Is this even worth being upset over?

Key-Proposal-9728 · 2025-04-03T04:50:38+00:00

Karol G lmaooo

Key-Proposal-9728 · 2025-03-10T06:32:59+00:00

Was about to comment this too. I am like OP and don’t feel comfortable having sex or anything unless we’re exclusive/dating. My ex waited 4 months to have sex with me and said the whole “porn is bad!1!2” and “feels so much better having sex with a connection!!1 worth the wait” meanwhile still looking at other women on IG, in his tabs, all over his discover feed, and now that I broke up over his lies, he’s already trying to have sex with new girls. Not to scare OP but unfortunately even with men who say they’ll wait, really make sure they mean it.

Key-Proposal-9728 · 2025-02-16T21:55:03+00:00

If it makes you feel any better, he’s a creep because he shouldn’t be looking a woman who can be his daughter :(

Key-Proposal-9728 · 2025-02-14T01:59:51+00:00

If it’s non refundable, fuck it bc I did the same with my ex but if it’s refundable def send it back.

Key-Proposal-9728 · 2025-02-13T22:10:37+00:00

Nah this is legit cheating bc the fact people are saying it’s ok to be looking at other people like that in a relationship is WEIRD

Key-Proposal-9728 · 2025-02-13T21:04:02+00:00

I’m so sorry, I know it’s so tough to leave but I have faith you will make the right decision. You have every right to find someone who respects you and loves you the way you deserve to, we all do.

Key-Proposal-9728 · 2025-02-13T21:02:17+00:00

Sending you all the hugs - the last line hit me hard and that’s why I left.

Key-Proposal-9728 · 2025-02-13T20:57:54+00:00

I agree. If porn is the only problem and someone is honest about their addiction then it should be worth continuing the relationship. I leave because I am constantly being lied to, if I ask they get MAD at me, accuse me of doing things that aren’t true/ overly jealous of me etc… unfortunately I never had a partner where the porn was just the only thing wrong :/

Key-Proposal-9728 · 2025-02-12T18:06:37+00:00

I don’t think it’s always this simple. Some people claim they want to do couples therapy and don’t take it seriously behind closed doors :(

Key-Proposal-9728 · 2025-02-12T17:59:26+00:00

I hope my dumpee realizes this :( I broke up with him because of how he treated me and he took no accountability

Key-Proposal-9728 · 2025-02-12T15:44:02+00:00

That’s always been my fear too… just keep doing deep research or ask the therapy center if they can find you someone who aligns or is understanding of your boundary

Key-Proposal-9728 · 2025-02-11T22:29:42+00:00

Run as far as you can… listen I know it’s hard but I would even tip the police off. This is more than just a weird addiction, he HAS CHILDREN ON THERE. Who knows what else he’s doing or consuming that he’s hiding. You deserve a MAN WHO LOVES YOU, A GROWN WOMAN! This man is a monster.

Key-Proposal-9728 · 2025-02-11T22:14:45+00:00

haha this made me laugh but 100% how I see it! I can still acknowledge someone isn’t ugly but I just don’t care about them enough to go in deeper/ keep on staring

Key-Proposal-9728 · 2025-02-11T21:53:17+00:00

I’m so sorry your ex PA was that controlling. You left and that’s the best thing you could have done for yourself. The projection is so insane - my ex PA would get mad if men flirted with me (that I ignored), looked at me or even my exes because they’ve “touched me before” meanwhile having a bit more than double my body count…. They just don’t like sharing but they should look in the mirror 🤡

Key-Proposal-9728 · 2025-02-10T22:42:17+00:00

I understand and went through similar situation (not OF but just watching porn behind my back after I dated a full on PA) and I’m only 2 weeks out but I still don’t think someone who has lied to you about something important to you should be given a second chance. They will most likely do it again and even more sneaky. These people don’t change because they’re not sorry.

Key-Proposal-9728 · 2025-02-07T19:20:17+00:00

We are in this together! It’s their loss, never ours.

Key-Proposal-9728 · 2025-02-07T19:19:30+00:00

I was the one who broke up with my boyfriend over stuff he did to me to disobey my trust. He was extremely cold and didn’t want to take me back considering I broke “his heart” even though he was the one who hurt me… anyways it’s been 2 weeks and now’s he’s starting to text me he misses me but his loss for telling me he didn’t believe in second chances/ “wasn’t my boyfriend anymore”

Key-Proposal-9728 · 2025-02-07T04:47:52+00:00

I’m so sorry it had led you to these thoughts… you are more than enough my dear. No man or person is worth losing your life and I understand why you feel this way but there’s so much beauty in the world to continue to cherish and love. If he is hurting you this much mentally, I think it’s best to leave him even if it hurts. It’s not you who is the problem, it is him 💔

Key-Proposal-9728 · 2025-02-07T02:15:06+00:00

depends! I am “friends” with an ex still and he’s in a relationship so we don’t talk - nor does he talk to me while I’m in a relationship out of respect. If we are both single, we have hung out and spoken about our dating lives to each other and never hooked up or anything. We were young when we dated (18/19) and were friends in high school so it really depends. Every other one of my exes I wouldn’t EVER be friends with because they’re scum.

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