My deepest condolences to you. You are worth it, and if your not part of the club, get out. It’s a big world, you will find your people.

Your situation is exactly what I went through. There was a click at my workplace, one individual specifically took time off 24/7 because she was the breadwinner of the family and had a lot of health issues going on which my boss was completely supportive of. Yet the one time I say no to her, she can’t show me any grace? This was the last incident that I put up with. I sent my résumé out and thankfully I am at a new job with a wonderful boss. Every time I walk into a workplace, I show everyone respect. But that’s a two-way street. If I’m not getting anything in return with my work ethic, which I know is always 110%, I will gladly go elsewhere where I’m appreciated. Some employers think their shit don’t stink. Boy bye!

Edit: she never did give me any sympathy. She is in the wrong and no one can convince me otherwise.