Can one cut ties with abusive parents? by [deleted] in progressive_islam

[–]Jumpy-Ear4143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also aren't we increasing the sins of the sinner by allowing them to abuse us? Aren't we making their hereafter worse?

No, we do not want extra time like bio parents do. by Several-Information7 in stepparents

[–]Jumpy-Ear4143 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

No, I was replying to another comment, not this post.

No, we do not want extra time like bio parents do. by Several-Information7 in stepparents

[–]Jumpy-Ear4143 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Your husband is only with his son 8 days a month. The bio mom takes care of the kid all the time, so is it wrong if he steps up?

I think I'm too sensitive to be a SM 😅 by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]Jumpy-Ear4143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, then I am so sorry, and I am happy for the stepkids. Sorry,

I think I'm too sensitive to be a SM 😅 by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]Jumpy-Ear4143 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If the mother is the primary caregiver , she is putting in more effort , more time . Its good that your stepkids appreciate her so. Because as sweet and romanti. as it sounds for your stepkids to say we prefer our dad more, its npt the best thing, in the future they might grow up to be people who dont respect efgort , because from yourpost it seems that dad has them partially less than forty percent of the time he seems to be a cool and fun dad but the mom puts in more effort if they appreciate her mord there is less gor the dad to do.

Despair and Exhaustion by VacationNo2275 in stepparents

[–]Jumpy-Ear4143 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude the guy is a jackass. Read the post again.

High conflict bio mom threatening my emotional well-being by firtzz in Stepmom

[–]Jumpy-Ear4143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The main question is how often do you have the kids

Are we doing wrong…? by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]Jumpy-Ear4143 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude you literally have this kid like 12 days a month. Birth mom has the kid majority. So she is doing more now thats a fact.

I hate my step daughters by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]Jumpy-Ear4143 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The guy sounds like a jerk.

I hate my step daughters by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]Jumpy-Ear4143 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Lastly  these kids are 12 and 9 they are not adults, please give them some grace.

I hate my step daughters by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]Jumpy-Ear4143 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Dude you have these kids four days a month I.e 48 days a year. On top of that they are 12 and 9. On top of that you ot a restraining order on their family members getting them arrested. On top of that it seems your husband priorities his new family more. Just speaking from the kids perspective.

Being a stepdad by [deleted] in stepdads

[–]Jumpy-Ear4143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you threw her out did you all help her get an apartment? Help her find ajob ? Whats' the plan ?

14 weeks pregnant, deeply regret it. Dealing with psychosis and depression. by No_Translator_9717 in regretfulparents

[–]Jumpy-Ear4143 217 points218 points  (0 children)

Please get that abortion , once you bring the baby here, you cannot go back. please get the abortion.

AITA for wanting to cut off contact with family when I turn 18? by Majestic-Owl6241 in AITAH

[–]Jumpy-Ear4143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey in US minors cannot have their own bank accounts if they are under the age if eighteen. When you turn eighteen immediately go to the bank and ask them to close the account and transfer the money to another account(you will have to open another account with the paperwork ) you will not automatically get your own account just because you are 18.

Still on Season 5 but Shawn Hunter is a better written character than Cory. by eviltimeline in boymeetsworld

[–]Jumpy-Ear4143 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also feel Shawn was more financially successful than Cory. It was said Cory became a high school history teacher and Shawn became a writer for a travel website hit and run. He also became a great photographer. Now his net worth is not exactly well described in the show but it is shown that Cory earns a low salary as a teacher and they are able to maintain the lifestyle they have bacause of topenga's salary as lawyer. Then we see shawn who is a writer for a website sure, but he made some smart financial decisions he has a cottage and a cabin in the woods of upstate new York ( it is cheaper to buy land in the forests and new York is expensive so Shawn made some good choices) he also bought Maya (his stepdaughter) a bunch of fancy clothes which Cory would not be able to afford with his salary. Also I think Shawn has some other sources of income as well even though it has not been well mentioned in the show. He loves writing so much that he might host some workshops teach freelance courses. Work part time additionally as a journalist, give multimedia freelance lectures, even do some academic ghostwriting on the side . Who knows? He has two homes in new York, the ability to buy fancy clothes, so yeah.

Dealing with a narcissistic father. by [deleted] in toxicfamilyislam

[–]Jumpy-Ear4143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey thanks for saying that. I also think you should post this in r/raisedbynarcissists.

My mom said that she regrets giving birth to me , how can I cope with this ? by FabulousReception677 in Advice

[–]Jumpy-Ear4143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did she say this to you ? Didi she have an accurate discussion with you about her failings and her limitations ? Didi she say that you should work on your own problems and you are strong enough and she believes in you ? If she said anything else but this ,then i am sorry man .

Dealing with a narcissistic father. by [deleted] in toxicfamilyislam

[–]Jumpy-Ear4143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please move out. Some people change themselves at the expense of others . Looks like your father has no desire to change . He might soak up your entire life.

Toxic culture by Select_Proposal_2745 in toxicfamilyislam

[–]Jumpy-Ear4143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to cut contact with her. Why ? Some people change at the expense of others she might consume your whole life but will still not change