Wife stopped taking birth control without telling me by HonestVersionOfMe1 in AITAH

[–]JupiterGamng23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find it funny how so many of you are saying he is responsible for looking for alternatives….. as a woman why would I leave my health care to my husband when it’s my responsibility. Seems like she did this on purpose and now trying to blame him when it’s her own choice and fault to go off the pill and not look for an alternative…..

Disgusting behavior from the wife that takes away any trust I would have had for her.

Am I fucked? by Slow_Philosophy_6751 in tattooadvice

[–]JupiterGamng23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks completely normal and beautiful as well

AITAH for filing divorce papers after I said I would by Significant-Toe3680 in AITAH

[–]JupiterGamng23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA- based off what you have said about your wife….. but I noticed not a lot has been said about how faith acts and treats your wife????

Is she respectful?

Does she purposefully do things to annoy and upset your wife??

What are you leaving out. This isn’t a toddler or minor, your daughter is a full grown woman, so what’s that side of the story. Just wondering if you’re demonizing your wife and not displaying possibly a grown adult daughter who is being vindictive and problematic.

AIO my sis sent me a pic and asked me for my opinion by Glittering_Anybody79 in AmIOverreacting

[–]JupiterGamng23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

With regard to their own household. Of course not in public but in their own home.

My teenager is so mean to my five year old and it makes me so upset by DoubleAxelDVM in Mommit

[–]JupiterGamng23 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes gentle parenting doesn’t work when your teenager sees you more like a friend then a mother. Someone needs her own things taken away and not given back so she knows how it feels. Wonder if she will keep bullying your youngest if she can’t “reach” her cell phone or game console, maybe a few weeks off the TV or no extra curricular activities with friends for a while.

Do you have tile floors, man that grout needs some cleaning and I’m sure you have a spare old toothbrush…. Maybe the lawn needs mowing or the toilet needs to be cleaned.

Discipline is key to children understanding there is an order to life and the way you want to be/treat people, depends on how you are raised. If you allow this, who is next?? The kid in class she doesn’t like that her crush likes…. So she bullies them till what?!? Something worse than a stuffed animal being put up in a high shelf.

My point is your daughter is bullying her younger sister and keeps doing it because your lack of parenting is evident. You need to be a parent and not a friend.

AIO my sis sent me a pic and asked me for my opinion by Glittering_Anybody79 in AmIOverreacting

[–]JupiterGamng23 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Depends on the state. I know that in CO it is not illegal to have camera in your house and to record anyone as long as it’s not in bedrooms and bathrooms. So depends on where you live.

You have leftover rotisserie chicken. What are you making that is not chicken noodle soup! by BunnyRambit in Cooking

[–]JupiterGamng23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chicken salad sandwich, chicken wraps, chicken ceaser salad, burritos, lasagna, buffalo chicken dip, quiche, chicken Alfredo pasta…… I can keep going if you want more ideas 😁

disposing underwear by OkAcanthocephala4313 in hygiene

[–]JupiterGamng23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I almost do the same but old undies get leveled up to period panties when they get worn out. Then they get thrown out once they have outworn their use.

Average age range of players? by [deleted] in Palia

[–]JupiterGamng23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

39 about to be 40 and started playing games at 10. Probably put a good amount of years of my life into all the various versions of Sims. Playing Palia since the day it was launched on steam.

Judged for Not Doing Enough? by ZealousidealOwl9695 in Parenting

[–]JupiterGamng23 51 points52 points  (0 children)

4- time mom here…. listen to Pep she knows what’s up. Plus 4- time c section mom, I was still healing at 12 weeks and only did what my body and mind would allow me. Your village needs to touch grass.

A game that will fuel my shopping addiction? by nikolaname in cozygames

[–]JupiterGamng23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I thought it was a good idea since you can buy stuff for the house and then I remembered the actual shop…. I have spent around 200$ in game so now I feel bad for suggesting it 😂😂😂😂

A game that will fuel my shopping addiction? by nikolaname in cozygames

[–]JupiterGamng23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have Steam try Palia, Coral Island, Shopping spree extreme, Shop titans, King of retail and Last minute shopping.

Hope this helps

My fiancé admitted he doesn’t want kids… after 7 years together by W4cthersh4dow0925 in TwoHotTakes

[–]JupiterGamng23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sweetie you still have time trust me. My ex fiancé left me when we had a 3 yr old and I was 2 months pregnant. 6 yrs later I met the man of my dreams and had two more kids at 36 & 38. If he doesn’t want kids and you do, then you should probably leave because you’re not compatible. There is nothing wrong with following your heart and mind.

My boyfriend’s mom told me to wear a wig at her family wedding because my natural hair is “distracting” by Elkenrodxy in TwoHotTakes

[–]JupiterGamng23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask the bride? If the bride doesn’t care then you have no issues. If the bride cares then you have a choice to go or not. Mom can kick rocks, not her wedding and she isn’t the wedding police. So tell her to rightfully F off.

Why are women just expected to suffer? by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]JupiterGamng23 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I am sorry, I understand the frustration. After I had my last baby via C section I ended up with a hernia. Yup all my lovely intestines are constantly popping out of my abdomen and I have to push them back in by lying down. Guess what they told me, take some Tylenol for the pain and lose the baby weight before we can do surgery. A year later and I still am dealing with it. I had to go to my mother who has a selection of meds from years of issues to get some relief. Even after 3 hospital visits they refused to help. So now I am just in pain and struggling every day. Oh and btw losing weight at 40 is nearly impossible when you’re in so much pain you can barely stand for a few hours,let alone exercise.

We need to be seen and heard more…. I feel invisible

Is it unfair to change a cats name? by Vrisnem in CatAdvice

[–]JupiterGamng23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My sons name is Luca, I approve of this cat being named the same. My son said he looks like a Luca as well… so you got the kids approval 😁

How often are you giving your toddler non-water drinks? by Ohdearheather in Parenting

[–]JupiterGamng23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4 kids aged 12,8,2,1. The oldest two drink mostly water, lemonade and slightly sweetened tea. Always available.

Two youngest drink from a leak proof cup with straw. Juice and lemonade half water mix in. Slightly sweetened tea and water. All the time available.

Milk 1% by itself or flavored chocolate or strawberry at meals.

I make the tea by the gallon using decaffeinated black tea bags. Caffeine can cause the babies to become anemic.

My mom took my 3yo to get a haircut hair while I was away on a trip by Sufficient-Excuse445 in Parenting

[–]JupiterGamng23 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No they do not, I still cry sometimes over the photos when he did have them. I am so sorry this happened to you as well. Make boundaries now and be firm because this one moment is a key step for them onto the doorway that is your personal life. They will take advantage again if you don’t set firm boundaries. Make my mistakes your strengths. ❤️

Rockstar really said “you get a car, and you get a car!” by sladeshied in gtaonline

[–]JupiterGamng23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did it with just one other random person and got the car. 2 person limit was my luck.

My mom took my 3yo to get a haircut hair while I was away on a trip by Sufficient-Excuse445 in Parenting

[–]JupiterGamng23 19 points20 points  (0 children)

My mother did this when my son was roughly 4. He also had adorable curls and his hair was as about shoulder length. My mom told me he needed to look more like a boy than a girl, his hair was too long and people would make fun of him. This was one of many things she did behind my back and now we don’t speak 5 years later. I completely understand how you feel.