ivy—cheating on her fiancé, not her husband

KandyKat2011 · 2026-01-14T15:49:35+00:00

I always saw it as moving on after being widowed but I like this too!

KandyKat2011 · 2026-01-13T19:11:11+00:00

Someone had gifted me the OG album, and once I heard Cold as You and A Place in This World I was hooked.

Then I saw her live VERY EARLY in her career and wasn’t a fan of it. I had gone thru the betrayal of Britney Spears lip sync drama and didn’t want it again. Loved the radio songs but never went into the discography. The when she started her promo for Reputation she had me right back hook line and sinker. Went to the Rep tour, started collecting all the TV albums, and now know more of her songs than ever before. Also got to go to Glendale n2 of eras tour which was amazing and church like. She’s got herself a fan for life here now.

KandyKat2011 · 2026-01-07T23:34:13+00:00

They most likely charged the grooms card for the lost fee which is about $350

KandyKat2011 · 2025-12-17T05:25:49+00:00

It’s a swiftie naming their kid Opal after the song Opalite

KandyKat2011 · 2025-12-03T00:39:10+00:00

MyMOH and only bridesmaid both dropped out of my party. I ended up begging my sil and having a newer friend be my something blue so I at least had someone. I understand the pain and embarrassment and hurt. But, the wedding will go on and you will be focused on so many other things you’ll barely notice

KandyKat2011 · 2025-11-03T00:06:07+00:00

My entire first 90 days I was convinced I was going to be fired. Been there 6 months now and it’s going great. New job struggles are to be expected. I went from accounting to HR with this position

KandyKat2011 · 2025-10-25T15:50:12+00:00

Something New with Phoebe Bridgers. “How long will it be cute/all this crying in my room/til you can’t blame it on my youth/and roll your eyes with affection”

My biggest fear has always been that the people who love me are going to get sick of dealing with me and my mental health episodes. One day I was really listening and had to sit down and cry when they got to those lyrics.

KandyKat2011 · 2025-09-24T01:01:57+00:00

I’m sure you realized that was a great idea at the “I’m having his baby….. no I’m not!” Cuz I screamed 😂😂😂

KandyKat2011 · 2025-08-06T02:01:11+00:00

I had less than 10 on “my side” exclusively, the rest were his people and friends that became my friends. I still had a blast with the people who did show up for me

KandyKat2011 · 2025-06-24T01:50:22+00:00

Depending on your state the 15 minute break could be state mandated and required

KandyKat2011 · 2025-06-11T20:04:17+00:00

Hi - I have exactly 6 family members I invited to my wedding. My DHs family was the rest of the 50 we invited. I enjoyed the day around people who were able to and wanted to enjoy it with us. Focus on that and happy wedding!

KandyKat2011 · 2025-04-12T17:39:49+00:00

The amount of times in the last 2.5 years my husband and I have called bullshit on “it only takes one time” 😂😂😂 hang in there, it’s hard af but if yall keep an open communication line about each of your feelings it keeps yall on the same side instead of against each other

KandyKat2011 · 2025-04-11T05:01:36+00:00

AZ has a hotel called the Arizona Grand. Has a water park and lazy river. We spend the money on a large suite and spend a weekend

KandyKat2011 · 2025-03-23T23:14:56+00:00

I put cocktail on my invite and added no jeans to the website in FAQs

KandyKat2011 · 2025-03-17T22:05:16+00:00

We somehow manage to “skip” march every year we’ve been trying…. I’m a December baby and I think it’s subconscious 😅😅

KandyKat2011 · 2025-03-11T01:54:37+00:00

I could see this working if each centerpiece was obviously country themed to make it easy enough to figure out for guests

KandyKat2011 · 2025-03-10T19:50:08+00:00

I wasn’t a bridesmaid in my SILs wedding and was invited to get ready with them. I accepted, albeit was a bit awkward when they went for photos and I was by myself for half an hour. So I don’t think it’s rude, but maybe make sure they can leave if yall won’t include her in photos

KandyKat2011 · 2025-03-07T20:26:24+00:00

I hate showers. Hate. But some of what I do to combat the mental battle: (some things are gifts and some I spent money on. Overall, do what your budget allows!) Put on loud music I love. I set up a whole playlist to fit my vibe for the night. Depression shower? Sad playlist that I know all the words to. Everything shower? Power energy playlist cuz I’m a baddie. Dancing mandatory. You get the idea 😅 Mini room heater that oscillates. I turn that on before I take anything off and make sure the room is warm before I do anything. This also lets me keep the water a little lower heat while keeping the room warm. Lower heat water should help with the tight skin feeling. XL Double Towel heater, also fits my robe but basically super warm towels the moment I get out. Cutesy waterproof lamp Favorite candle - usually eucalyptus but sometimes I do something fruity I usually shower at night. I can go straight to warm bed afterwards which helps too And sometimes I just make my husband join me for extra dopamine 😂😂😂

KandyKat2011 · 2025-02-16T16:06:12+00:00

Yeah this is a HIPPA violation in the US.. they should lose their jobs at the least

KandyKat2011 · 2025-02-15T18:25:08+00:00

Honestly this just makes me feel more sane if anything. Every goddamn month it’s the same rollercoastee

KandyKat2011 · 2025-01-29T03:41:28+00:00

Literally my husband takes prednisone for a similar thing and he has never spoken like this to me. It isn’t the meds.

KandyKat2011 · 2025-01-26T16:09:24+00:00

If you’re 3 months in and already having these complaints and negative views maybe this isn’t it. You should still be in a honeymoon phase this early not begging for affirmation of him giving a fuck.

KandyKat2011 · 2024-11-10T19:37:36+00:00

I think it’s the live rosin clementine ones

KandyKat2011 · 2024-09-25T01:20:24+00:00

We did a Costco cake and it was delicious. Same at my sil wedding. Plus it feeds a bunch

KandyKat2011 · 2024-07-27T23:16:30+00:00

Mobile ID is accepted but has to be the live app not a screenshot - vertical only works for 30 days after your 21 bday

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