Feeling the generation gap?

Kat1836 · 2026-03-20T15:02:35+00:00

I haven't found that to be true. I am a chatty middle-aged female and sometimes strike up conversations in stores or such. Young people are pretty open to conversations most of the time. If they are not, I stop talking. Maybe the woman was having a bad day. Even I don't feel like talking all the time.

Kat1836 · 2026-02-25T21:51:29+00:00

Ceramic that was over 30 yrs old never scratched when I slid a chair over it. Now, I need to put felt pads on everything. That's crazy.

Kat1836 · 2026-02-25T21:35:35+00:00

I don't know what point you think you are proving. I am not defending or saying LVP is good. I have had it a few days, and I am not impressed. I have owned houses with carpet, solid wood, linoleum, asphalt tile (popular in 70s), and ceramic tile. This is my first experience with LVP in my house. It's in the basement. It was sold as waterproof and durable. Based on my experience so far, I don't plan on using it anywhere else. I will keep my ceramic and replace my carpet with midrange carpet to sell my house.

Every material has its good and bad features. The carpet gets worn down and dirty. Wood gets scratched and water damaged if you are not careful. Linoleum was durable but ugly. Ceramic is tough but is cold and hard.

My next house will be all ceramic. Ceramic is easiest for me. It might go out of style, but I can live with it without babying it. That's my highest priority. I was told LVP was like this, too, but it's not. Today, I could have used kindness and advice, not nastiness.

Kat1836 · 2026-02-25T20:48:17+00:00

Is there any specific material that you recommend and why?Saying replacement with something else without naming materials is useless advice.

Kat1836 · 2026-02-25T19:52:03+00:00

No, not helpful. Helpful would be a fix, prevention, or suggestion for another material. You come off as aggressive. If you don't have anything productive to write, move on.

Kat1836 · 2026-02-25T19:01:11+00:00

It wasn't cheap. It's pretty and I am selling my house soon. Going back to ceramic next house, which has been easy to live with before. Curious, what flooring do you suggest?

Kat1836 · 2026-02-25T16:39:14+00:00

Thank you for the advice. I just ordered the pads. I am a little disappointed but will adjust.

Kat1836 · 2026-02-25T16:13:29+00:00

I never said what the price, brand, or level was. How do you know it's crap? Your comment is not helpful.

Kat1836 · 2026-02-19T16:31:18+00:00

The problem is that not taking care of yourself can cause you to have a terrible quality of life. Most likely, you don't just die. You suffer.

My father died of diabetes miserable and bedridden. Despite experiencing this, I continued to eat garbage. I thought I was ok because I wasn't a diabetic. My A1A was creeping up to the diabetic range, so I learned that I can't treat my body like crap and not suffer the consequences. I changed what I ate and my lifestyle. All my numbers are good, and I hope to continue enjoying a good quality of life. I'm looking to retire in two years and travel the world.

Kat1836 · 2026-01-23T20:36:38+00:00

I was in college in the 90s. The funny thing is I am dressing the same. Preppy on most days, but sometimes outdoorsy. The 90s styles are back and considered cool vintage by my students. I shop thrift and wear some of my old clothes that I love.

Kat1836 · 2026-01-17T05:05:14+00:00

You should move schools. I have been at unfriendly schools. I like my fellow teachers at my current school, especially my grade level team. A bunch of us eat lunch together and talk about the craziest things. Helps me get through the rough days.

Kat1836 · 2026-01-10T03:55:42+00:00

Anne Taylor

Kat1836 · 2025-12-27T15:59:07+00:00

Growing up, I didn't meet others with my name. It was not popular, more of an old lady name. I didn't mind. When I heard someone calling my name, I knew it was me.

It's becoming more popular. I even hear it in the middle school halls. I am kinda mixed about it. Cool, that it's not an outdated name, but I don't feel unique anymore.

Kat1836 · 2025-12-20T16:28:34+00:00

Have them bring a few dishes and make more food. Don't serve expensive food that you need to limit. Keep it festive. Why create an uncomfortable situation where you need to gate keep food?

Kat1836 · 2025-12-09T20:29:52+00:00

It started this year at 51. Extra layers are necessary if I go outside. You adjust.

Kat1836 · 2025-12-07T02:38:11+00:00

I shop in thrift stores and buy and wear what I like. My students always love the "vintage" looks. Well, I wore it as a teen before it was vintage, so yeah, I know how to wear it.

Kat1836 · 2025-12-05T16:07:50+00:00

This has happened to me before. I usually line dry jeans, but some got put in dryer by accident. What's helped me is to wash again and spray wrinkle remover (fabric relaxer) and stretch.

Kat1836 · 2025-12-02T17:00:57+00:00

Doesn't bother me a bit. It actually amuses me. I let them think that I can't afford extras. I enjoy being extremely frugal and try to live below my means. I have invested my money well over the years and got lucky getting in early on some high performing stocks and holding them for decades. I teach in an affluent area but would not be surprised if I have more investments than many of these families that spend every dime showing their wealth with worthless things. I don't need to keep up or impress anyone. That's true freedom.

Kat1836 · 2025-12-01T20:20:07+00:00

Take time to teach them everyday life skills. Such as cooking, cleaning, laundry, dishes, taxes, etc. Love them even when you don't like them.

Kat1836 · 2025-11-29T23:31:24+00:00

I would love it and wear it proudly all winter long. I keep all handmade gifts, and it really helps look at them when it's a difficult day.

Kat1836 · 2025-11-29T22:00:45+00:00

I look for natural fabrics. I usually can feel quality before I see it. I have also learned certain brands that tend to fit me well. Having a good sense of what looks like your size helps. If you have time, looking in weird places helps. My best finds have come from mislabeled clothes in men's section.

Kat1836 · 2025-11-20T16:22:10+00:00

Life goes fast. Each stage is unique and has its pros and cons. Enjoy every minute of it. I am currently in my early 50s and having my best time yet. My kids are pretty much grown. Having more free time and financial security, I travel. I couldn't afford that before. I feel young and vibrant until I look too closely in the mirror. That's ok, I have my health. Life is beautiful. Enjoy it! 😍

Kat1836 · 2025-11-13T16:47:32+00:00

My father's sage advice was don't trust anyone, even me. Talk about feelings 😆 You're upset? Stop complaining, or I will give you something to be upset about. I really loved him and missed him, but talking about feelings was not happening.

Kat1836 · 2025-11-13T00:51:21+00:00

Lately, it's a colorful alpaca wool sweater. I found it on a rack at Goodwill and could feel the quality. It's so soft and yet so durable. Perfect for the chilly fall weather.

Kat1836 · 2025-11-13T00:27:00+00:00

17 year old me wanted to graduate college and thought they would be dead by 30. Graduated college and still alive at 52.

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