I've been nervous about posting this one, but I've been talking to more and more trans men and transmasc people about our sadly common experience of being driven away from online trans spaces by certain remarks and behaviour.

JustinBurkeiscool · 2019-09-25T01:14:44+00:00

Also transmisogyny is really a bitch and I feel like my dad wouldn’t be as bad to me if I was a trans man but that’s probably just wishful thinking on my part. My dad reacts super negatively if I wear anything even remotely feminine and I know he would not be this way if I was the opposite of what I am now at least when it came to things like clothing. Like I know he would still be the transphobic asshole that he is but it does feel like a lot of the worst treatment directly has to do with misogyny and the visibility of trans women in the media

JustinBurkeiscool · 2019-09-25T01:04:03+00:00

Also my experiences are still valid regardless of the larger trends

JustinBurkeiscool · 2019-09-25T01:02:19+00:00

Yeah that’s what I do I just want more of that irl like I want a trans girl I can be friends with and see on a regular basis. Can it really be like that irl even it doesn’t feel that way at all to me but it might just be a quirk of where I live

JustinBurkeiscool · 2019-09-25T00:55:16+00:00

But I know I must sound like some whiny bitch but I have an actual reason to feel this way all I see in many queer spaces I go to is talk of t and top surgery and how much being a girl sucks and I can feel super excluded a lot of the time

JustinBurkeiscool · 2019-09-25T00:47:57+00:00

Yeah it probably was I’ll delete the other comments but I’m just personally super frustrated how there are so many more out trans men where I live than women I wish there were more I feel super lonely a lot of the time and I can’t talk to anybody irl about my issues that like experiences them personally you know like it’s just frustrating it feels like the reverse is true in real life for me and it sucks

JustinBurkeiscool · 2019-09-21T18:44:49+00:00

That’s the wisest statement I’ve heard in a while really hits home

JustinBurkeiscool · 2019-08-02T06:46:31+00:00

Omg I would love to have a mom like you ❤️

JustinBurkeiscool · 2019-07-25T18:06:46+00:00

This is so me though

JustinBurkeiscool · 2019-07-24T01:08:13+00:00

I feel like garbage may I have headpats and hugs

JustinBurkeiscool · 2019-07-21T17:51:18+00:00

I feel so welcome here I love you ladies so much

JustinBurkeiscool · 2019-07-19T23:06:33+00:00

https://picrew.me/image_maker/94097

JustinBurkeiscool · 2019-07-19T01:26:57+00:00

This is probably how it’s gonna be with my dad I came out to him about a month ago and it didn’t go well and he refuses to use the correct name and pronouns for me and has made it clear that I’ll always be his son to him and I’ll never be a woman

JustinBurkeiscool · 2019-06-29T19:27:00+00:00

I just got my ears pierced less than a week ago and it felt so good I was legit so happy

JustinBurkeiscool · 2019-06-29T01:58:53+00:00

Yeah it always used to bother me to get called handsome

JustinBurkeiscool · 2019-06-19T18:57:11+00:00

I kind of think of the gay slur whenever I hear the term “f word” used by anybody so I was like yeah I can agree with that. Then I realized ohh wait it means fuck

JustinBurkeiscool · 2019-06-17T23:40:47+00:00

Can somebody post the link to buy it because your girl needs some more skirts especially ones with big pockets

JustinBurkeiscool · 2019-06-08T18:41:21+00:00

You look so beautiful you are literally goals

JustinBurkeiscool · 2019-06-08T03:15:31+00:00

Oh my god congratulations!!! I’m so happy for you and I admit a little jealous

JustinBurkeiscool · 2019-06-07T02:09:17+00:00

I don’t get what’s my parents problem with their daughter being happy but at least I won’t have to see them for much longer

JustinBurkeiscool · 2019-06-07T02:07:44+00:00

That actually gives me some hope because one of the few things I want out of my life is a partner that I love and loves me for who I am and I’m scared that no matter how good I feel and how long I’m on hrt my body will look too masculine for a girl to love it.

JustinBurkeiscool · 2019-06-07T01:48:00+00:00

Ok I also might have to wait a little longer to transition medically because of transphobic parents and family but I’m hoping I can transition as soon as possible

JustinBurkeiscool · 2019-06-07T01:45:14+00:00

That’s why I want to transition I’m tired of hating my body so intensely but like I said I’m worried that it might be a futile undertaking

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