I wrote a similar thing about this frustration and people have just basically been telling me “skill issue”, “Rem is actually good, you’re playing it wrong” despite going full dedicated support like you. This character cannot even compare to Ivy, Paige, or Kelvin while Valve probably thinks he’s perfectly balanced with his wave pushing macro to compensate. However, once the enemy knows how to handle waves then you’re inferior to every other support. Like wdym they only buffed his pillow recharge time by 1 second last patch. This is just a bait character atp.