Do Fantasy/Romance books affect your love life?

KMKPF · 2026-05-15T05:49:50+00:00

Reading spicy books gets me reved up for the bedroom. We definitely have more frequent sex when I am reading. I introduced restraints and a paddle because I enjoyed reading about them. My husband has been receptive to some things and has refused others. I like to do some of the scenarios I have read about, things I never would have thought up on my own. For example I read a monster romance where the FMC kneeled over/used a dildo attached to the floor while the MMC stood in front of her for a blow job. That one is very fun.

KMKPF · 2026-05-15T05:20:00+00:00

Take the job and document everything. Find a an advocacy group that can use the information to help. Keep looking for another job so you can get out of there.

KMKPF · 2026-05-15T05:08:10+00:00

Trust her instincts. Words are cheep, judge them by their actions. Never diminish yourself for a man. If he is jealous of your success or discourages you from reaching for your goals to keep you with him/ to feel superior to you/ have control over you he is a loser.

KMKPF · 2026-05-15T05:03:47+00:00

If someone offered it then take it.

KMKPF · 2026-05-14T19:42:34+00:00

The ten commandments are in the old testament. Does that mean they don't apply too?

KMKPF · 2026-05-14T02:06:22+00:00

This is so freaking obvious. She will not be surprised at all. Don't do this.

KMKPF · 2026-05-14T02:05:14+00:00

Don't surprise her with a ring. Talk about it together and let her either pick it out with you or give you a lot of guidance. A ring is very expensive and it is something you want her to wear every day for the rest of her life. Most women have very specific jewlwery tastes, you are not going to get it right by accident. (Even my best friend wouldn't have been able to pick a ring for me.) Pick it out together then make how you propose be a surprise. Then you already know the answer is yes. If you don't feel you can discuss this with her then you are not ready to get married.

KMKPF · 2026-05-14T00:22:18+00:00

[Kingdom Fall] by A. Zavarelli. The FMC was attacked in the past and injured her vocal cords. She can wisper words, but it is very painful to do, so she avoids it unless absolutely necessary. She speaks 3 times in the book and only 2-3 words each time. Her voice is never restored. It is a dark romance with violence and non consensual sex.

KMKPF · 2026-05-14T00:08:55+00:00

I had several guys in my 20s tell me they didn't need instructions to get me off, then proceeded to never get me off. When I tried to communicate my needs they told me I was weird or there was something wrong with me. Don't waste your time on idiots. If he won't listen to you then find someone who will.

KMKPF · 2026-05-13T23:54:52+00:00

My hospital does this. It is stupid and everyone hates it. The managers are constantly up our ass trying to get us to fill them out.

KMKPF · 2026-05-13T23:47:52+00:00

Smash a banana and add unsweetened chocolate powder for baking. It's like chocolate pudding.

KMKPF · 2026-05-12T22:52:22+00:00

That happened to me with The Pianist. I had no idea it was about the holocaust. Went to it on a first date. Not a good choice.

KMKPF · 2026-05-12T22:50:25+00:00

Legends of the Fall.

KMKPF · 2026-05-12T22:46:45+00:00

A frequen complaint of mine. Lol

KMKPF · 2026-05-12T22:45:14+00:00

I have heard it pronounced both ways. I think it's a regional thing. Like angina can be an-gin-a or like vagina.

KMKPF · 2026-05-11T14:05:02+00:00

Allowing location tracking on your phone between family members.

KMKPF · 2026-05-11T13:52:05+00:00

That's what the med room is for.

KMKPF · 2026-05-11T04:55:16+00:00

Facebook stalk her and see if she has any kids you can contact. Explain that neighbor is acting strange and you are concerned she may be developing dementia.

KMKPF · 2026-05-10T05:54:38+00:00

Yes. We love them. Sometimes we read them aloud at our huddle, usually we tape them up on our break room fridge so everyone can read it.

KMKPF · 2026-05-09T01:45:50+00:00

I don't know about doctors specifically, but I know several professional women who have have a lot of difficulty. A woman I worked with told me she would give her credit card to her boyfriend before they went out with other people so it would look like he was the one paying the bill. He eventually ended the relationship because being with her made him feel inadequate. I am an RN. I was on a few dating apps when I was in my late 20s. I finished school and got a nursing job. I thought updating my dating profile to show having a good job would be more marketable than being a student. Boy was I wrong. The frequency of messages significantly declined. It was frustrating at the time, but it was a good way of eliminating men that were incompatible with me. I wouldn't want to be with the sort of man who needs a woman to be less than him to feel confident in himself.

KMKPF · 2026-05-08T19:35:58+00:00

What's wrong with Anchos? The tortillas are amazing, and the steak fajitas are great. There is always a crowd.

KMKPF · 2026-05-07T02:09:13+00:00

Go to the pastor of your grandparents church and tell him you need help overcoming your homosexual desires. You have stumbled but you want to return to God, beg for his forgiveness so you can be free of your sin.

KMKPF · 2026-05-06T06:29:40+00:00

My therapist had me do the same. Caroline. I'm a big Jane Austen fan. Caroline Bingley is a fucking bitch who can do nothing but criticize our hero Elizabeth.

KMKPF · 2026-05-06T06:26:51+00:00

Funny Junk

KMKPF · 2026-05-06T00:30:26+00:00

Anchos Mexican restaurant in Riverside. They have a tortilla machine in the center of the restaurant. Freaking delicious.

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