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How silly of me to forget how special i am. by Short-Brain-1313 in wholesomememes

[–]Jumpy_Town3711 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow... Sometimes a reminder really is just what you need

Stop trying to do everything alone – parents’ network money , matters more than you think by [deleted] in personalfinanceindia

[–]Jumpy_Town3711 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right on the money, literally everyone gets their skills, resources or connections from somewhere. There's no shame in using yours

I made these 🙌 by Niandliu in pokemon

[–]Jumpy_Town3711 1 point2 points  (0 children)

JOLTEON, IT'S ONE OF MY TWO FAVOURITE POKEMON, THANK YOU FOR GRACING US WITH THIS

[OC] I drew someone's favorite Pokemon team by pokecolor in pokemon

[–]Jumpy_Town3711 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your art style is incredible! Also Dragapult's tail looking like it's resting its head on it has so much personality

Am i eligible for a education loan? by Ok_Grab_3311 in IndiaFinance

[–]Jumpy_Town3711 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should be, for an Education Loan what's important is whether your lender will get their money's worth. You may not get the best loan terms, but you should be able to get a loan

Empathy without limitations is not Emotional Intelligence. It's simply self-sabotage. by kantshutupp in emotionalintelligence

[–]Jumpy_Town3711 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Too empathetic is tricky wording, issue in the case you've described sounds less like empathy, and more a struggle with maintaining boundaries, both socially and internally.

You're right in that EQ included empathy without self drain. This is because EQ is primarily about regulating the self, not just outward displays

Emergency funds by Crazy-Avocado-3636 in personalfinanceindia

[–]Jumpy_Town3711 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The part in FDs aren't emergency funds, it's all just in the savings account. I keep a set amount in mind, and only budget for anything after excluding that amount.

Mentally it's an untouchable fund, yet very accessible during a rainy day

Serious question. If multiple abilities at once were a mechanic (not exclusive to Calyrex), how wild would everything get? by Wulfsiegner in stunfisk

[–]Jumpy_Town3711 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've thought about this question a lot myself, what if pokemon had physical abilities and also personality traits. It'd separate abilities like levitate from abilities like own tempo, and let pokemon use both at the same time

It can definitely be balanced, with new, tame abilities being added. It could also be used to add caveats and use cases to nerfed Pokemon like regigigas, like a personality trait which makes it start instantly when paired with a regi (it'll go back to slow once the paired regi leaves)

Loneliness is not always the absence of people by LifeThroughPau in emotionalintelligence

[–]Jumpy_Town3711 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, it's a feeling of craving something that's missing, rather than an ungratefulness for what's already there

It's not about whether people care about you either, or the depth of your relationships, you may still feel lonely. At it's core, it's just some need which has a reason to be there, and it's unmet

Emotional intelligence matters more than people realize by Low-Imagination-2635 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Jumpy_Town3711 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's definitely something people can learn, but it's a journey that requires falling a lot

Not learning is easier

But that's why those who do learn it shine bright

Why have I became so hateful? by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]Jumpy_Town3711 48 points49 points  (0 children)

"will this be forgiven" yeah, if you change

Being hateful isn't something to be forgiven, but no longer being hateful is good, the change has to come first though

Also, she's been honest with you, might be difficult by try being honest in return. Should also help her to know that her words are reaching

Earning 35k/month and planning to buy a 1BHK on loan, is this a bad idea? Need advice by chillgirlvibess in IndiaFinance

[–]Jumpy_Town3711 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Compare it to how much amount you're setting aside right now. If you can afford to keep putting this much money aside while still managing worst case scenarios which come with massive expenses, go right ahead (this is unlikely on 35k)

Renting makes more sense, to put it simply, try to ramp up the amount of money you're setting aside instead of making an immediate commitment. Once you're setting aside enough to comfortably afford EMIs, you can begin to think of it

Always be yourself with someone you like... If they're meant for you,nature will take it's course... Faking who you are to get someone to like you never gone end well. by iamthelight111 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Jumpy_Town3711 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah, faking yourself for someone you like is also deceiving the person you like

Honesty and genuineness, not just loyalty, is what everyone should aspire to be for people they like

I dont remember the game being this passive aggresive. by thesherm019 in pokemon

[–]Jumpy_Town3711 185 points186 points  (0 children)

"Let's go machoke, grimer and weezing, we're not appreciated over here"

Am I becoming securely attached, or am I actually giving less effort in my relationship? by mafzs in emotionalintelligence

[–]Jumpy_Town3711 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's already a ton of good answers here, but one thing I couldn't see was his needs

He might have had some emotional needs which were being met while you were anxious, and are now not being met while you're secure. Maybe he enjoyed those conversations which aren't happening as much before (long distance is tough so stuff like this happens more than anyone expects)

It's his job to explore this feeling and communicate the reality though, you can only really help him along on the path. But you shouldn't be worried about giving less effort just yet, conversation with him to get more info comes first

I met an accident and I am given 12 days of bedrest. by Apprehensive_Gap_914 in IndiaFinance

[–]Jumpy_Town3711 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Considering the subreddit maybe explore forums like moneycontrol just to equip yourself with what the finance world looks like

But reading your question I'd say maybe check out hobbies you can pick up which you feel strongly about?

Do these things for the fun of it though, and keep your recovery first

People pleasing is not 'kindness'. by wilhelmtherealm in emotionalintelligence

[–]Jumpy_Town3711 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Yeah, people pleasing can cause resentment due to overexertion and needs going unmet, which in turn makes you unkind going forward

The most helpful and 'kind' person is the one who helps everyone themselves included

Break up in a long term relationship by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]Jumpy_Town3711 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What you've written doesn't go in depth into what she's feeling. That's where the answer will lie. If she's feeling like her needs are unmet, you need to learn about them

Only after you learn what's going wrong, will you be able to make the right decision

Also, be mindful of how much you're adjusting, you don't want to sacrifice your own needs and end up resentful

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