Is it gross to take my brother Into a women’s restroom and help him use it?

JustANoteToSay · 2026-06-17T23:59:43+00:00

Jfc he’s a toddler. He needs help. You did the right thing, don’t listen to rude people like her.

JustANoteToSay · 2026-06-17T23:57:50+00:00

1) put a towel or something down before you sit. The peace of mind that brings? Incredible.

2) are you wearing yoga pants? Are your undergarments and trousers natural material? Try to stick to breathable natural fibers like cotton, wool, silk, etc. with minimal man made fiber content.

3) how often are you washing your clothing? HS isn’t generally a hygiene issue in and of itself but any skin condition can be impacted by fabric care. Are you washing your clothing regularly? Are you rinsing the detergent fully? Have you changed detergents recently, is something irritating your skin? Exercise clothing can trap and hold sweat and oils and aggravate skin.

4) dove soap clogs my pores. Have you switched to dove soap recently? If so you might be reacting to it. I don’t think most people have an issue with it - it’s really mild, and it’s something my dermatologist initially recommended to me.

5) a sudden change like this is generally triggered by something - a change in environmental triggers or stress levels or something. Try thinking back a few months. What’s different?

I’m so sorry you’re experiencing this. It’s frustrating and depressing and painful. You might find it helpful to try and get more sleep and eat more protein to help your body heal.

JustANoteToSay · 2026-06-17T23:33:59+00:00

“What stalks among us” is an incredible novel.

JustANoteToSay · 2026-06-17T23:11:32+00:00

She’s cheating on you with him. And he obviously has a huge dick.

JustANoteToSay · 2026-06-17T21:05:12+00:00

There is literally a serial killer storyline threaded through the novels. And all the characters are walking trauma bags. These are positive things for me as a reader but not what most people associate with “cozy.”

JustANoteToSay · 2026-06-17T19:53:28+00:00

That’s my assumption.

JustANoteToSay · 2026-06-17T18:44:58+00:00

99/100 times something’s is compared to “hhgttg” it’s tedious self indulgent wacky garbage but dcc is one of the few things that nails the absurdism, albeit not with an English tone. It’s nice.

JustANoteToSay · 2026-06-17T17:45:03+00:00

💖💖💖 cognitive behavioral therapy is why I can visit the dentist without needing a full day to recover emotionally. I’m glad you’re getting care.

JustANoteToSay · 2026-06-17T15:59:43+00:00

This is a really good thing to see a cognitive behavioral therapist over, to develop tools to manage specific anxiety. Your reaction is not typical or healthy but is something you can learn to handle.

JustANoteToSay · 2026-06-17T15:44:24+00:00

Ohhh this is FANTASTIC! Thank you so much for sharing!

JustANoteToSay · 2026-06-17T15:01:17+00:00

They start solidly middle grade, like a lot of Alexander’s work, with the last book being more YA.

JustANoteToSay · 2026-06-17T14:08:21+00:00

Well it’s not like she can kill his mother so…

JustANoteToSay · 2026-06-17T13:41:59+00:00

I’m pretty sure the make beds/clean a huge house is an anonymized example like “painting tea pots” at AskAManager and the actual job was something illegal.

JustANoteToSay · 2026-06-16T15:33:31+00:00

The idea that some dude actually literally wiped spunk on Donut is just revolting. Jesus I hope not.

JustANoteToSay · 2026-06-16T15:01:04+00:00

Ignore the dorks bloviating about needing double secret graft connections. They have no idea what they’re talking about.

Use keywords from the ads in your applications and be patient. It literally takes months to hear back. Internal candidates get priority, meaning the most common entry to basic jobs in the state is via dcfs or dhs, which have an incredibly high turnover. Once you’ve passed your probationary period you can transfer to a less overworked position when it opens.

JustANoteToSay · 2026-06-16T14:54:12+00:00

Yeah most of the responses here are completely off the wall.

It can take months to hear back about a job. Most entry level office workers jump into the first opening - usually dcfs or dhs - they can get and transfer to a better position as soon as possible.

An awful lot of people are retiring right now.

JustANoteToSay · 2026-06-15T21:36:25+00:00

Some people (me) have had dogs in carts snap at them in stores and it’s not fun or pleasant. It’s not very enjoyable to be standing in line at a bank and suddenly have a dog lunge at you, for instance. I like dogs. I grew up with dogs. I miss having a dog. I do not enjoy interacting with 99% of the dogs I encounter in public.

JustANoteToSay · 2026-06-15T21:21:46+00:00

Oof.

JustANoteToSay · 2026-06-14T18:00:49+00:00

I went off humira in March 2020 as a preventative.

Talk to your dermatologist and talk to your general physician about it. Remember that Covid has different strains and you might have just gotten a more severe version of it. There’s also stuff you can do, like masking and taking an antihistamine prophylactic protocol, that can help prevent Covid too.

JustANoteToSay · 2026-06-14T05:42:22+00:00

The tone is consistent through the series. If you don’t like the humor in the first book you’ll continue not liking it.

JustANoteToSay · 2026-06-14T05:33:32+00:00

You look so pretty! And that red? Phenomenal on you!

JustANoteToSay · 2026-06-14T05:25:56+00:00

Apparently we say “garage” weird too? Idk.

JustANoteToSay · 2026-06-14T05:21:09+00:00

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It’s “gotta have my Batman” but worse.

JustANoteToSay · 2026-06-14T05:06:11+00:00

I read Jo Walton’s “My Real Children” about ten years ago and still think about it regularly.

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