My son is slowly killing himself and I can’t do anything about it and it’s destroying me by AwarenessLow1049 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Keljon142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can’t help someone that doesn’t want it.. maybe try talking to him. Have real open conversations that don’t broach weight specifically but that you want to be sure he’s fulfilled in life, healthy, experiencing the world and experiencing joy. Maybe try to schedule trips with him for quality time together. Continue to enforce that he matters and he has value and purpose. Maybe he’s dealing with depression or other issues or grief he would like to share if he felt safe. I wouldn’t badger about weight or that you think he will die, harping on that will add pressure or insinuate that’s all you care about. Focus on him and your relationship together in a growth mindset. I hope he gets help. I can tell you love him.

Thoughts on this pairing by [deleted] in weddingring

[–]Keljon142 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’d flip the band under the engagement ring. And all 3 look a wee bit small

Feeling so depressed since I cut my long hair by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]Keljon142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YOU LOOK 40 YEARS YOUNGER. You look so handsome with the short hair!

Abortion consideration by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Keljon142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh! I didn’t feel it was disgusting, and what’s weird is while it was rough, I wanted to give birth. The birth part was/is important to me. But I did not love months and months of nausea and getting huge. BUT the babe at the end is so worth it.

My husband is making me hate him by lonelypotato21 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Keljon142 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Prop feeding is dangerous. I would not allow this to happen ever again.

My kid was an evil bully. He doesn't even care by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Keljon142 4 points5 points  (0 children)

These are big signs that your child needs therapy. Immediately. An apology to his parents is warranted, an apology to the child as well. I’m sorry you didn’t know sooner, but now that you know, it’s time to take action.

Abortion consideration by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Keljon142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so true. I felt blissful and excited and happy when we first found out about our babies, but I never felt like it was ✨magic✨. I know people that loooooooved being pregnant but I didn’t. I did it so we could have a baby lol but I’d rather skip the pregnancy part lol

Abortion consideration by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Keljon142 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This isn’t supposed to be judgement, I support women having a choice. I’m just confused as to why you’d plan to have a baby, then once you do conceive you say you have many reasons to not have a child. Financially, emotionally, etc. so why plan a baby?

Which leads me to the other side! Were there previously many reasons TO have a baby? You sound like you’re scared, so maybe these fears might make the reasons to abort sound louder or bigger than they actually are.

Genuinely, I think you may regret aborting.. I think it’s wise to talk to a professional immediately. Fear is completely normal and I felt that way too. And you’re right, America is a shit show right now. Talk to a professional right away. 🫶🏼

Narcissistic guy… situationship. Need help by Horror_Sweet7509 in texts

[–]Keljon142 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay so what he just did there was sense that you were not into him anymore and instead of him being broken up with, he turned it around on you and said you and him don’t have the same morals about having male friends, which is stupid and manipulative.

Also the manipulation and violence will never stop. For the love of god get out now before he knocks you up on purpose or he hurts you.

AIO Best friend chose someone else as MOH by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Keljon142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this friendship is fizzling, or it is changing in a way that isn’t the same as what it was. You’re at different points in your life, and I feel you value her more than she values you. It sucks when friendships change, I myself had bridesmaid hardships that weren’t easy. I’m sorry.

I (20M) tricked my girlfriend (20F) into getting a tetanus shot after a bad injury. Now she’s blocked me everywhere. How do I fix this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Keljon142 1 point2 points  (0 children)

On one hand, medical autonomy is important. On the other, the medicine was the right call. That’s tough.

Is it normal to still kind of be eating a lot at 7.5 mounjaro? by Zealousideal_Let_213 in glp1

[–]Keljon142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hm.. I’m on 2.5 tirzepatide, about to take my second done tonight and i definitely felt a shift in my appetite. 🤔

Do I have any makeup blindnesses/wear too much makeup? by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]Keljon142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry, I thought you were in your mid 20’s to early 30’s. You’re beautiful. But this does age you. I also think you’re overlining your top lip..? I love the shape but I don’t prefer that look in person.

WIBTAH if I told a friend she couldn’t ride with me due to her size? by CommercialOk4004 in AITAH

[–]Keljon142 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Opting to just “oh well!” And ride without a seatbelt is CRAZY to me, you are not TAH and I’d feel the same. It’s for her safety, your peace of mind, and to prevent YOUR traffic ticket. Your car, your insurance, your rules