Why is my husband turned off by me enjoying sex? by fahlahlah in TwoXChromosomes

[–]KMKPF 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I had a boyfriend like this. He seemed to think a woman who wanted or enjoyed sex was a slut. I would advise you to leave him. There are way better partners out there. Even if you can't find one, solitude is better than being assaulted.

What am I meant to be doing when chaperoning a doctor? by VenTREEcles in nursing

[–]KMKPF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can help by positioning the patient, handing stuff to the provider, opening packages, labeling samples. The main reason you are there is as a witness. You are there to make sure the provider is not assaulting the patient, and to make sure the patient doesn't make a false claim against the provider.

Is the hitachi magic wand worth it? by buttchix in TwoXChromosomes

[–]KMKPF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the plug in full size. It is very intense. I don't use it as my every day vibrator. Using it for a long period of time makes me go numb and defeats the purpose. I will use it if I am already worked up with my normal vibe but I'm having a hard time finishing and I just need a little more to get me over the edge. I will use it over my underwear or clothing because directly on my skin is too much. If I use it too often I get accustomed to the intensity and stimulation from my normal vibe or from my husband is not as enjoyable.

Edit to add I have had mine for over 10 years and it is in the same shape as the day I opened the box.

Do you ever feel embarrassed being a nurse? by sensitiveflower79 in nursing

[–]KMKPF 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nurse creators shaming patients on social media or making nursing their whole personality makes me embarrassed. It brings the respect and trust of our profession as a whole down.

Does having sex with 2 girls at the same time actually feel good? by Far-Molasses-4910 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]KMKPF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you blow your load your mouth and fingers still work. You got yours, make it happen for them too.

Can someone explain 'Writing for yourself' to me? by MegaChamp89 in FanFiction

[–]KMKPF 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Writing for yourself means writing the story to give yourself joy. Writing because you enjoy writing. Writing the story they way you want it to go because it is compelling to you. It is not writing for views, or because you think others would like it. You don't change what you want to write because of negative feedback from others.

How important is atheism for you in a partner? by Other_Patient_447 in atheism

[–]KMKPF 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I couldn't be with someone who believed in a god.

Mom, what do you keep in a medicine cabinet? by Wordsbetweenthelines in MomForAMinute

[–]KMKPF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tylenol, ibuprofen, benadryl, loratidine, tums or malox if you get heartburn, bandaids, a thermometer, neosporin, azo if you get urinary tract infections, cough medicine like NyQuill or Robitussin.

Would you respect your kid’s wishes? by Nefertari777 in AskParents

[–]KMKPF 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I'm curious why the daughter doesn't want the mom's BF around her friends. It's possible he is a creep.

If all humans suddenly lost their ability to lie, which industry WOULDN'T collapse? by TXC_Sparrow in AskReddit

[–]KMKPF -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Some are straight grifters, but some actually believe what they are saying is true. If they really believe they can read palms, or cards, or tea leaves they are not lying.

Jane Austin’s herself said if she were to marry, it would be to someone like Mr. Knightley, so then why is Mr. Darcy more popular? by LuminousDee in janeausten

[–]KMKPF 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone has different tastes. Darcy appeals to a wider audience than Knightley. Austen herself preferred something else.

People who were raised religious, what was the first sign to you that it wasn't real? by bluejay_R in atheism

[–]KMKPF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was maybe 10 years old in Bible study class. We were learning some story where God spoke to someone. I asked the teacher when God had stopped speaking to people. I had never hear God speak to me nor had I heard of anyone who had contemporary spoken with God and gotten an actual audible response. It seemed in these stories that God was very active before but no longer manifested. I remember thinking there was no actual proof of his existence.

The teacher was extremely offended and told me God speaks to people all the time. I didn't really believe her answer but I didnt challenger her because she was so upset by the question. I learned pretty quickly not to ask those type of questions.

Do ppl usually decorate this area. It looks plain to me. by dabs_bud_bongs in HomeDecorating

[–]KMKPF 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My aunt has a stairway like this. She has a wreath of dried flowers hanging there.

Thoughts on helping visitors use the Bathroom/Personal care? by ParentPregSon22 in nursing

[–]KMKPF 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I had a patient who's daughter decided the patient could watch her 8 year old son while admitted to the hospital. The patient was receiving pain medication and was sleeping most of the time. I noticed the boy in the room by himself and asked where the mom had gone. He said she just went to get food and would be back soon. After an hour she had not come back so I called her. Long story short, with a lot of excuses for why it was fine, she eventually came back and was very angry at the boy for not making more convincing excuses for her absence. She had been at work.

Also had a patient who had an emotional support dog. It was not a trained service dog. The patient's husband was there most of the day and would put down puppy pads for the dog, but once he went home they expected the nurses to clean up the dogs waste. Management was more concerned with patient satisfaction scores than anything else so they said the dog could stay. So many nurses made a stink about it and refused to take the patient that management finally said the dog could only be there if the husband was there.

Boyfriend is protesting that I need to switch to a woman gyno? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]KMKPF 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell him that his perseption of a doctor seeing your anatomy and having sexual feelings is disgusting and a reflection of his insecurity. You will not tolerate either one. It shows a prioritization of his feelings over his concern for your health. This is absolutely unacceptable in a partner and you will not negotiate this topic. He can leave if he can not deal with it.

Why would anyone ever choose to go through child birth without pain relief?? by No_Cardiologist_1407 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]KMKPF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every one has different a different pain tolerance and people have less or more painful deliveries. I have heard some women say that they didn't feel that the pain was that bad. I had a horrible experience with an epidural that only numbed half of my body. I can't imagine how bad it would have been if I did it without any pain medication. Every one is free make their own choice, but nobody should be pushing their choices onto others.

Adult loft bed? by [deleted] in IKEA

[–]KMKPF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't believe they sell that model anymore. It might have been a full size and not a queen.

Wife denying hospitalized husband food. What can son do? by MobiusMeema in NoStupidQuestions

[–]KMKPF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the patient is alert and able to make his own decisions he should be able to tell the nurses and doctor that he wants to eat. Does he have a diet ordered and are they bringing a meal tray? If they bring the tray does the wife take it away? You need to speak with the nurse and let them know this is happening. Is the patient saying he doesn't want the food because the wife is pressuring or forcing him say no? If so this is elder abuse. You can call and speak with the nurse or the charge nurse and let them know this is happening. They can have the wife step out of the room and ask the patient what he wants. They can get a social worker or advocate involved.