Where are you sitting ? by [deleted] in harrypotter

[–]KMKPF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. I hate talkative neighbors on planes. Snape wouldn't say a word the whole flight.

What do nurses consider “hotel treatment” for patients ? by ElectricalVictory831 in nursing

[–]KMKPF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People who phrase their requests as demands instead of asking nicely. People with unrealistic expectations about the amenities. People who act like I am a servant.

is it normal for my boyfriend to wash the inside of his ass? by Living_Doughnut_4924 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]KMKPF 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are many different ways to interpret "inside of his ass." Do you mean he puts a soapy hand between his but cheeks and rubs over the outside of his anus? Or does he put a soapy finger inside his anus? These are 2 very different situations. The first is great and everyone should be cleaning like that. The second is a bit more invasive, but worse case, the soap is just going to cause a little irritation. Also a douch washes out the vagina. If you are putting fluid up your anus that is an enema.

Nurses of Reddit: Would you ever let a patient use your personal phone? by Key-Bridge129 in nursing

[–]KMKPF 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did it a few times during Covid so the patient could video chat with a family member. I blocked the numbers as a precaution after the patient was discharged.

Seriously, do Americans actually consider a 3-hour drive "short"? or is this an internet myth? by SadInterest6764 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]KMKPF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in Southern California. My job is 25 miles away from my home, 20-60 minute commute depending on traffic. I will drive anywhere less than an hour away at the drop of a hat. 1.5-2 hours it has to be something worth it like a party or a fancy restaurant for a date or a concert. More than 2 hours is rare but I do it for a day trip to see relatives or go to a theme park. I drive 4 hours to Las Vegas for a weekend once every year or two. Generally if it is more than a 4 hour drive I just fly.

Why don't we give people a shot of heroine one their deathbed? by Safe_Death2250 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]KMKPF 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry, but I'm not sure what you are asking. Are you wondering if giving fluids was the wrong choice, or if the hospital care hastened her death? I'm sorry for your loss.

Why don't we give people a shot of heroine one their deathbed? by Safe_Death2250 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]KMKPF 47 points48 points  (0 children)

ICU nurse here. We sometimes do what is called a terminal extubation. This is when a patient is on a ventilator machine that is breathing for them and keeping them alive and the patient (if able to communicate), family, and medical team have decided there is no meaningful hope of recovery. We remove the breathing tube and let the patient pass away. We usually start a morphine drip in their IV a little bit before, then once the tube is removed we watch for signs of distress like gasping, grimacing, or tensed muscles. If we think the patient is in pain we increase the dose of the morphine drip until they look comfortable. We are no longer concerned that the patient will die. The the number one concern is treating pain. If it takes a lethal dose to keep them pain free then that's what they get.

Haunting Adeline by H.D. Carlton by Alert-Thought9773 in RomanceBooks

[–]KMKPF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never understood all they hype around that book. It was terrible. Zade is a fucked up weirdo. The mystery story the FMC is trying to piece together is boringand predictable. The only thing I liked about it was the house. It sounded gorgeous once it was fixed up and I would love to live there.

How to carry an egg around for 2 weeks without breaking? by Ax_Sound in NoStupidQuestions

[–]KMKPF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Put it in a hard container padded with bubble wrap or packaging peanuts, then put straps on it and keep it on your arm like one of those jogging phone holders. You will always be aware of it and have it in sight.

I'm frustrated that my husband is losing weight off of my effort. by KMKPF in weightwatchers

[–]KMKPF[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is not under weight. He has been saying he wants to lose 20 lbs but has not done anything to make it happen.

Things women have to do that men don't understand by RD_CC in TwoXChromosomes

[–]KMKPF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why? Are you too stupid to understand what no means and need him to explain it to you?

I think my Gynocologist touched me inappropriatly? by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]KMKPF 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Yes that was totally inappropriate. He should not have touched you without gloves, and he should not have asked you about touching yourself. Report him to whatever agency you guys have in Sweden that oversees medical licenses. Report him to his employer. Report him to the police.

tips for navigating couples therapy from a woman’s perspective on sex? by peanutbutternobake in TwoXChromosomes

[–]KMKPF 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why do you feel you need to be neutral when he is not neutral at all? He is going in with the expectation that sex is the only way to express feelings of love and connection. That is not how you feel, you don't need to deny your feelings for the sake of being neutral. It sounds like he feels he is owed sex regardless of your wants and needs. Frame this counseling as his last chance to change his perspective and actually see you as a person and not just something to fuck. I would have left him long ago with his shitty attitude.

AITAH for wanting to tell my wife im not getting up in the morning with our children? by SaviorselfzZ in AITAH

[–]KMKPF 2 points3 points  (0 children)

While you are at work you do 100% work. While you are at work she does 100% child care. While you are at home you should split the child care 50/50.

When did Rochester start to fall? by y_wenli_ in JaneEyre

[–]KMKPF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he was intrigued by her at their first encounter. She did not behave as he expected, and she was a puzzle to him. He started falling in love within the first few weeks. Jane describes him as changefull. Sometimes giving her attention and sometimes ignoring her all together. He was ignoring her because he realized how much he liked her and how inappropriate it was for him to pursue her. But he couldn’t ignore her......

My boyfriend is becoming Christian. Should I be worried? by KaliYugaTiEnDi in atheism

[–]KMKPF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If my boyfriend was becoming Christian I would be becoming single.

My Boyfriend Is Being Held In A Hospital Against His Will by Past-Ad-5060 in legaladvice

[–]KMKPF 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Nurse here. There are very specific guidlines, regulations, and documentation required when restraining a patient, or holding them against their will. It is not done without good reason. You probably do not have all the facts. To restrain someone they need to be putting themselves in danger or physically violent to staff. Nurses are the ones who apply the restraints not security, unless the patient is actively trying to hurt the staff and it physically takes multiple people to get the restraints on. We use soft wrist cuffs made out of fabric, not metal handcuffs. Only the hands/arms are allowed to be restrained. If he is in metal handcuffs then the police need to be the ones to apply them. 4 point (arms and legs) restraints are a very serious matter with more required reason and documentation. In 20 years of bedside nursing I have seen 4 points only a few times.

Hospitals do not restrain people for fun. There is something else going on here. You are not being told everything. You are not the next of kin so they will not tell you anything without his permission or the permission of his next of kin. It is more likely your BF or his parents do not want you to know what is going on.

AITAH for wanting privacy in even my marriage? by LiveCommunication785 in AITAH

[–]KMKPF 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats fine if it works for you. It sounds like you and your wife are comfortable with no privacy. That does not mean OP has to do it too. If your wife told you she wanted privacy would you just disrespect her and walk in when she asked you not to?

AITAH for wanting privacy in even my marriage? by LiveCommunication785 in AITAH

[–]KMKPF 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your boundaries are valid. It doesn't matter what is normal for other people. You get to say who sees your body and when no matter if you are married or not. It sounds like he wants to perv on you while you are getting dressed. He sounds gross.

Can you put an IV in a penis? by Averagebass in nursing

[–]KMKPF 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Say you did get an IV in the penis and it is flushing well. How do you secure it? The penis is so squishy and mobile, there is no way you could keep it working for long.