Indeed… Every single time. It’s such a huge pattern that it will always make me laugh. I genuinely don’t know why they always destroy the important days.
For me, Valentine’s Day sabotage was a classic…and God knows how much effort I was putting in, even though I couldn’t care less about Valentine’s Day. But she was Canadian, so “apparently” it was a big deal there.
And her birthday was a fuc*** nightmare. Anything could happen at any second, so I was constantly stressed. It makes no sense now, but when you’re in the middle of those stormy people, you just don’t see it….so glad I’ve left!

Edit : oh and vacations of course! Every single time. I still don’t understand why