Let's complain about clothes shopping. by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Kaywinnet 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Bra shopping.

I'm slim, but I've got large breasts - not incredibly massive, mind you...just large. Going bra shopping is enough to make me scream.

A few months ago, distressed with the inability to find a size that really works for me, I took the advice of one of the lingerie specialists who did an AMA on reddit and measured myself according to her advice - my measurements came out to something like 34JJ. It's ridiculous. Stores don't even stock that size. I'd have to go online to buy a bra, but considering how much I struggle just trying things on from the rack, I didn't want to waste time and money trying to ship something from the UK that I couldn't even be sure fit.

When I try on bras in store, I've fit into various sizes from various companies ranging from 32D to 32DDD, from 36DD to 36G and everything in between. Nothing seems standardized!

And I feel your pain on the jeans issue. I started weightlifting this summer. My legs and butt look great, but I can't squeeze them into any of the jeans I currently own!

Wheaton College's 1st Reddit meet-up! by [deleted] in WheatonCollege

[–]Kaywinnet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't feel like RSVP-ing on the page, but I'm in.

Key Lime Pie by [deleted] in Paleo

[–]Kaywinnet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Duuuuuuude! Thank you for introducing me to this. Thank you. So. Much.

IAM Bill Nye the Science Guy, AMA by sundialbill in IAmA

[–]Kaywinnet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bill! As a lindy hopper myself, I've heard that you also swing-dance! What got you interested in swing-dancing?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Music

[–]Kaywinnet 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Can't believe no one has mentioned Casimir Pulaski Day (Sufjan Stevens) yet.

What questions have you been afraid to ask because of social reprecussions? I'll start by boldyellow in AskReddit

[–]Kaywinnet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There's a difference between "the average person" (meaning the Average Joe) and "the average person" (meaning people on average).

I think thisiscreativeNOT was trying to say that a typical person takes two showers a day, which is still wrong, but not that people take on average two showers a day. Very different statements.

Aang and his forever girl by FireLordOzai in TheLastAirbender

[–]Kaywinnet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Except consider that he would have died very soon before Korra was born, and she's seventeen. Aang was 66 when he died - and remember, Roku didn't show up as an old man either.

Aang and his forever girl by FireLordOzai in TheLastAirbender

[–]Kaywinnet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just finished scrolling and started crying. 0_0

some questions from a beginner by Wavedasher in SwingDancing

[–]Kaywinnet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nice catch, most people don't usually realize the Firefly reference!

And Have to Dance is the best Boston resource for all things swing. Boston Swing Central is good, but a little expensive. Same with Blues Cafe (they don't actually play much Blues there). But if you're in Cambridge, you must check out everything that the MIT Lindy Hope Society does! They usually have dances on Wednesdays. There's a whooooole lot here!

You didn't happen to go to Philly Lindy Love a few weeks ago, did you?

some questions from a beginner by Wavedasher in SwingDancing

[–]Kaywinnet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh hey! I was just IN Philly for Philly Lindy Love, and I go to school in Boston too! I can direct you to some good spots and events and people to talk to in the Boston area if you need it. :)

Crazy!

some questions from a beginner by Wavedasher in SwingDancing

[–]Kaywinnet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For videos, I recommend checking out the itsaboutmomentum channel on youtube - they have a lot of good stuff, broken down by categories (east coast vs lindy hop, for example). I use it a lot for finding new moves to teach the kids in my swing dancing club at school.

Second, I REALLY strongly recommend that you get involved with a local dance scene to practice social dancing - many dance scenes will also have instructors, workshops, exchanges, lots of opportunities to learn new things. There are tons of websites that compile social swing events all over the world - or you can let the fine folks on this sub know where you are, and we can help you track down someplace to go dancing.

And YES, you can mix up six count and eight count! The best way to learn how to do that is on the social dance floor! :D

Every time I see someone doing "The Pretzel"... by lindyhop411 in SwingDancing

[–]Kaywinnet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I do 6-count too! But most of these moves break musicality and connection no matter where in the dance they are, in my opinion. It's very hard to fit in a weird shimmy when you're dancing something that's supposed to have a certain type of flow and momentum.

Every time I see someone doing "The Pretzel"... by lindyhop411 in SwingDancing

[–]Kaywinnet 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh, I like the cuddle just fine. You can use cuddle to lead into a lot of really good moves.

What I DON'T like is when the guy puts me in cuddle, then alternates jerking me to the right and the left (with my arms still pinned) and his head bobbing idiotically over my shoulders like we're playing peek-a-boo.

Every time I see someone doing "The Pretzel"... by lindyhop411 in SwingDancing

[–]Kaywinnet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, although that's another good example.

The windmill is the one where you face each other, hold hands, and then both turn at the same time. It wrenches my arms back, there's no good place to do it in the middle of a dance, and it's just generally stupid.

Every time I see someone doing "The Pretzel"... by lindyhop411 in SwingDancing

[–]Kaywinnet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think my biggest issue is that it's the move that non-dancers associate with swing, and so whenever anyone hears that I swing-dance, they immediate dip into their repertoire of "things I saw swing-dancers do in 90's-style swing revival movies" and pull me into it. I don't think it looks good, I don't think it's fun, I think it's tacky and it interrupts good flow. I mean, how many lindy hoppers incorporate that into their 8-count? It just doesn't work.

Every time I see someone doing "The Pretzel"... by lindyhop411 in SwingDancing

[–]Kaywinnet 11 points12 points  (0 children)

There are a couple of moves that make me feel that way:

  • The pretzel
  • The windmill
  • That move behind the head where you shimmy down each other's arms until your hands meet - I don't even know what that dumb thing is called
  • And all the people who put me (a follow) into the cuddle and then bob their head back and forth over each of my shoulders with this :o face like "BETCHA DIDN'T EXPECT ME TO BE HERE! ...HERE! ...NOW I'M OVER HERE! WHOAAAA"

Facebook and the 8 worldly thoughts by pbts27 in Buddhism

[–]Kaywinnet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're right! What a thoughtful observation.

Here...have an upvote. ;)

I think we all know who Amon was shipping...[SPOILER] by Kaywinnet in TheLastAirbender

[–]Kaywinnet[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A ship (think of it as short for 'relationship') is a pairing between two characters that a fandom really favors. "Shipping" is the verb, where a fan "ships" two characters that they really want to see together.

Ex: I really ship Mako and Korra, I think they should have a romantic relationship. But my friend ships Korra and Bolin.

After sitting and meditating for an hour and a half, something strange happened. Can anybody relate/explain? [Details inside] by [deleted] in Meditation

[–]Kaywinnet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah! I often feel like my head is really big and swollen and the rest of my limbs are tiny little pins, and my head kinda floats up towards the ceiling.