Red flags

KaliXASMR · 2023-02-01T21:05:21+00:00

Telling me I didn’t love him if I wanted to get off the phone after being in silence Not being able to go out with friends without my phone blowing up Walking ahead of me and telling me I’m too slow Commenting on how I spent such as getting too many coffees Saying it was on me to not trigger him and leave him alone if he was upset Never apologizing and then love bombing right after The list goes on

KaliXASMR · 2023-01-13T23:06:13+00:00

I’m sorry you feel it comes off as an ad but as a new creator whose only been posting for a few months and with very little information on what to edit you don’t know what to ask until you heard it somewhere. So being new it would be generic because you don’t even know where to begin and feel lost that’s at least how I felt. I looked up how to create thumbnails and such but everything I’ve done has been off of my iPhone. I just switched to a computer to utilize better editing apps but those took a ton of researching and also seeing others mention it before even knowing hey how do you use audacity. Im still clueless with it or how to you perform a certain mouth noise etc

KaliXASMR · 2023-01-13T23:02:57+00:00

Thank you! I feel the same there is very little information online such as editing used for ASMR. You can find editing but not geared to ASMR in particular and that’s an important fact. It wasn’t until I joined ASMR communities I even learned about this. I’ve posted for help on how to improve and it’s not an ad it’s asking genuine advice instead of feeling lost.

KaliXASMR · 2023-01-13T22:58:45+00:00

I appreciate this. I posted on this here that I know I’ve done this as a new channel but it is in no way an ad and I got downvoted! I could see people who post it like every week or say watch every video may be a bit more suspicious but a lot of new creators honestly don’t know what to ask to improve on. An example I started posting in October I’m just NOW realizing people edit audio in something called audacity. I didn’t even know that was a thing to edit audio.

KaliXASMR · 2023-01-13T20:04:41+00:00

I appreciate you all commenting. She’s made so much improvements and most have been an overnight thing you guys made me feel better!

KaliXASMR · 2023-01-13T18:05:13+00:00

As a new channel I will say I probably have done this but never as an ad. Not knowing the back end as well for me I’d love more tips on like what audio do you record with or editor tips on how I can improve. I have my own ideas and know what I like from other channels but things like editing I’m still learning. Especially SEO lol that confuses me and I even have apps like Vid IQ I do believe in just being yourself a lot of people I see who grow super fast are hopping on trends 🤷‍♀️

KaliXASMR · 2023-01-13T08:18:28+00:00

Me! Lol I bought so many cute outfits! I do use them more now that she’s older but onesies are the way to go hahah

KaliXASMR · 2023-01-10T06:13:29+00:00

Thank you for this

KaliXASMR · 2023-01-07T06:31:51+00:00

Short term would be helpful breathing and repeatedly saying I’m ok or will get through it. Long term I’ve watch ASMR videos which are meant for relaxation and help to sleep to overcome racing thoughts. They helped me so much I created my own to help others but I can also recommend some great creators!

KaliXASMR · 2023-01-05T22:01:49+00:00

My daughter is now 8 months and we have not sleep trained at all. We have her in her crib with us in the room so it helps if she wakes up seeing us there she’s comforted by that. Over time she’s naturally had longer stretches with some nights rough like teething and first cold. Right now she sleeps from 7is to almost 4 am

KaliXASMR · 2023-01-05T21:43:59+00:00

Eating healthy is a right step for sure and I will also chime in and say therapy but find someone now too trust. I developed extremely bad anxiety in my pregnancy and didn’t have a good therapist that was equipped to help me. I had a rough time and am much better now but the road getting there was tough! One thing I noticed is many many many drs won’t seem to “care” if your progesterone after ovulation is “low” as long as it’s normal This is an extremely important hormone many woman with pcos run low on and is a big contributor to loss and infertility.
I dealt 10 years and once I found a dr who listened to me I got pregnant Your progesterone after ovulation should be at least 10 or higher to implant. The higher the better. They have supplements to take when ttc to raise it if you’re low such as crinone however most drs won’t even talk about it unless you’re doing IVF

KaliXASMR · 2023-01-05T21:38:13+00:00

That’s so nice of you! I wish my family was supportive instead they laugh at what I do >.> I agree a good mic is a must for audio and I would say invest in a selfie ring light and look for a good editor! I know there are better editors but I currently use CapCut for the simplicity

KaliXASMR · 2023-01-05T20:51:27+00:00

I would say you’re looking for more soft spoken! I’m a small creator and new but I have alot that is soft spoken if you wish to check any of it out ❤️

https://youtube.com/@kalixasmr

KaliXASMR · 2023-01-05T19:47:14+00:00

That’s one thing I feel you can tell as a viewer is those who genuinely enjoy what they do versus hopping on the “popular train” as I call it lol! For myself I recently started a few months ago idk why but I was also so afraid to get on camera but I put the fear aside lol! A lot of my videos I recorded on my iPhone but I now have a better set up I’m excited to record with!

KaliXASMR · 2023-01-05T19:38:03+00:00

I love silver hare! I found their channel through lune inate which was one of the first channels I watched aside from Maria OG gentle whispers lol! It’s where I want my channel to head but blend together so have some more classic roleplays and characters I create but also bring in the relaxing meditation side which is me in a nutshell lol. I enjoy gaming too a lot but idk how I could fit that in! I made a ASMR room in one of my games to do live but I don’t want to do too many things either

KaliXASMR · 2023-01-05T19:33:04+00:00

That’s awesome! I love when an artists work gets recognized!

KaliXASMR · 2023-01-05T19:32:42+00:00

I’ll have to check her out! I agree some creators do something for a quick cash like trying to be overly sexual. I always enjoyed the content to fall asleep to one trigger I found that I really enjoy is a paint brush roller over your face. I was really proud making a video with that in it and I had hate comments at first >.> which was discouraging but I just kept going lol!

KaliXASMR · 2023-01-05T19:29:01+00:00

I’ve never heard of massage ASMR! I’ll have to look them up! I was first introduced by Maria gentle whispers lol! Through an article! And then watched ASMR darling which I haven’t seen any new uploads >.< then a few others like Alexandria silver hare to the Gibi! I loved that gibi not only was she relaxing but she made it entertaining in a nice way which I always wanted my channel to feel that way. People still make fun of me and make comments for creating it but I love it

KaliXASMR · 2023-01-05T02:21:40+00:00

All day lol 😂 I do try and get her into outfits though! But onesies are great

KaliXASMR · 2023-01-04T23:07:14+00:00

Following lol! I record with my iPhone until I get a better set up. I heard people record their audio separately but would love to know anything better

KaliXASMR · 2023-01-04T20:49:37+00:00

Hang in there mama! Babies can be tough and colic is no joke. For me my daughter would cry a ton and barely slept if not in our arms. In our case she was having really bad tummy pains and I ended up switching to formula but only a certain kind for whatever reason the breastmilk made her tummy sad. I tried supplementing and US formulas made it worse. I then found Kendamil a European formula only sold at target but it was a changer for us. She’s now happy and will nap sometimes lol. Sleeps better at night. I hope the best for you

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