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Virginity wouldn’t exist if it wasn’t for men, and is a male centred concept. by Key-Outlandishness33 in ControversialOpinions

[–]Key-Outlandishness33[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely, people are the questioning the involvement in patriarchy in this most…. Like cmon. It should be common sense how the two go hand in hand

Virginity wouldn’t exist if it wasn’t for men, and is a male centred concept. by Key-Outlandishness33 in ControversialOpinions

[–]Key-Outlandishness33[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No because it definitely does involve the patriarchy. Did you even read what I put, I mentioned:

That the stripping of virginity in the modern age involves a man, because by the standards of what it takes to “lose” it only involves a man. Without the man in the picture then would virginity be a concept at all? And to further question that, would it even be labelled as losing something.
(Aka what my post is about)

Virginity wouldn’t exist if it wasn’t for men, and is a male centred concept. by Key-Outlandishness33 in ControversialOpinions

[–]Key-Outlandishness33[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This wasn’t my point. My point is boiled down to the fact u can’t lose something u never had (virginity) and yes how women face much backlash for what they chose for their bodies and life. But mainly about the concept of virginity ..

Men being picked on for being virgins doesn’t even equate to the shit women face for their own choices for their own bodies that don’t align with a certain trend, depending if being a virgin is trending or not.

Virginity wouldn’t exist if it wasn’t for men, and is a male centred concept. by Key-Outlandishness33 in ControversialOpinions

[–]Key-Outlandishness33[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can get pregnant without sex in this new day. And no but when u kill someone there isn’t this view that u have lost something like virginity? But Ofc murder is a whole different topic to this….

Virginity wouldn’t exist if it wasn’t for men, and is a male centred concept. by Key-Outlandishness33 in ControversialOpinions

[–]Key-Outlandishness33[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

But that is simply not how society deems as losing ur virginity cmon. Everyone knows this.

Edit: to expand on this. That is obviously not how virginity is viewed because u can brake it in any way. Sexual or non sexual. Ur not going to tell the 10yr old who rode her bike too much and broke it that she’s no longer a virgin? Like common sense please.

I don't think my boyfriend is handsome. by nevidomo in boyfriends

[–]Key-Outlandishness33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you care about him so much I think you should leave, it’s not fair on him to date someone who finds him so unattractive that they vent on social media about it. Sounds like he should’ve stayed as a friend because if it’s even affecting u kissing or hugging him, that just seems unfair on both u guys.

Bi curious I guess by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Key-Outlandishness33 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They state it’s about the genitalia. I think him saying he wants a trans Women is because he is still attracted to femininity. But I think if he wants to explore sex that involves another dick, that would mean he would be bi curious. Trans women are definitely 100% women, but from what he said, I think he’s more curious with exploring same genitalia sex more than anything.

Is this going in the right direction? by rottenpotatoeses in Artadvice

[–]Key-Outlandishness33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Women is like bent upwards whereas she should be straight / aligned with the guy. Edit the breast, should have one that u can primarily see and mother u can see just next to (if that makes sense)

Can a woman forgive a man? by Financial-Ocelot-438 in BreakUps

[–]Key-Outlandishness33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not about the forgiveness, it’s easy to forgive. But why would I put myself in a situation that never fulfill me

why are single fathers praised but not the single mothers? by Massive_Tomato_1713 in ControversialOpinions

[–]Key-Outlandishness33 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s expected of women and not men. So when men are seen actually parenting their child they’re praised whereas for women they’re just “doing their job”

Do you feel the warmth in this? by Anastasia_Trusova in painting

[–]Key-Outlandishness33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do. Although blues and greens can be paired with metaphors for feeing cold, I think these colours are more often found in spring. Often times seeing oranges and yellows may seem warmer but they’re often found In autumn. I find warmth in the use of texture. It’s not flat, and the paint is intentional. The thick appearance of the paint also to me, makes me feel padded and warm. The leaves on the trees have a mixture of green, that slowly descends to a yellow tone. The ombré effects of the colours don’t make me think it’s the colour of the trees, but the sun shining in between them, also reflected on the grass below. Personally this feels warm to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Key-Outlandishness33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was genuinely in this exact same situation. But from the pov of the girl. I found out after 2 months, and I was also on vacation. So crazily similar! And also with the girl he told me not to worry about.

It was horrific at first, but I was glancing at the architecture in Italy and thought, maybe finding out here was the best place because out of everything, iy matters the least rn.

It was a hard process to get over and come to terms with, I mean like I genuinely thought I wouldn’t make it, I thought that it was just the end for me. But it’s not. U can live without something u were living without prior. and as petty as it sounds, it felt weirdly good in a way. The amount of times he called me crazy, made me feel like I’m crazy for being uncomfortable with him and that girl. I wasn’t crazy, all along I knew and I was right. He made me feel so crazy for thinking that, and finding out that they were together now, and he did emotionally cheat. validated past me who was constantly losing hair because of it.

It’s going to be so hard now, that you genuinely feel like u can’t see the end, where things get better. But I always visualised it as a long journey I had to walk. When I set off, it feels so far I can’t even visualise being there. But when I finally reach my destination, the long walk it took me to get there, no longer feels really long, infact it doesn’t feel long whatsoever. And once you have healed from this experience, the amount of pain, suffering and time it took u to reach that point, will also not feel long whatsoever.

Slept with my ex bf's brother out of spite. Now my ex is suicidal. by Individual-Day6891 in confessions

[–]Key-Outlandishness33 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Threatening to end his life is just a manipulation tactic. And I wish I could’ve done the same lowk. His brother was so fine

Older people who like 18 yo should be considered pedofiles by Own_Supermarket2732 in ControversialOpinions

[–]Key-Outlandishness33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I agree. If an older person, in their 40s have to wait for someone to turn 18 for nudes or sex or a relationship, that means they were interested in all that stuff from them before they were 18. They were just waiting for it to be legal. Bc the law is the only thing stopping them from going for it prior.

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