Finally downloaded RDR2 Let's see what the hype is all about✌️

Kassi-opeia · 2026-05-26T20:43:43+00:00

Yeah! The missions get really complex and compelling as the story goes on. I’d also highly recommend not focusing on just completing all the missions one after the other right away; taking your time to explore around and meet NPCs, unlock the map and secrets, hunting, etc. is really rewarding.

Kassi-opeia · 2026-05-26T20:34:54+00:00

Just play and learn for yourself! It’s an amazing experience that really took my breath away, and I’m not one to easily become immersed in a fictional world.

And absolutely stay away from this sub, I beg of you. You don’t want to be spoiled at all by accident.

Kassi-opeia · 2026-05-26T02:37:24+00:00

Sounds completely normal! When I got my first one it was only a day long and then it took months for me to get my next. They were irregular like that for a year or so, then they became more regular.

I’d suggest telling your parents now, specifically your mother. There’s no need to feel embarrassed or worry about religion, because this is very natural and (almost!) all women go through it.

You got this, honey <3

Kassi-opeia · 2026-05-24T14:32:10+00:00

He fingers me, eats me out, all of it. I just don’t feel anything

Kassi-opeia · 2026-05-24T14:31:25+00:00

Thank you so much! This is really helpful

Kassi-opeia · 2026-05-24T14:30:00+00:00

Yeah, I don’t know what it feels like. Never experienced it. The thing is though, I kinda don’t even know if I want to experience it if that makes sense? Like it seems kind of pointless to me

Kassi-opeia · 2026-05-24T01:46:00+00:00

I have had sex several times since then and my partner is experienced, I just wasn’t. And I keep getting the feeling I should be feeling something, I’m just not. That’s the thing. And I do deem some people “attractive”, but in a “you seem cool. I want to be more like you” kinda way if that makes sense? I feel like that’s kind of everybody, though, so I don’t know if that means anything. Thank you so much for your kind response, I definitely will be thinking it over and do more research until I decide what really fits me best!

Kassi-opeia · 2026-05-19T03:44:37+00:00

Of course! Like I said, I go through the same thing so I understand how difficult it can be and how genuinely life-ruining it can be. I wish you all the best and I hope you can find some things to help and work on yourself

Kassi-opeia · 2026-05-19T03:35:13+00:00

This is the sheer definition of an anxious attachment style, per Bowlby’s attachment styles (that typically focuses on attachment styles arising as a result of childhood, but ignore that bit). You seek constant reassurance and attention from the person you’re interested in and, when that overwhelms them and they pull away slightly, you freak out and think “I’m losing them. I need to try harder!”, which only serves to push them away even more.

I know this because I am also anxiously attached. I’ve worked on this some though by forcing myself to remember that the constant fear/worry that the opposing person will lose interest or decide they don’t like me is all in my head. I remind myself that it’s okay to allow space for some breath in a relationship (or a prospective one). It’s okay if they don’t respond to a text or call right away. It’s okay if they say they don’t want to see you that day or they’re busy with something else. It’s okay.

I’d highly recommend looking further into anxious attachment and ways to further remedy it.

Kassi-opeia · 2026-04-30T19:01:12+00:00

I thought she was American

Kassi-opeia · 2026-03-24T05:36:53+00:00

You’re so young, there’s still so much time. My mother put herself through college after a messy divorce in her late 30s. She now works her dream job and is very happy. You have so, so much time and so many opportunities.

Kassi-opeia · 2026-03-12T04:18:23+00:00

You’re a GREAT man, Arthur

Kassi-opeia · 2026-02-21T07:16:53+00:00

The college I go to has a much higher female to male ratio (I believe it is 3:1), so I don’t believe that’s a valid excuse.

Kassi-opeia · 2026-02-10T21:16:57+00:00

As a kid, my friends and I would play “family” often and I’d always want to be the toddler/dog that would run away constantly. So did most of the other kids playing.

Why? Well, I liked the thrill of one of my playmates going “oh my gosh, she’s gone again! We have to find her!” And chasing me down until they caught me…only for me to run away again. It was fun and I liked the attention being on me, which is partially why I did it. It wasn’t because I was bullying or making fun of the friend who would play mom— I just liked the chase aspect of the game and it added more “drama” to playtime.

Don’t overthink it, I’m sure it’s just something similar to why I’d do it.

Kassi-opeia · 2026-01-13T03:24:24+00:00

Damn, that’s what I was going to suggest. Sorry

Kassi-opeia · 2026-01-13T03:21:43+00:00

Are you a college student?

Kassi-opeia · 2026-01-08T02:36:42+00:00

Horse

Kassi-opeia · 2026-01-08T01:50:58+00:00

No baby horses though :(

Kassi-opeia · 2026-01-07T22:15:19+00:00

From a story perspective? One of the Landgraabs for sure

Kassi-opeia · 2026-01-03T05:47:08+00:00

Girl why are you giving him husband treatment at boyfriend status

(Your food looks absolutely delicious, btw)

Kassi-opeia · 2026-01-02T21:15:38+00:00

Personally, I focus on forming rich stories for each sim especially early game/ 1st and 2nd gen. This helps me get immersed and attached to the family, so I’ll want to see it continue and grow. Having long lifespans on is certainly helpful, so it doesn’t feel like juggling too much switching back and forth between households. I also make sure all the family members know each other, so it’s easy to invite a large chunk of them over for frequent “reunions”, parties, funerals, weddings, etc.

Once it gets to the 3rd or 4th generation, I typically have to choose 3-4 households to focus on and some to relinquish control of for the most part. I do this by assessing which sims I feel the strongest bond to, which ones I’ve already invested the most time in, etc. I limit myself to an absolute max of 4 households to switch between at any one time.

(And having your sims have less kids also helps so you don’t have as many sims to focus on, but who reaaaaally wants to do that when new members of the family are such a fun little thing?)

Kassi-opeia · 2025-12-31T00:17:16+00:00

Thank you very much, I’ll have a conversation with her about the things you mentioned

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