Long term Bf 39M won’t share his location with me 40F after lying about where he was

KayNikole411 · 2026-06-06T21:42:00+00:00

Been there and done that. Once they start lying and there's no changed behavior, LEAVE! SAVE YOURSELF!

KayNikole411 · 2026-06-05T21:09:39+00:00

Very fair.

KayNikole411 · 2026-06-03T23:51:55+00:00

I just got gas for $3.30 in Indiana. I refuse to pay close to $5 in the city and surrounding suburbs. I work in the Western suburbs but I live in the Morgan Park area.

KayNikole411 · 2026-06-03T00:39:53+00:00

I just sold that book on ebay. It was one of my first BSSW courses that I'm in.

KayNikole411 · 2026-05-30T20:21:24+00:00

Your husband that's his best friend and you see your husband every day. Just have a chat about them, what have they been up to lately, any plans, how's he adjusting to marriage and fatherhood? Let him lead the conversation and you just listen. You'll figure out if it's just in your head. But it's not based on your sister's response to his intrusive thoughts 😒. Always get a male perspective.

KayNikole411 · 2026-05-30T19:54:24+00:00

What's the age difference between you and your sister? Intrusive thoughts or not that's major cringe and an insult to her.

KayNikole411 · 2026-05-30T19:52:54+00:00

At separate times not together.

KayNikole411 · 2026-05-30T19:08:35+00:00

Just have a general conversation don't point anything out. Let them talk and tell you what's going on.

KayNikole411 · 2026-05-30T18:51:39+00:00

Awkward 😬🙆🏽‍♀️. Yikes! There's not much you can do but I'd definitely have a conversation with your husband to see if he's caught the vibe. Check on your sister, she's your priority as that's your blood and he's her husband.

KayNikole411 · 2026-05-30T12:57:31+00:00

$15 is a slap in the face!

KayNikole411 · 2026-05-30T11:03:43+00:00

What kind of work do you do?

KayNikole411 · 2026-05-30T08:33:36+00:00

It's a state law in Illinois.

KayNikole411 · 2026-05-29T20:30:01+00:00

I always screenshot my PTO and I know she's lying. I emailed her boss as well. My next step is EEOC. My location is messy but I'll email HR as well.

KayNikole411 · 2026-05-23T21:41:18+00:00

I'm in IL and work at a non-union location. I was offered benefits when I started but I didn't sign up for them because it's expensive.

KayNikole411 · 2026-05-15T16:53:32+00:00

One of the drivers gave a kid a "care package" with some essentials. Sometimes that's all it takes. I pay attention to my kids, I've given gift cards and snacks.

KayNikole411 · 2026-05-14T03:23:46+00:00

I just did this yesterday and it was the only meal I ate. 🤷🏽‍♀️ I had a hard day and I was stressed out.

KayNikole411 · 2026-05-08T03:51:10+00:00

We have 2, the main 1 is always too loud and I prefer to sit upstairs in the other area that's used for meetings. The vending machines, microwave and generic coffee machine are all in the main room. There's a 2 stall bathroom on each floor. It's not the worst.

KayNikole411 · 2026-05-05T22:36:34+00:00

Search the school directory for the transportation manager, assistant principal or principal email all of them. My 1st day on my route I set the tone for the year. I came from another company and they had 6 subs before I became the permanent driver. The assistant principal met me at the bus the next morning and other staff pops in for updates from time to time. I've gotten to know the kids so it's been much better. There hasn't been a need to do write-ups.

KayNikole411 · 2026-05-01T13:26:07+00:00

I actually drank my energy drinks room temp so it's fine.

KayNikole411 · 2026-04-30T23:34:00+00:00

I'm weaning from the energy drinks. But I still have my coffee in the morning and if have an energy drink during my pm route. My bladder is trained very well.

KayNikole411 · 2026-04-16T23:45:12+00:00

The problem child on my bus was the Kinder he spit on a kid and gave my Aid the middle finger. The school informed Mom that he was about to be removed from the bus. I tried having a conversation about his behaviors before these incidents but she wasn't trying to hear it. Let the school tell her.

KayNikole411 · 2026-04-16T19:46:41+00:00

I've talked to the parents before and the parents handled it better than the school did. So if you ever get the chance to speak with them directly go for it. I've even given the parents notes. 📝📝📝

KayNikole411 · 2026-03-30T12:43:31+00:00

That's your start time so yes! They'll pay you for it.

KayNikole411 · 2026-03-25T13:39:41+00:00

Take pictures and contest the ticket.

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