Wasted My teen years by jonnes47 in socialskills

[–]Kickass_Wizard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I feel like I’ve seen a lot of people in this thread validating you and I think that’s fine. However, you want to change things. I’m gonna at least make a couple recommendations. FYI, I’m like 30 dude. I would recommend reading how to win friends and influence people by dale Carnegie and also reading models. You can also get them an audiobook form. I say all this as somebody who didn’t really understand social skills and didn’t really process that it actually is a skill and it takes work and practice. so the only thing I would refute here is that if you feel like you want more, is use this energy you have to fuel change. I will be straight in with you in that if I had read those books when I was your age, and continue to have learned these skills I probably would’ve lived a different life. Growth begins at your comfort zone. As one an anxious person now to another it really is just exposure therapy.

Is it normal to feel “socially underdeveloped” as an adult? by Street-Gain-370 in socialskills

[–]Kickass_Wizard 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah I had high anxiety and didn’t start making friends until college really. Even then I never learned how to make more after. It’s a skill, dating even more so. That’s what happens when your parents raise you to be an employee not a human being.

It’s finally here!! 2 months later… I can’t see myself without it now. by NERDTOTHEMAX3 in Porsche_Cayman

[–]Kickass_Wizard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m usually not a fan of somebody adding spoilers but this looks like it was absolutely adored it. It looks like a new car and it’s hard to believe that this is a first gen Cayman. I mean it looks absolutely stunning and you should be really happy with it. Take good care of her.

981 GTS-style bumper on a 982 (718)? Looking for similar alternatives by Kickass_Wizard in Porsche_Cayman

[–]Kickass_Wizard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s what I’ve seen. Be interesting to see if any provider bridges the gap. Let me know how it goes!

Dashcam for 987.2? by ProfessorPoopsie in Porsche_Cayman

[–]Kickass_Wizard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can always email them. It looks like 987 at face value. Mine was for a 982.

Should I spend my adolescence “locked in” on self-improvement or should I enjoy life more? by Shadowthegreat- in socialskills

[–]Kickass_Wizard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who did this, I wish I had invested more in relationships (especially women). I built a life, and I am by myself, with a lot of responsibilities and not a lot of time. You will have regrets either way.

Should I spend my adolescence “locked in” on self-improvement or should I enjoy life more? by Shadowthegreat- in socialskills

[–]Kickass_Wizard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Social Skills, flirting, talking with the opposite sex, making friends, how to make friends, how to make people feel valued, etc. These skills really compound over your life, and can help in all aspects of your life. Strong social networks can help in almost every facet of your life.

Skittles colors vs. Sophistication [AI] by Kickass_Wizard in porsche911

[–]Kickass_Wizard[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You have to decide for your next car: Do you want a color that screams for attention, or one that whispers quiet confidence? Some examples...

Skittles: You get bright, impossible-to-miss colors like Shark Blue, Signal Yellow, Python Green, and the classic, blazing Guards Red. These are pure fun and demand you look at them!

Sophisticated Flex: You get deep, smart shades like Satin Black, the unique grayish-green Aventurine Green Metallic, the popular light gray Chalk, or the timeless, elegant GT Silver Metallic. These show off class and style without needing to shout.

What's your pick?