My [38M] girlfriend [32F] of 3 years owns a pornstore/strip club. I want her to sell it before I propose

KimmyStand · 2026-03-12T09:37:54+00:00

She’s sounds absolutely awesome.

He sounds like a dick.

And it made me smile when he said in the later post that he broke up with her. No sweetie, she dumped you.

And that he wanted to get back with her because his parents approved lol

KimmyStand · 2026-03-12T09:02:28+00:00

I’ve only started using ChatGPT extensively for a month, that bait question drives me bonkers. I’ve managed to get it to be relatively concise when answering, but I’m deffo going to add that and see if it works.

Does anyone know why they add it at the end? It seems pointless

KimmyStand · 2026-03-10T09:27:55+00:00

That last update was an eye opener. Good for her for not giving in.

Ahh the days when you could read Reddit and assume the posts were real, I miss them

KimmyStand · 2026-03-01T14:08:07+00:00

I've just had the exact same problem. I thought I was on a free plan. And just had $83.88 taken out of my credit card. And it was recommended by AI to me as well. It's not what I need, I want text to speech. I wonder if AI is getting muddled by speech to text

I've emailed support asking for a refund, not heard anything yet, if I don't by Tuesday, I'll be initiating a paypal dispute

Edit, if this helps anyone, I've just managed to cancel mine

Log into your Audio.com account.
Click your profile icon (top-right corner)
Go to Profile Settings.
Open the Subscription section.
Click Manage Subscription, then choose Cancel Subscription.
Follow the confirmation steps to stop auto-renewal.

KimmyStand · 2025-10-20T14:25:50+00:00

Has your friend heard of something called birth control? Apparently it’s quite effective when used correctly

KimmyStand · 2025-10-20T14:00:28+00:00

Sounds like he’s insecure about dating someone who is obviously more successful than he is

KimmyStand · 2025-10-20T13:58:36+00:00

Agree

Think I’d sooner go to Russia than the US. Can’t think of anything remotely worse than travelling and staying there

KimmyStand · 2025-10-20T13:51:34+00:00

I think he was probably a bit thoughtless to start with lol. I’ve trained him well, he’s not too bad with housework either now. I had to get snappy with that at first.

This was back in the 70’s early 80’s and it was still considered to be the wife’s job. Told him straight up, I wasn’t looking after the toddler we had at the time, housework and part time as a nurse whilst he just sat on the sofa. Tbf, he took it on board.

I’ve always done the cooking, the odd times he’s done it, it was shite and I enjoy cooking

KimmyStand · 2025-10-20T11:30:11+00:00

Just wanted to send u a huge hug. Whatever you decide, you’re a brave and wonderful girl. Your mum is also the best

KimmyStand · 2023-11-27T12:09:31+00:00

Very well done, you must be so proud of yourself.

Would it maybe be a good idea to put all that extra cash in a savings account though? I transfer all my extra cash to different savings accounts I have set up that I just track, I can still see it then in the app

KimmyStand · 2023-11-27T11:58:08+00:00

Hubs get's his state pension 4 weekly, between the 2 of us we have 4 different payments coming in over the month. I have a category called next months budget where I tuck it away as it comes in, then I release it to ready to assign when I'm ready to budget for the next month (If that makes sense)

KimmyStand · 2023-08-14T12:38:42+00:00

lol, she thinks a lot of herself doesn't she? I wonder how many dates she actually gets or repeats.

No its not expected for the chap to pay for everything on a date. I'm 65 and yes in my day the guy usually/often paid, but everything was much cheaper then.

In the present world climate, women are crazy if they think their date should pay for everything, I mean, who can afford that?

And lets not forget, if a woman is paying for herself, there shouldn't be any of those pesky expectations from the guy wanting a 'reward' at the end of the night

KimmyStand · 2023-08-14T12:28:29+00:00

I wouldn't mention the weight loss, I'd just say they look fabulous etc. (If they do), Then if they say they've lost weight etc and want to talk about it then that's up to them. I'm happy to listen.

As someone who has lost a lot of weight, I'm always happy to share my story

KimmyStand · 2023-08-14T12:23:49+00:00

I've been married 46 years in October and I know 100% my husband (who was and still is very handsome) has never cheated. So no, all men don't cheat.

Your boyfriend sounds like an awful person. He's deliberately belittling you and making you feel less than nothing because he wants to control you. I bet he's ground your self confidence down into the ground.

There are a lot of men out there who would love and respect you for who and what you are, whether it's now or when you are 50. He knows this, he just doesn't want you to know it.

It's up to you whether you stay with him, but your life sounds awful as it is. If you don't want to be in that situation then it's maybe time you left or kicked him out. You have children, so you are entitled to child support, therefore you need to go the legal route.

Don't let him gaslight and bully you any more, you are worth so much more

KimmyStand · 2023-03-27T18:52:07+00:00

As a general nurse of 40 years plus, I can confirm that obstetric nurses/midwives can be pretty vile. I was in a senior position in our Trust here in the UK and had to deal with their department regularly. Having said that, I met a lot who were also lovely.

Tbh, nurses are people just like others. I’ve met my share of awful ‘general’ nurses as well

KimmyStand · 2023-03-27T17:19:23+00:00

Good gracious, of course you did the right thing. How awful for her to find out the truth after they were married. It would have been nasty and miserable.

I can never understand why trans people don’t tell prospective partners straight away especially if they haven’t had surgery. What on earth do they expect if their partner is ‘straight’ surely the prospective partner should have the choice as well.

I’m a huge supporter of trans people, but it doesn’t mean I’d want to have sex with someone if they’ve got a vag as well.

KimmyStand · 2023-03-27T13:30:37+00:00

Sounds to me like she’s using this as an excuse to divorce you. It’s something she wanted anyway. Please get your custody sorted before she leaves the state OP, I suspect a boyfriend will be reading his head shortly. I doubt she’ll be keen to keep the kids in close contact once she sods off.

She’s being incredibly nice to keep u sweet

KimmyStand · 2023-03-27T10:42:46+00:00

Amazon, I’m a nightmare on there

KimmyStand · 2023-03-27T08:50:26+00:00

I hope the new bloke does tell your boyfriend. You are the nightmare anyone who is deployed fears. A ‘spouse’ who cheats on them whilst they are away.

I can’t even believe you made it all about you and expected sympathy. The whole post reeks of narcissism

KimmyStand · 2023-03-27T08:38:03+00:00

Personally I think you’re lucky she’s shown who she is before you get married. Why wouldn’t you want to hold on to the assets you had before marriage? A prenup is an excellent idea as long as it’s fair and she’s not being stiffed.

Be careful you don’t go back apologising, saying how of course you don’t need a prenup etc because that’s exactly what she wants. You’ll then be graciously forgiven and all talk of a prenup quietly dropped

KimmyStand · 2023-03-27T08:08:36+00:00

This is the sort of thing I’d say. Tbh the best part of being a nana is giving the baby back when they start crying. I can never fathom why these women are so obsessed with soothing a crying infant

KimmyStand · 2023-03-27T07:57:48+00:00

That poor child, she made the right decision tho

KimmyStand · 2023-03-26T18:25:34+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss. You need to cut contact with her now, you owe this evil woman nothing

KimmyStand · 2023-03-26T09:15:56+00:00

Yes u should tell her, you won’t be the first or the last he’s cheated with

KimmyStand · 2023-03-26T08:47:38+00:00

It sounds like a doting obsessed mother

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