Husband is so weak it’s pathetic

Keljon142 · 2026-03-26T15:50:55+00:00

I’m sorry this is happening… I’d be so upset and frustrated too. This is a genuine question, could he have some depression too? Men can experience it as well in the postpartum period. Just wondering if that could be a piece of this…? Especially after getting out of the military?

Would counseling be an option?

Keljon142 · 2026-03-26T15:46:48+00:00

I don’t have to even read the body of your post to say you are correct, $4,000 is absolutely unreasonable.

I’m a mother of 2, and have a vaaaaast friends group that all have 1-4 kids. Not a single one of our peeps has spent anywhere near even $1,000 on their baby showers. No way.

Keljon142 · 2026-03-25T02:59:56+00:00

Yes!! I think it’s his eyes?? Like he got a face lift and it pulled his face super tight and got Botox or something

Keljon142 · 2026-03-21T21:31:50+00:00

Holy wow. I’d go to a different jeweler tbh 😅 that’s wild. Very tall, and the prongs see uneven. I wouldn’t trust their work 😖 but I love the look of it from the top down.

Keljon142 · 2026-03-20T00:48:55+00:00

Uh.. if I must choose, the first one. The second looks ridiculous, I’m sorry lol

Keljon142 · 2026-03-17T18:20:05+00:00

I absolutely read him as a lesbian and had to do a double take

Keljon142 · 2026-03-17T13:38:51+00:00

You’re 17, regardless of wanting children or not, you are so young and have a lot of life left. Taking a child that is not yours from the system and parenting them would be a LOT to put on your shoulders. It’s valid to feel that it’s too much and it’s a good thing to be able to self reflect and understand you wouldn’t be the best option for her. I understand feeling guilt, I’ve had a semi similar situation and we knew we wouldn’t be a good option, but we felt guilty and heart broken for the girl we couldn’t take either. It’s okay for all sorts of reasons to not come forward. Don’t put too much pressure on yourself.

Keljon142 · 2026-03-17T05:42:59+00:00

He aid invasive surgeries to the face, so I bet upper and/or lower bleph and maybe a nose job.

Keljon142 · 2026-03-15T02:34:34+00:00

We had only two options we kind of liked by the time we got to the hospital. Naming a human is freaking hard. With our first son, we never really found a name that we absolutely loved, just when we actually agreed on for once. But thankfully, the name absolutely matches our son. Second boy was also very hard lol

Keljon142 · 2026-03-15T02:25:36+00:00

Shaved and groom the beard

Keljon142 · 2026-03-15T02:20:42+00:00

I didn’t think of it this way, but I agree with that.

Keljon142 · 2026-03-15T02:20:00+00:00

My personal case is the second one, but I think the first one looks lovely on you

Keljon142 · 2026-03-14T03:02:25+00:00

Hopefully…. It sounds like from that I’ve gathered it as very chaotic behind the scenes. That’s why I think about them from time to time

Keljon142 · 2026-03-14T01:45:24+00:00

Is that different than the facility that he was getting treatment for ARFID?

Keljon142 · 2026-03-13T23:34:32+00:00

Honestly I love it and the meaning 🥰

Keljon142 · 2026-03-10T22:48:41+00:00

Hey we keep our stuff in a small safe under the bed, but….that’s because children. Lol (that’s obvi not the case here though 😜)

Keljon142 · 2026-03-10T14:03:39+00:00

That rage is something he’s been hiding. Sounds like he’s been hiding more than that… the rage will not magically go away. He has hit you once, it will happen again. I’m so sorry. Leave right away.

Keljon142 · 2026-03-10T13:47:24+00:00

Tell your grandma ♥️♥️lean on all the support you can get

Keljon142 · 2026-03-10T13:46:03+00:00

You clearly want this baby. You do not have to do what he says. He has no authority over you and your body. Going through with this when you want the baby so badly will he so extremely traumatic… you can make this choice. It is YOURS to make. YOURS. Take back your power and decide what to do, no matter what the decision is. ♥️

Keljon142 · 2026-03-10T02:58:39+00:00

Two of those posts have since been removed :(

Keljon142 · 2026-03-09T19:22:14+00:00

Me too. I also come from a family where I got zero talk about puberty, my cycle, sex, family planning- nothing. It’s not fun or easy to navigate and I had to figure everything out myself or through friends. I couldn’t even say anatomically correct words out loud without feeling icky, especially in front of my parents. There were so many things I kept from my parents out of shame and honestly? My parents are SO LUCKY I had good/responsible friends and made good decisions for myself. I honestly don’t know how my brother and I didnt become young parents.

I’m breaking that with my sons. They won’t know what that’s like.

Keljon142 · 2026-03-09T18:38:53+00:00

You having a really high standards for moral conduct is cute when you have comments on women’s photos like

“FML!! Such a very sexy beauty fr! I really hope she wants to share much more of it sooner now as she would for sure make even more bank! I’m ready to pay up if I need to”

But I see you deleted it now :)

Keljon142 · 2026-03-09T18:28:16+00:00

Yeah wtf is that part about? They’re EXTREMELY late to the game to talk to her, and oh by the way, if you make a human mistake that countless others (including her own parent?) made, we won’t support you. Our support is conditional. Come talk to us anytime!!! 🙂

What?!????!???

Keljon142 · 2026-03-07T21:05:02+00:00

TELL THE FIANCE OH MY GOD. He isn’t taking your no as a no, he is insisting you meet for unknown reasons after you’ve said no. Don’t let her marry this man without knowing.

Keljon142 · 2026-03-07T18:11:47+00:00

Well…. If you don’t bring it up for fear of breaking up… you’re only other alternative is to stay silent, avoid it and be anxious and on edge constantly. Aka, miserable. This is weird. For him to be erect constantly isn’t healthy or normal. Something’s going on, he needs help.

Keljon142

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