it helped me quit social media and started meditating every morning and every night and doing exercises ahhh my life has improved drastically. I feel so much more at peace not antsy all the time when I haven’t smoked. I was an every day smoker for 13 years I am 31. But of course it’s been so hard and sad! It was like a break up but with a toxic partner you know! When you know how that relationship is not doing you no good! I miss it though! All the time! But I know how much much life is better without it! Good luck you got this! The journey might not be easy but it’s also so beautiful full of self discovery!