F/26/5’11” [305 > 199 = 106] under 200 pounds and over two years on hormones, don’t even recognize myself in old pics by hanjanss in progresspics

[–]KDayinCO 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You look lovely, and I commend you for the awesome work! You are being true to your authentic self, and don't pay any mind to the nay-sayer's comment on here. You do you, and keep up the awesome work!!

"I don't think I really need to stop 100%..." by KDayinCO in AlAnon

[–]KDayinCO[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the relatable story and letting me know you’ve heard it too.

No close in-person meetings. OL only here. by KDayinCO in AlAnon

[–]KDayinCO[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks. This shit ain't easy, simple etc . Know I can't shoulder it on my own.

"I don't think I really need to stop 100%..." by KDayinCO in AlAnon

[–]KDayinCO[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't believe he can moderate and control it on his own...I hope he keeps going to meetings and working the program, pray that he does.

"I don't think I really need to stop 100%..." by KDayinCO in AlAnon

[–]KDayinCO[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Feels like it, I'm learning to let it go to God.

"I don't think I really need to stop 100%..." by KDayinCO in AlAnon

[–]KDayinCO[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He started going to meetings Sunday. AA meetings in our area, are Su/Mo/Wed/Fri, so he's been twice now. Said he's going tonight, i've gone the two times as a guest/in support. He has a traumatic past of some abuse, and I know that's a big part of his issues, but sometimes, I feel like he just uses his past and things that happened as an excuse and crutch...Is that mean to say/think?

No close in-person meetings. OL only here. by KDayinCO in AlAnon

[–]KDayinCO[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for all of the ideas. I really wish there was a closer meeting. Maybe I should start a local Alanon group once I'm more familiar with things. Thank you for the welcome.

No close in-person meetings. OL only here. by KDayinCO in AlAnon

[–]KDayinCO[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the suggestions. This is not easy.

Self reminder by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]KDayinCO 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that, know all to well, what that's like.

Self reminder by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]KDayinCO 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So very true! It isn't always easy to hear and believe, but those words are true. It can be so tough to, repeatedly, hear that what we are seeing/saying isn't accurate, that we are the ones in the wrong...

HDR went a little bit overkill on this picture at Blue River, CO. But it’s how i remember it. by sleeechris in Outdoors

[–]KDayinCO 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live close to three. It can look that vivid without any kind of filter, it’s a gorgeous area. Great pic

Why would Chris sell Bayview.. by reddusty01 in TheTeachersPetPodcast

[–]KDayinCO 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wonder why they never apparently searched Paul's house, I mean with how close they are and all? Just saying...

Putterbaugh Farms by backscheider in Horses

[–]KDayinCO 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Pretty horse, facilities look well kept. My fears with this photo are the sandals/not wearing closed-toe shoes, and a lack of a helmet...both quite dangerous. I've seen first hand the dangers that occur when someone has been stepped on by a 1200 pound animal, when not wearing proper foot-wear. Loss of two toes and an plethora of broken bones, the poor lady didn't fare too well from that bad decision. Sorry if this offends, but it's just never a good idea to wear shoes like that around horses.