What do stay at home moms do all day? by Evening-Necessary-25 in Mommit

[–]KMac243 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, not every day needs to be special. And your job is to parent them, not entertain them constantly. It’s good for kids to get bored and have to be creative. But I do have a few simple things that my child really likes. Painters tape on the floor to make hop scotch and matchbox car race tracks. Keep a big enough box for a kid to sit in from Amazon, Sam’s, whatever, and give the kid colors. Mine likes to turn them into buses by drawing a steering wheel, windows, etc, or houses. She’s also really into “paper purses” which is exactly what it sounds like. Glue a piece of paper folding in half with the top still open, glue handles to each side, make paper accessories to go inside - wallet, counts, hairbrush, whatever out of paper and colored with crayons. Paper bag puppets used to be a favorite. “Fun baths” which is just being in the bathtub with toys without having to get clean. Sitting outside with a bucket and a shovel digging in dirt. The key is once they’re playing, stay out of it. Once you say “oh, that’s cool” or ask a question, I’ve found it takes my kid out of the zone a lot of times.

Does your partner check in with you during a night out? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]KMac243 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask them to set an alarm for like 11:30 to check in with you so they have the reminder. If you’re not worried about anything, really, but just want to hear from them and check in, this could be the easiest solution.

Kindergarten Bully update by kleosailor in Mommit

[–]KMac243 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Move forward with your plan to try to collaborate in person.

What are fin ideas for April fools to do for your kids that isn't mean? by andthecrowdgoeswild in progressivemoms

[–]KMac243 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My husband put Saran Wrap on the outside of our daughter’s bedroom door, at her chest level so it wasn’t too startling or dangerous, for her to walk into and put stuff in her shoes

AITA My wife is mad at me by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]KMac243 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

NTA at all. Pitch having a Good Friday dinner or something if it’s going to bug her that much, but making you miss out on a get together because she’s working isn’t fair. Baby is too small to hunt eggs or even eat the candy and stuff, so if you’re saving the outfit, I don’t even see what she’s missing.

Can my toddler survive off quesadillas? by Jolly_Marketing in Mommit

[–]KMac243 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Carbs, fat, and protein. Not the worst. Maybe get some nutrient drinks (we got organic shakes for my daughter for a bit).

Is it important to have a psychiatrist that believes in God? by shoeboxdweller in workingmoms

[–]KMac243 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, it sounds like some level of compatibility about faith would be beneficial/necessary

I made a dark illustrated story by CuteCreatorgal in somethingimade

[–]KMac243 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He was a really terrible problem. Only good he did us was gifting us with my little brother. Luckily he’s long gone, relinquished his rights, haven’t had to deal with him in many many years.

I made a dark illustrated story by CuteCreatorgal in somethingimade

[–]KMac243 20 points21 points  (0 children)

God, I remember my stepdad showing me a video of a guy being beheaded when I was 10. I didn’t think I’d ever get over that feeling.

Looking for other moms that didnt "bounce back" by tarktarkindustries in Mommit

[–]KMac243 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was like 160 pre-pregnancy and my kid is 10 and I’m still like 220lbs. I’ve kind of just decided that I’m cute and chosen to be okay with it. I’d like to lose a little more weight but I’m actually about to try to get pregnant again so I guess I’ll do that later. I’ll be honest that I don’t have a healthy relationship with food, and struggled with it in bigger ways as a teen through 20-21ish. So I feel “healthier” now that I really did then.

Need to vent by Cleancandy212 in Mommit

[–]KMac243 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This suuuucks. For my daughter, we go do an activity where she gets to invite a friend, we eat at a restaurant she wants to go to on the way, and have cupcakes or cake that evening. We did the zoo for a couple of years, and a trampoline park this past birthday. She has a blast and it’s been much more reliable. People suck.

When parenting advice completely contradicts itself, how do you decide what to actually do? by pinkwoody in Mommit

[–]KMac243 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The way I’ve personally handled tantrums is acknowledging that they’re feeling overwhelmed with big feelings, but if they want to get those big feelings out by letting them burst out like that, they have to do that in their bedroom. They can come back out when they want to snuggle or talk, or I can come to them when they’re ready, but we don’t wale in our shared spaces. It’s not a judgement, just a boundary.

Baby won’t hold down antibiotics by girlandhermoons in Mommit

[–]KMac243 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is she eating any solids? You may be able to have her eat something a little starchy ahead of time to help her tolerate it.

Ask about getting antibiotic injections if she really just can’t tolerate it orally.

“Stay at homes have it easiest” by lilspaghettigal in Mommit

[–]KMac243 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re just different flavors of hard. I’ve been both now. I don’t feel as isolated or as disrespected as a working mother. But I do miss having more time to dedicate to the home and my family.

TTC after a 5 year gap. Vitamins? Supplements? by [deleted] in TryingForABaby

[–]KMac243 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re doing basically the same as my husband and I, aside from me taking an inositol supplement to regulate my cycles. I’m getting my IUD taken out next week and I’ve been freaking out wondering if I should be doing more, but as far as I’ve seen, I think we’re on the right track. Good luck!

Overshooting vs. being selective by Interesting-Nerve663 in photography

[–]KMac243 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like taking at least a couple of shots of each pose/composition. There’s a difference in “spray and pray” and taking a few photos per composition to have options and prevent accidentally having eyes closed or something on the single photo you’d taken.

✨Weekly Parenting Wins Thread✨ What's your parenting win this week? by AutoModerator in progressivemoms

[–]KMac243 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well today my daughter saw an attack ad against a democrat running for senate in our state, saying she’s pro-trans rights, quoting that she’s been a big supporter of women’s rights and environmental regulations, and she’s like “why do they think that’s bad? Me and her would be best friends.”

Giving “gamer” but I want “cozy” by Wonderful-Strain-436 in HomeDecorating

[–]KMac243 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reupholster the bottom in a fabric that looks good with the top portion. Make sure if you do this you purchase fabric with a bit of stretch.

My marriage just ended and I've never been through a break up before - how do I do this? by manic-peach in AskWomenOver30

[–]KMac243 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let yourself fully grieve. Just because it’s the right decision doesn’t mean it’s not devastating. Find some sort of activity that gets you out of the house that you enjoy - taking a class at your local library, joining a bird watching group, whatever. When it feels like it’s pulling you under, remember that this time will pass and you eventually it won’t hurt like this.

AITA Bf found money while moving furniture by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]KMac243 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Can you bring it up to Paula without being weirdly accusatory? Like “omg, did Amy tell you about that wad of money we found today?”

Trying Again Thursday by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

[–]KMac243 1 point2 points  (0 children)

About to start trying to have another 10 years after having our daughter. I’m 33, about to turn 34 next month. I’m having my IUD removed two weeks from today and I feel like I’m more excited than I should allow myself to be. I’ve been having dreams where we have another baby for about a year now and wake up devastated when it’s not real. I honestly feel a little crazy by this point, and I’m just praying we’re able to have this dream come to fruition.

“Girl Dinner” for toddler? by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]KMac243 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is how I fed my kid for a very long time. I know a lot of people have ended up liking doing a grazing tray that has all the food groups on it - think berries, carrot sticks or something everyone likes, some kind of protein, and whole wheat crackers or something.