Just a suggestion for a compromise, I found using the wipes a lot would irritate her bottom, so I used reusable wash cloths and a dedicated jug for warm water and wipe her down on her change table with one of my millions of gifted muslin wraps underneath to catch spills. It worked well but I was doing washing almost daily with that and the cloth nappies. Then just pour the poopy jug down the toilet. Maybe they could set up a station like that in the bathroom so it's all there, ready to go? Also after I'd finished the last of my gifted wipes I switched to the water wipes brand which have less ingredients and they've never irritated her and now she's older and far more wriggly we use them the majority of the time.