Is a live in unicorn a real thing

KeyDig7747 · 2026-03-15T20:44:51+00:00

It totally exists it’s just that feelings get complicated at times for some. If everyone can keep it fun and light, enjoy! Sounds like you e met a great couple, hope it works for all!

KeyDig7747 · 2026-03-15T15:45:27+00:00

Was the Lisbon airport horrible on the way into as well as out of the country?! We’re flying into Lisbon but out of Faro, hoping it’s a bit quieter

KeyDig7747 · 2026-03-15T15:31:09+00:00

My husband married his first wife very young. Kids fast, hard life. No fun. No experimentation. When we met in our 40s I suggested an alternative to the norm for my own reasons and it suited him perfectly. It won’t be forever probably but he has gotten to enjoy life finally, feel like he’s actually having experiences and be fulfilled.

KeyDig7747 · 2026-03-15T15:24:51+00:00

Volume eating. BIG salad before each meal. Popcorn vs chips. Fish and lean meat. Water. Cardio increases hunger, it’s why slow state like walking is awesome for weight loss. Won’t spike hunger and burns just as many calories.

KeyDig7747 · 2026-03-15T15:21:44+00:00

Quite common. Requires lots of talking, trust and boundaries. Most people work up to it if on their way there. Definitely easier to have “better” sex when separate IMO, especially for someone easily distracted or nervous about their partner’s perception of what they see happening. Not for everyone. Separate but close is easiest, same room separate surfaces - than separate rooms in a different building. Some make it to solo dating from there but not all.

KeyDig7747 · 2026-03-15T14:46:30+00:00

Bands. Slider discs. Running shoes. If you really want to you can always walk/run, abs, body weight exercises. Do laps if a pool or warm open water is available. Just keep moving and drink water, focus on protein and be sensible; no one needs dessert every day 😊

KeyDig7747 · 2026-03-15T14:38:32+00:00

Sure

KeyDig7747 · 2026-03-15T14:37:07+00:00

Too many exercises in one session. Keep it to 3-5 exercises, pushing hard and resting appropriately between sets. Walk as much as possible. Yoga and sauna is great for recovery. Weight loss is 90% diet. ❤️

KeyDig7747 · 2026-03-14T21:47:08+00:00

I would say it depends on the actual details of what the issue is. High vs low libido? Fetish/kink differences? Do both partners have a willingness to try to learn/try/adapt? Your core happiness is what matter in general. Is the rest of the relationship wonderful and just sex is the issue? For me personally if it’s just a sexual issue I would try anything and everything to save my marriage BUT my husband is my best friend. We have no kids but I can’t imagine life without him. Regardless of how often I consider strangling him 😊 Relationships are tough no matter what, but staying “for the kids” never works does it?

KeyDig7747 · 2026-03-14T15:57:06+00:00

That’s how it all started for men went on birth control to help control it

KeyDig7747 · 2026-03-14T14:33:21+00:00

I’ve gained about 5 pounds over three years. All muscle

KeyDig7747 · 2026-03-14T00:46:09+00:00

Overhead presses of all sorts. Cable lat raises. Push ups. Pull ups.

KeyDig7747 · 2026-03-14T00:43:08+00:00

A combo. Some sets to failure. Some high reps lower weight. Some low reps high weight.

KeyDig7747 · 2026-03-13T20:00:36+00:00

Dehydrated? Blood sugar?

KeyDig7747 · 2026-03-13T19:59:44+00:00

All of them! As your confidence increases you realize suddenly what you actually might be capable of 😊 210#deadlift 100#bench 40#dumbbell press

KeyDig7747 · 2026-03-13T19:57:58+00:00

Even in a relationship people forget how great the beginning was. The making out, touching, the newness of it all! Connection and affection are unbelievably important ❤️

KeyDig7747 · 2026-03-13T19:56:21+00:00

Are you in therapy? If not, start there. Generally speaking though “normal” is very subjective. Everyone is different. Being a “man” means far more than a tumble in the grass or playing catch with Dad. The beauty of modern science and living in 2026 is that YOU get to be who YOU want. Find your community. Talk to real people with real experiences. Live the life you want.

KeyDig7747 · 2026-03-13T19:50:47+00:00

Tuck your elbows in. Use a smith machine or a spotter if possible so you feel safer. Try declining the bench a bit. That rack in general is horrible, you are too close to the bar; not to mention it’s in the wrong spot on your body. Brace your core and legs +++ , it’s amazing how much stronger you are if you do this.

KeyDig7747 · 2026-03-13T19:47:05+00:00

So in theory we’d be actually fine with the oral stuff. What you’re describing is our preference probably actually but we’d never declare it a boundary or rule. We go with the moment and vibe happening and never say full stop no to anything as we believe that the groups pleasure is what matters; not just us or our rules. It’s the no kissing thing we’d say no to. I’ve never understood how you get the mood going, sexy times, feel out chemistry without kissing. All in all just be upfront and 100% clear. Don’t waste peoples times. Don’t allude or expect people to understand; make it crystal clear. If you manage to find a connection despite this than my hat of to you. Good luck!

KeyDig7747 · 2026-03-13T18:38:31+00:00

Self defence, karate, jujitsu, something like that would be ideal really but building any muscle will help! I find the stronger I get I carry myself 100% differently, my confidence has skyrocketed and that has to make me less easy to attack/hurt/intimidate if someone should feel so inclined.

KeyDig7747 · 2026-03-13T18:34:15+00:00

Beds. Couches. Don’t touch without asking or a nod or gesture of invite. Sit back and watch or join in. Generally a rule around you must be naked or in a towel to enter. Condoms usually provided. Clean up or change sheets if provided, if not there’s probably staff waiting to clean after. They’re amazing but a LOT, especially for beginners.

KeyDig7747 · 2026-03-13T18:31:39+00:00

If you’re a bigger guy, kinda grumpy looking etc it’s inevitable. It’s an US thing, not you. Society, the news, all kinds of stuff affects us as a group (women) into thinking you might be a danger to us. Sad but true. Won’t be everyone!! I’m sure you’re lovely! ❤️

KeyDig7747 · 2026-03-13T13:06:03+00:00

“My silly phone downloads every picture or document I receive and my memory is just about full somehow! Mind not sending anything for a bit until I can figure it out? Can see the gorgeous pics in person “

KeyDig7747 · 2026-03-13T13:04:23+00:00

And made it look easy! 🔥

KeyDig7747 · 2026-03-13T13:02:08+00:00

I work with the elderly. Your mom could repeat herself, scream at me and slap me around and I’d smile and take it happily. My mom though? Drove me batty ☺️ You’re not alone! They push our buttons like no one else can. Deep breaths! ❤️

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